What Would Love Do?

If He DOES THIS, Then He’s a Man Who Lies! #TheGoldenBachelor I don’t know many people who have tolerance for lying, especially those who are looking for a long-term relationship. How can you say you’ll have honest discussions about your life’s desires if you lie about anything? Even the smallest lies can blow up in your face and we’re diving in to examining how Gerry...

3 STRONG Signs Men (Over 40) Are Ready To Commitment To YOU!!! In today’s casual dating culture, it’s pretty easy to get companionship and sex without a commitment. Many midlife adults settle for that type of situationship because they think they’re past their prime for a long-term commitment. My friends, I beg you not to settle for less than what you want. You can have a strong,...

7 SHOCKING Signs A Man Isn’t Serious About You Did you know that serious relationships are on the decline? With our casual dating environment, it’s much easier to “hook up” or find a Friends with Benefits situation than it is to dive deep with someone to find a life partner. What are your intentions about finding a relationship? Are you OK with something casual? Or do you w...

6 Things Men Notice First in a Woman and Find Wildly Attractive – Part 2 Have you set yourself up for success or disappointment? Chemistry is NOT the end all/be all of a relationship. True friendship is the solid foundation upon which every relationship can flourish. However, through the years we have been taught that chemistry is what will predict the future of our relationship, which leads...

Men Who Do THIS Rarely Commit To You When a man is fearful of commitment, there’s often an underlying reason (or many). Those reasons are usually rooted in some kind of pain or trauma and some men go to great lengths to cover up that pain. Vulnerability and honesty about feelings need to happen for commitment to occur. That might entail a good amount of personal development work, both singly...

Letting Go (Part 2): How To Know It’s Time To Move On From A Relationship Every person we meet in life teaches us lessons. We can also learn how to have a relationship by evaluating what worked and what didn’t in past relationships. In this episode, I share my revelations about my relationship with Marie and the lessons I learned from our breakup. Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about...

Can Men Who Give Mixed Signals Really Fall In Love? We’re deep diving into this topic with the help of The Golden Bachelor. One of the final two women felt blindsided when Gerry said he was choosing the other woman. She said he gave mixed signals about his feelings but I can speak from experience when I tell you it’s easy to get caught up in chemistry. When all the feel-good hormones a...

He’s Acting Distant | Does THIS Mean It’s Over For Him? Why is it that so many women immediately think something is wrong if their guy gets distant or quiet? Doesn’t everyone take some time to think about their life and relationship? For my clients, who are primarily midlife women, it boils down to doubt. Doubting the relationship is solid. Doubting his commitment. And this might...

Doing THIS Repels Good Men From Wanting You with Sabrina Rising I’m thrilled to have my own coach, Sabrina Rising, as a guest today and we’re talking all about the energy we project and how we attract people based on the energy we put out into the world. Many times we are not aware of how we’re presenting ourselves and then we wonder why we’re attracting duds who don’...

Men Go Through These 5 Stages Before They’ll Commit To You Asking for a commitment to someone – especially a long-term commitment – is scary and requires a lot of soul-searching and inner work. During the midlife years, committing to someone can be extra stressful, especially if the partners have been married before and gone through a divorce. Even if it seems like your guy is av...

6 Ways To Avoid EMOTIONALLY BROKEN Men Over 40 Emotionally broken men have a difficult time loving, plain and simple. This might be remnants of childhood trauma or even trauma after a divorce or becoming a widower. We ALL have some sort of baggage that we carry throughout our lives but the key is in how we handle that baggage. In these midlife years, you’ll have to decide if you have the des...

Are You Dating A Divorced Dad? Is He Ready For Love? The divorce statistics in the US still hover near the 50% mark and in these midlife years, you’ll be hard pressed to find a man who is NOT divorced. And if you’re divorced guy has kids, there’s another level of honest questions you should ask him to discover his feelings about long term relationships. You can also observe your...

