Coming Inside OUT: An LGBTQ podcast uplifting gay fathers, men, and those exploring their sexuality.

In this episode, John and Brian discuss various topics relevant to the LGBTQ community, including upcoming Pride events, Movember, and National Coming Out Day. They share personal reflections on coming out, listener letters addressing rejection from children, and the importance of building community and support. The conversation is filled with humor, personal anecdotes, and insights into the chall...

In this episode, Brian and John discuss the upcoming Palm Springs Pride 2024 (come march with us), reflecting on their experiences as gay fathers and the importance of community. They delve into the complexities of coming out later in life, the significance of acceptance, and the challenges faced by individuals in the LGBTQ+ community. The conversation also touches on personal stories of parenting...

In this episode of Coming Inside Out, hosts Brian and John discuss their experiences at the Gay Fathers Worldwide retreat, reflecting on the connections made and the impact of their podcast. They explore the importance of community support for gay fathers, share personal stories about coming out, and emphasize the love and acceptance found within their community. The conversation highlights the ch...

In this episode of Coming Inside Out, hosts Brian and John discuss their experiences as gay men who came out later in life. They read listener letters that touch on the challenges of finding the right therapist, the struggles of coming out, and the complexities of divorce. The conversation emphasizes the importance of community support, personal growth, and creative expression, while also sharing...

In this conversation, Brian and John discuss various topics including their recent podcast appearances, receiving gifts from listeners, the feedback they've received, coming out stories, the challenges of being accepted by religious communities, and the importance of being receptive to receiving. They express gratitude for the support they've received and the opportunity to help others through the...

As a guest on Out late With David #18 - Brian Janes shares coming out after 26 years of marriage, now finding his place in his new community. Summary: Brian Janes, a successful real estate broker, came out as gay at age 50 after 26 years of marriage. He loved being married and had a strong connection with his wife, but deep down, he had a sexual desire that didn't match up with her. After years of...

In this conversation, Jim Kennedy shares his experiences as a gay father and the challenges he faced during his coming out journey and divorce. He emphasizes the importance of finding support and community, as well as seeking professional help during difficult times. Jim also discusses the process of divorce and the emotional impact it had on him. He shares his thoughts on dating and relationships...

In this episode of 'Coming Inside Out', hosts John Duerler and Brian Janes share their personal journeys of coming out as gay, the impact of divorce on their identities, and the challenges of navigating family dynamics post-separation. They discuss the emotional turmoil of losing a spouse and the struggle to rebuild their lives while seeking new relationships. The conversation also touches on the...

In this episode, Brian and John discuss their experiences as gay fathers, the importance of listener engagement, and the vulnerability involved in sharing personal stories. They reflect on the impact of their podcast on listeners, particularly those who are navigating their own coming out journeys. The conversation highlights the joy and connection found within the LGBTQ+ community, as well as the...

In this conversation, Brian and John discuss their upcoming guest therapist and encourage listeners to send in questions. They also talk about a Facebook group for gay fathers and the support they find there. Brian shares his experience of coming out and the guilt and shame he felt for cheating on his wife. They discuss the fear of rejection from loved ones and the financial challenges of divorce....

In this episode of 'Coming Inside Out', hosts Brian and John engage in a lively discussion that covers a range of topics including listener feedback, the importance of therapy, political commentary surrounding the recent Republican National Convention, personal coming out stories, and the significance of support within the LGBTQ+ community. They also celebrate LGBTQ+ figures who have come out, dis...

In this episode, hosts John Duerler and Brian Janes discuss various themes surrounding identity, mental health, and personal experiences as gay men. They share stories about identity theft, the importance of mental health awareness, and the impact of personal relationships. The conversation also touches on self-expression, body image, and the significance of compliments in social interactions. The...

In this episode of 'Coming Inside Out', hosts Brian and John share a humorous yet serious conversation about a recent spider bite incident that led to a hospital visit. They discuss themes of loneliness, empowerment, and authenticity, drawing from listener emails and personal experiences. The conversation also touches on the book 'The Velvet Rage', exploring the 3 stages gay men go through as outl...

In this engaging conversation, hosts Brian and John discuss various aspects of sexual health, coming out, and the dynamics of relationships within the LGBTQ community. They emphasize the importance of regular health checkups, understanding medications like PrEP and DoxyPEP, and the responsibility that comes with sexual activity. The discussion also touches on the challenges of coming out, parentin...

In this episode, Brian and John discuss their recent travels, personal experiences with coming out, and the challenges of navigating depression and loneliness. They explore the dynamics of dating in the LGBTQ+ community, the importance of support systems, and the role of spirituality in their lives. The conversation highlights cultural shifts within the LGBTQ+ community, emphasizing the growing ac...

In this episode, hosts Brian and John celebrate Pride Month by sharing their personal experiences at the WeHo Pride parade and discussing the importance of community support for LGBTQ+ individuals. They engage with listener feedback, particularly from a young lesbian, and reflect on their own coming out journeys, emphasizing acceptance and love from friends and family. The conversation also touche...

In this episode, Brian and John discuss their experiences with coming out, the challenges faced within religious contexts, and the importance of mental health. They share personal stories about acceptance, family dynamics, and the evolution of their relationships since coming out. The conversation highlights the significance of community support and the ongoing journey of self-acceptance. Coming i...

In this episode of 'Coming Inside Out', hosts Brian and John engage with their listeners, sharing heartfelt stories and feedback that highlight the struggles and triumphs of coming out and self-acceptance. They discuss the significance of Pride Month, the impact of mental health on their lives, and the importance of fatherhood and relationships. The conversation emphasizes the need for support wit...

In this episode of Coming Inside Out, hosts John Duerler and Brian Janes share their personal journeys of coming out as gay after long marriages to women. They discuss the challenges and triumphs of navigating their identities, relationships, and family dynamics in a changing world. The conversation touches on the significance of Pride Month, experiences at Pride events, and the evolving acceptanc...

In this episode of 'Coming Inside Out', hosts Brian and John delve into the complexities of coming out as gay fathers, focusing on themes of shame, embarrassment, and the impact on family dynamics. They share personal stories about their experiences, the reactions of their children, and the support systems that helped them navigate their journeys. The conversation also touches on the societal pres...

In this episode of Coming Inside Out, hosts Brian and John share their personal stories of coming out as gay fathers later in life. They discuss the challenges and triumphs of navigating family dynamics, particularly with their children, and emphasize the importance of open communication and acceptance. The conversation also touches on the impact of societal changes on the LGBTQ+ community and the...

In this episode of 'Coming Inside Out', hosts Brian and John delve into their personal journeys of coming out as gay fathers. They discuss the challenges they faced, including bullying, self-harm, and the importance of support within the LGBT community. The conversation highlights the healing process, empowerment through reflection, and the significance of sharing their stories to help others. The...

Brian Janes talks about coming out as gay after being married to a women and raising a family.