Coming Inside OUT: An LGBTQ podcast uplifting gay fathers, men, and those exploring their sexuality.

In this episode of the Coming Inside Out podcast, hosts Mark and Brian share personal updates, including Mark's recent move and the emotional challenges that come with it. They discuss the complexities of coming out, financial struggles, and the importance of embracing change. The conversation shifts to listener questions about pride events and experiences in the gay community, revealing both the...

In this episode of Coming Inside Out, hosts Brian and Mark welcome their first guest, Shaun Williams, who shares his powerful journey of coming out as a gay man after decades of living a different life. Shaun discusses the challenges he faced, including mental health struggles and the importance of seeking help. He emphasizes the significance of community and connection among men, particularly tho...

In this episode of the Coming Inside Out podcast, hosts Mark and Brian explore themes of gratitude, self-discovery, and the complexities of relationships within the LGBTQ+ community. They reflect on their personal journeys of coming out, the struggles of feeling stagnant in life, and the importance of self-love. The conversation delves into the dynamics of open relationships, the impact of past re...

In this episode, Brian Janes and Mark Dembo explore the complexities of life changes, loneliness in the gay community, and the challenges of meeting new people. They discuss the impact of dating apps, the pain associated with coming out, and the ongoing journey of self-discovery. The conversation highlights the importance of community support and the reflections on personal growth amidst the chall...

In this episode of the Coming Inside Out podcast, hosts Mark and Brian discuss various themes surrounding the LGBTQ community, including the impact of their podcast, personal coming out experiences, and the importance of building community. They explore the representation of gay men in media, the political climate affecting LGBTQ rights, and the significance of authenticity in personal and profess...

In this episode, hosts Brian and Mark discuss their personal journeys of coming out, the importance of community support, and the challenges faced by the LGBTQ+ community. They explore the significance of vulnerability, political diversity, and the need for authentic expression in leadership. The conversation also touches on the emotional complexities of navigating relationships and the journey of...

In this episode, Brian and Mark discuss the importance of love and acceptance in the LGBTQ community amidst a divisive political climate. They explore the challenges faced by LGBTQ individuals, particularly in relation to the Republican party and its stance on LGBTQ rights. The conversation touches on the distractions created by culture wars, the impact of misinformation, and the importance of fin...

In this episode, Brian and Mark discuss the journey of coming out as gay men, the challenges they faced, and the importance of living authentically. They share their experiences with therapy, support groups, and the emotional rollercoaster that often accompanies the process of coming out. The conversation emphasizes the significance of community, self-acceptance, and the ongoing journey of persona...

In this episode, Brian reflects on the evolution of his podcast, the importance of community connections, and the current state of diversity, equity, and inclusion within the LGBTQ community. He shares personal experiences and insights on consumer choices that impact the community, encouraging listeners to engage and share their own journeys. Coming Inside OUT is a safe space where listeners can f...

In this episode, Brian discusses the challenges of recording solo, the impact of wildfires in Southern California, and shares personal reflections on his coming out journey. He emphasizes the importance of support networks for LGBTQ individuals and highlights listener stories that resonate with the themes of self-acceptance and community. Brian also mentions the upcoming podcast-a-thon and the Tre...

In this episode, Brian and John discuss the challenges faced by gay men during the holidays, the complexities of intimacy beyond sexual encounters, and the importance of caution in online dating. They delve into the dangers of sharing personal information on dating apps, explore new social media platforms like Blue Sky, and reflect on the impact of political climates on mental health within the LG...

In this episode, Brian and John kick off Season Two of their podcast with reflections on their journey, family interactions during the holidays, and the importance of coming out conversations. They discuss personal growth, navigating relationships, and the exploration of polyamory. The episode culminates in a humorous recounting of a 'Naked Game Night' experience, emphasizing themes of self-accept...