Why Men Deeply Desire Women Who Do THIS (Outside The Bedroom) A lot of dating advice seems one-sided with it sounding like women are the ones responsible for keeping the relationship afloat and are the only ones who should make an effort. Not true! However…women are more open to educating themselves about personal growth and relationships, which is why it seems most of the dating advice is a...

Keep a Man’s Interest Using These 5 Feminine Ways By no means is it a woman’s responsibility to keep a man attracted to her. If two people are in a relationship, both should be putting in effort to keep the romance alive. However, men do tend to fall into the traditional ‘hunter and gatherer’ role and often think that romance falls solely on the woman. Very often women can...

Why Walking Away From Men ALWAYS Works There’s a school of thought that if a guy doesn’t seem interested in you, women should ‘lean back’ and wait for the guy to chase you. This might work temporarily for men with an anxious attachment style (aka needy) or those with avoidant attachment styles, but are these the type of men you want to attract or form a longterm relationshi...

When A Man Does THIS, He’ll Be Loyal To You. Loyalty is best described by how someone shows up in your life. If they want to spend time with you after work, will hurry over when you’re in trouble, and doesn’t care what others think about your time together, that’s loyalty. Actions speak louder than words. If you’re currently in a long relationship, I invite you to exa...

Men Are Incredibly Attracted To Women Who Know THIS with Deborah Kagan I’m thrilled to have my friend Deborah Kagan as a guest today and we’re talking about how women can reclaim their mojo and become more connected to their feminine body. When women are happy and confident in their bodies, they will show up that way in the dating world. Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about how...

When A Man Says THIS, He’s Ready For Commitment Many people in the dating realm are either confused about what they want in a relationship OR they are seeking a very casual relationship. This might indicate that they are commitment-phobic but I believe it’s because there’s less willingness to go ‘all in’ with someone. Monogamy and exclusivity might seem scary, especia...

How Can I Change My Boyfriend From Something Casual To Serious In the dating world, we have lots of labels to describe different types of relationships and it’s important to know what each label means. You should also decide what you want out of your relationship so you’ll know if you’re on the right path with the right person or if you need a conversation. Also understand that j...

Do THESE 5 Things And He Will Prioritize You In the early stages of dating it’s tough to prioritize any particular person because you’re in the ‘getting to know you’ phase. You’re basically strangers and you both might be chatting with multiple people on the dating apps, so you might not have regular conversations or they might be very superficial. Prioritizing in thi...

What Men Seek That SETS YOU APART From Other Women How many first or second dates have you gone on where you can immediately see the hurt from past relationships on this new person’s face? It’s almost like watching a movie and seeing the ghosts of their past. You know I’m a huge proponent of being authentic and if someone has been hurt in the past, it’s pretty normal for th...

3 BEAUTIFUL Signs A Man WANTS To Be Committed Do you fall into the group of women who think there are no good men in the world? I can understand why you might think that way because all we seem to hear about is how men are players or they don’t know what they want in life. Let me add that men sometimes don’t understand the whole ‘personal development’ idea or why it’s...

Want To Keep His Attention? DO THIS with Men Over 40 Many of the single folks in this midlife age range have been through a divorce, sometimes after a decade or two. What many don’t understand is that divorce is an emotional trauma that needs time to heal and process. Whether it’s been 5 years or 25, you built a life together, possibly had kids, and now you have to make sense of a new...

Is He A Keeper? 5 Signs He Might Be The One Determining whether or not a guy is a keeper depends significantly on his Emotional  Intelligence (EI). Emotional intelligence is a person’s ability to have deep and important conversations. When a couple has high EI, they are talking about their future dreams and getting to know the other person on a deeper level. Low EI is the opposite, where the...

Why A Guy Will Choose You Over Another Woman As you know, I’m a big proponent of radical honesty and authenticity. There’s no sense in playing games or hiding your true personality from a guy because you can’t build a solid foundation from dishonesty. And contrary to what other dating coaches might say, women are not “doing something wrong” when it comes to attracting...