MJ Murray Vachon LCSW
Creating Midlife Calm: Coping Skills for Stress & Anxiety in Family, Work & Relationships
Coping Skills for Midlife Stress and Anxiety in Family, Work & Relationships Forget the midlife crisis—how about creating midlife calm ? The anxiety and stress of this life stage can drain your energy, fuel overthinking, and make it hard to enjoy what should be the best years of your life. This podcast offers practical coping skills to help you reduce anxiety, manage stress, and rediscover a calmer, more confident version of yourself. In Creating Midlife Calm , you’ll discover how to: Be happier, more present, and more effective at home and work. Transform stress and anxiety into powerful tool...
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MJ Murray Vachon LCSW
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Jul 10, 2026
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Ep. 183 How Daily Chores in Midlife Fuel Stress & Anxiety & the Free Coping Skill That Helps 11.08.2025 12:40
Are daily chores leaving you overwhelmed and anxious in midlife? There’s a free tool that can feel like a coping skill when life starts to pile up. In this episode, you’ll discover: How to use one simple, free tool to break down overwhelming household tasks into calm, manageable steps Why this tool helps reduce decision fatigue and supports your mental clarity without replacing your inner voice Ho...
Ep. 182 Create a Peaceful Morning Routine to Decrease Midlife Stress and Anxiety & Reduce Family Chaos With THESE Proven Coping Skills 07.08.2025 14:33
Are your mornings setting the tone for anxiety—or for calm? Peaceful mornings aren’t a personality trait—they’re a midlife leadership skill you can learn and teach. In this episode, you’ll discover: 1. How to use coping skills that shift your mornings from chaos to calm 2. Why peaceful mornings begin the night before—with structure and buy-in 3. How to lead your household like a lighth...
Ep. 181 – 3 Midlife Coping Skills to Manage Back-to-School Stress & Anxiety Without Passing It On to Your Family 04.08.2025 11:03
Are you dreading the back-to-school transition—and noticing it’s affecting your whole household? Back-to-school doesn’t have to mean breakdowns. You can lead with calm instead of chaos. In this episode, you’ll discover: 1. The value of naming your feelings about back-to-school. 2. How understanding the difference between stress and anxiety can help you get sh*t done. 3. Why your leade...
Ep. 180 – How to Match the Right Coping Skill to Stress vs. Anxiety in Midlife So You Feel Better Now 31.07.2025 13:22
Are you using the wrong coping skill for what you’re actually feeling? Stress and anxiety may look similar on the outside—but they need very different responses to truly feel better. In this episode, you’ll discover: How to tell whether you’re feeling stress or anxiety in real-time Why using the WRONG coping skill won't work for stress / anxiety A simple guide to matching the right coping ski...
Ep. 179 Is It Anxiety or Stress? The First Step to Choosing the Right Coping Skills in Midlife 28.07.2025 10:38
Are you using the wrong coping skill for what you’re actually feeling? Understanding the difference between stress and anxiety can help you respond more effectively and feel calmer faster. In this episode, you’ll discover: How to recognize the difference between stress and anxiety in your body and mind Why coping skills that help with stress can make anxiety worse—and vice versa Two powerful quest...
Ep. 178 Two science-backed coping skills that calm stress & anxiety fast in Midlife 24.07.2025 12:23
Are your quick-fix habits like snacking, scrolling, or venting actually increasing your anxiety? Most midlife coping habits bring temporary comfort—but they can sabotage your long-term calm. In this episode, you’ll discover: Two free, science-backed coping skills that calm anxiety fast A simple coping skill to decrease your stress response and boost sleep A 90-second habit to ground yourself when...
Ep. 177 The 3 Midlife Anxiety Coping Skills That Backfire & Make Your Anxiety & Stress WORSE, and What To Do Instead 21.07.2025 12:26
Why do the most common anxiety fixes leave you feeling even worse? Because they offer quick relief—but actually reinforce the anxiety cycle, especially in midlife. In this episode, you’ll discover: The neuroscience behind why 3 common coping skills you're using actually increase anxiety instead of easing it. How these coping habits form early in life and silently shape midlife behavior. What...