In this final episode of 2024, hosts John Duerler and Brian Janes reflect on their podcasting journey, discuss personal growth and New Year's resolutions, and navigate the complexities of coming out and relationships. They share insights on loss, acceptance, and the importance of authenticity while also addressing the challenges faced by LGBTQ individuals. The conversation emphasizes the significa...

In this engaging conversation, Brian and John reflect on their favorite Christmas memories, share personal stories about coming out and navigating relationships, and discuss their experiences in the real estate market. They also address listener letters, offer support for friends going through transitions, and announce their participation in a charity podcast. The episode concludes with heartfelt...

In this episode, Brian and John discuss various themes surrounding the LGBTQ+ community, including the importance of support and connection, the power of affirmations, personal struggles in real estate, and the significance of intimacy in relationships. They also touch on mental health, particularly during the holiday season, and the journey of emerging from dark times to find purpose and empathy...

In this conversation, Brian and John reflect on their Thanksgiving experiences, discussing themes of family acceptance, the journey of coming out, and the complexities of relationships. They share personal anecdotes about their families, the challenges of maintaining friendships post-coming out, and the importance of self-acceptance. The discussion also touches on the dynamics of community, sexual...

In this episode, Brian and John engage in a candid conversation about their experiences as gay men, touching on themes of personal trauma, the importance of coming out, and the misconceptions surrounding the LGBTQ community. They share personal stories of abuse and healing, discuss generational differences in attitudes towards sexuality, and debunk common myths about being gay. The conversation al...

In this engaging conversation, Brian and John explore various themes surrounding family dynamics, acceptance, and personal growth within the LGBTQ community. They share personal stories about their relationships with their children, the importance of self-expression, and the challenges of navigating divorce. The discussion also touches on health and safety in sexual encounters, community engagemen...

In this episode of 'Coming Inside Out', hosts John Duerler and Brian Janes explore various themes surrounding the LGBTQ+ community, particularly focusing on dating and hookup culture. They share personal anecdotes, discuss the dynamics of sexual preferences, and delve into the importance of safety when meeting new partners. The conversation also touches on the significance of owning one's identity...

In this episode, John and Brian discuss their experiences at Pride, reflecting on personal growth, identity, and the importance of community support. They share emotional moments from the parade, the liberating feeling of being oneself, and the significance of vulnerability in friendships. The conversation also touches on listener engagement and the journey of coming out, emphasizing the need for...

In this episode of 'Coming Inside Out', hosts Brian and John engage in a lively conversation that spans various topics, including their experiences watching sports in LGBTQ+ spaces, the importance of community resources for both youth and older adults, and the ongoing challenges of coming out. They also delve into trivia about LGBTQ+ history and culture, share personal anecdotes, and discuss upcom...

In this episode, Brian and John explore various themes surrounding coming out, LGBTQ+ identity, and the importance of community and acceptance. They discuss the significance of Movember in raising awareness for men's health issues, reflect on the Netflix film 'Will and Harper', and share personal experiences of fear, shame, and the joy of being seen as their true selves. The conversation emphasize...

In this episode, Brian and John discuss various topics related to LGBTQ awareness, health, and rights. They promote pride events and Movember, emphasizing the importance of men's health. The conversation shifts to the necessity of honest health discussions, particularly regarding sexual health and preventive measures. They also touch on the global challenges faced by the LGBTQ community, including...

In this episode of 'Come In Inside Out', hosts Brian and John discuss various themes surrounding the LGBTQ community, including the importance of community engagement, health awareness initiatives like Movember, and the challenges faced by LGBTQ individuals today. They share personal stories, listener feedback, and insights on navigating relationships and family dynamics while coming out. The conv...

In this heartfelt conversation, Brian and John celebrate National Coming Out Day with their guest Debbie, who shares the touching story of her son Cody's coming out experience. The discussion explores the challenges and triumphs of coming out, the importance of parental support, and the role of community in fostering acceptance. Debbie reflects on her initial reactions, the dynamics within her fam...