Confidence Matters

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“If I can’t make you like me, I will die.” Extreme? Yes. But at its core, that’s what people-pleasing is. It’s a survival instinct. When we’re very young, we rely on our caregivers for safety and love. If that love feels conditional or unpredictable, we learn to adapt. We behave in ways that earn approval. We try to be agreeable, helpful, and easy to love. That strategy doesn’t disappear when we g...

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‘ Talking to yourself is the first sign of madness.’ That’s the expression, anyway. My mother used to say that a lot, even though she talked to herself all the time. I talk to myself, both in my head and out loud. It’s not madness; it can be very motivating and calming. But it can also be our worst critic. I have a habit of saying ‘That’s that done’ after each task, like a mental tick box. It wasn...

Thank you Margaret Williams, MS, ACC , The One Minute Daily Boost , Bob Lewis , Kalpana Bhrara , Sambuca , and many others for tuning into my live video with Brandon Ellrich ! Join me for my next live video in the app. This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit suereid.substack.com/subscribe

Leaving a toxic relationship can be extremely difficult, especially when you blame yourself. I do blame myself, and not just because my mother told me I had ‘made my bed, so now I had to lie in it.’ I accept that I am responsible for my life and the decisions I make. That’s what happens when you are an adult. You become responsible. So, I didn’t leave for a long time. Even then, my ex made the fin...

Thank you Kalpana Bhrara , The One Minute Daily Boost , Larry Bassett , Sydney S. , Michelle Ray , and many others for tuning into my live video! Join me for my next live video in the app. Here is the link to the group coaching details I mentioned. https://suereid.gumroad.com/l/Unshakeable-Confidence-With-Sue This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get acc...

Christmas Day can be peaceful, busy, emotional, or all of these at once. So this isn’t a checklist to complete or perfect. It’s a gentle gesture. This is a list you can read in a few minutes, save, and revisit whenever you need a reminder of who you are and what truly sustains your confidence. You don’t need to do all of these. Just one at a time is enough. Confidence Matters by Sue Reid is a read...

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I loved this conversation with Michele Capots from The Magic of Mental Wellbeing. Michele tells us about a time when she left her home at 3 a.m., wearing only her PJs. She drove until she ran out of gas and then decided to hitchhike on the interstate, without any idea where she was going. Thank you to everyone who tuned in to my live video with Michele Capots ! Join me for my next live video in th...

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Thank you to everyone who joined our conversation. It is hard to speak your truth from your darkest days, but we are here to hold and support each other on our journey. This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit suereid.substack.com/subscribe

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