Ep.176 How to Ease Stress & Anxiety When You’ve Stepped Away from A Midlife Relationship 17.07.2025 14:08
Are you stuck in the heartbreak of midlife estrangement and unsure how to move forward? Estrangement hurts, but it doesn’t have to define your future. In this episode, you’ll discover: 1. How to mind your mind and tend to your emotions so you feel better. 2. How to grow external self-awareness 3. How to clarify your core values so you can move forward with integrity and self-respect 🎧 Pu...
Ep.175 How to Manage Midlife Relational Estrangement with Coping Skills for Anxiety, Heartbreak and Healing 14.07.2025 15:52
Are you stuck in the heartbreak of midlife breakdown or estrangement and unsure how to move forward? When relationships end it hurts, but it doesn’t have to define your future. In this episode, you’ll discover: 1. How to mind your mind and tend to your emotions so you feel better. 2. How to grow external self-awareness 3. How to clarify your core values so you can move forward with inte...
Ep. 174 Why Sensitivity Isn’t Your Problem—It’s Your Superpower (If You Learn to Use It) 10.07.2025 16:54
Do you ever feel so overstimulated in public that your mind blanks out—even during important moments? This kind of emotional and sensory intensity is a normal part of being a highly sensitive person. In this episode, you’ll discover: Easy, science-backed coping skills to reset your overwhelmed nervous system How to manage overstimulation in emotionally charged midlife events Ways to turn your high...
Ep. 173 Why Understanding Your High Sensitivity Is Essential To Reduce Stress, Anxiety & Overwhelm In Midlife 07.07.2025 16:51
Do you walk into a room and immediately feel what others are feeling—even when no one says a word? You’re not imagining it—and you’re definitely not alone. In this episode, you’ll discover: 1. How understanding your highly sensitive temperament instantly reduces anxiety 2. Why high sensitivity is not the same as weakness or drama 3. How the ability to “read a room” can create emo...
Ep. 172 Building Bridges to Ease Midlife Loneliness and Holiday Stress & Anxiety 03.07.2025 12:33
Have you ever felt unexpectedly lonely on holidays like the 4th of July? You’re not failing—your midlife may simply be calling you to build a new bridge and make an update. In this episode, you'll discover: Why midlife loneliness is more common than you think One powerful mindset shift to help you move from isolation to interdependence A practical framework to help you reconnect with loved on...
Ep. 171 How To Reduce Midlife Loneliness, Ease Stress, Anxiety & Increase Connection With Others This 4th July 30.06.2025 14:15
Are you feeling lonely this 4th of July—even surrounded by others? Modern self-awareness may be fueling your midlife loneliness more than you think. In this episode, you’ll discover: 1. Why midlife loneliness is often rooted in disconnection, not solitude 2. How introspection tied to tradition once protected us from isolation 3. A new perspective that helps you reconnect with both your...
Ep. 170 Why Understanding the Cause of Midlife Panic Attacks Is the Most Overlooked Coping Skill To Reduce Stress & Anxiety 26.06.2025 13:59
Do you know what to do the moment panic hits? Panic attacks in midlife can feel terrifying and overwhelming—but they’re not dangerous, and you’re not powerless. In this episode, you’ll discover: 1. The top three science-backed causes of panic attacks. 2. The three psychosocial roots of panic in midlife. 3. How understanding the cause of your anxiety can lead to lasting relief. This episode will l...
Ep. 169 How to Calm a Panic Attack with 3 Midlife Coping Skills To Soothe Stress & Anxiety Fast 23.06.2025 14:30
Do you know what to do the moment panic hits? Panic attacks in midlife can feel terrifying and overwhelming—but they’re not dangerous, and you’re not powerless. In this episode, you’ll discover: Three science-backed coping skills to calm your body during a panic attack. How to apply these tools in both public and private situations—and why they don’t have to be used perfectly to be effective Two e...
Ep. 168 How to Transform Midlife Disappointment with Coping Skills to Reclaim Identity, Decrease Stress, Anxiety & Shame 19.06.2025 12:27
Ever feel like midlife disappointment means you did something wrong—or that it’s too late to recover? You’re not alone. Many people silently carry the shame of unmet expectations, broken relationships, or careers that stalled. In this episode, you’ll discover: Why anxiety and shame are natural responses to midlife setbacks—and how to work with them How to use emotional processing and acceptance as...
Ep. 167 Anxious & Stressed About Aging in Midlife and 3 Coping Skills to Reset Your Mindset 16.06.2025 14:54
Are you worried that aging in midlife means becoming less relevant, less energetic, or less you? You don’t have to accept that mindset—this episode gives you the tools to reshape it. In this episode, you’ll discover: How to identify and challenge the negative beliefs midlife can quietly plant in your mind Why your emotional, social, and mental habits matter just as much as your physical ones when...
Ep. 166 Essential Skills To Help You Cope This Father’s Day When Your Dad Makes You Feel Stressed, Anxious or Angry 12.06.2025 12:36
Does Father’s Day bring more dread than celebration? You’re not the only Midlifer who feels anxious or conflicted about your relationship with your Dad. In this episode, you’ll discover: 1. Why your father can still trigger deep anxiety, anger and hurt in midlife, even if you rarely see him 2. Five powerful coping skills to protect your peace before, during, and after Father’s Day 3. How to turn...
Ep. 165 Why Understanding Your Father's Emotional Influence Is Key to Building Emotional Resilience & Ease Stress & Anxiety in Midlife 09.06.2025 11:26
Does Father’s Day bring more dread than celebration? You’re not the only Midlifer who feels anxious or conflicted about your relationship with your Dad. In this episode, you’ll discover: 1. Why your father can still trigger deep anxiety, anger and hurt in midlife, even if you rarely see him 2. Five powerful coping skills to protect your peace before, during, and after Father’s Day 3. How to turn...
Ep. 164 What Every Graduate Should Hear From a Midlifer About Creating a Meaningful Life Without Letting Stress & Anxiety Hold You Back 05.06.2025 15:31
Is someone you care about graduating yet feeling anxious, uncertain, or overwhelmed? This episode offers the two questions that can guide them through early adulthood with clarity and calm. Here’s what you’ll take away from this episode: Why anxiety after graduation is not failure—but a normal part of becoming yourself Two foundational questions to keep you grounded: Who am I? and Can I love? S...
Ep. 163 Why Your Stress & Anxiety About Midlife Isn’t a Crisis But A Sign You're Ready To Embark On Your Next Chapter 02.06.2025 11:50
Have you ever felt the quiet anxiety of stepping into midlife without a roadmap or recognition? This episode is your invisible graduation ceremony—honoring the transition no one prepared you for. . Here’s what you’ll take away from this episode: Why anxiety in midlife is normal—and often a sign you’re being called into leadership. How to cultivate coping skills that are rooted in presence, not per...
Ep. 162 The Unbelievable Way Bringing PLAY Back Into Your Life Will Reduce Stress, Anxiety & Increase Calm in Midlife 29.05.2025 9:57
Are you stuck in anxiety and overwhelmed by your never-ending to-do list? You’re not alone — and the surprising solution might be something you haven’t done in years: play . In this episode, you’ll discover: 1. How play calms your brain and reduces anxiety in midlife 2. The two biggest reasons anxious adults stop playing — and how to overcome them 3. Simple coping skills to bring play...
Ep. 161 Science Says Summer Fun Is the Midlife Coping Skill You Forgot & It Can Calm Your Stress & Anxiety 26.05.2025 9:57
Are you too anxious, tired, or busy to have fun this summer? You’re not alone—but science shows that fun isn’t frivolous In this episode, you’ll discover: Why summer is uniquely suited to help you reset your anxiety. How childhood memories can guide your adult self toward healing and play. A simple 3-step tool to help you bring back fun—even if it feels far away. 🎧 Press play to learn how small...
Ep. 160 5 Easily Doable Coping Skills for Stressed Midlife Parents When Their Adult Child Feels Stuck 22.05.2025 15:16
Are you caught between wanting to help your adult child and drowning in anxiety because nothing seems to change? There’s a way to support them without losing yourself. In this episode, you’ll discover: How to shift into a steady mindset that protects your peace — and gives your child the space they need to build confidence and resilience. How to set clear, loving boundaries around finances, home l...
Ep. 159 Why So Many Adult Children Aren’t Launching & How Midlife Parents Can Reduce Their Stress & Anxiety 19.05.2025 11:02
Are you feeling anxious about your adult child who just isn’t launching? You’re not alone—and you’re definitely not a bad parent. In this episode, you’ll discover: 1. Why today’s young adults are facing a drastically different—and harder—world than previous generations 2. How phones, cannabis, and constant cultural pessimism are impacting motivation and mental health 3. What you can do to move...
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