Vocal De Frag With Arroe Collins

The day after every storm... The goal is to clean up as much as you can. What about when the storm includes you? Who are you counting on to pick up the mess? It's usually someone who has never taken one step in your shoes. They've got no clue as to why you just endured the storm and it's now the day after.

My Grandma Dobrenz is best remembered in my heart as being the one who sat in the same chair, the same room with the same blanket on her feet. But that doesn't define her life. When we reach that point of well-deserved rest. But, at what age does it begin its process of putting your entire self in a chair with a blanket over your feet?

These are some dark times on the American job front. No your boss doesn't care about you. No they aren't interested in your future. It's SYA their own asses. No matter how many years you've spent with a business, the times have changed. Being aware of all things while taking note of your next job actually being worse.

Jim Bakker has been called home. I always dreamed of the day the Universe cleared the way to thank the heart that kept me from jumping into the final fire. Guess we'll meet in Heaven.

Ghosting a friend or family member in 2026 versus dumping your friends while in middle and high school. They are one in the same except now we have a title. Ghosting... It's completely natural and it comes with a lot of weight or would that be wait? How many times have you waited too long on a friend and the weight of it all was too much to bare?

When things are going wrong at work or home why do we always revert to a past you can't live over again? You can rewrite it all you want. A total waste of time. Go for the solution first.

We all get a gut feeling. Most of the time that gut feeling is a negative or it's coming from someone who has never walked an inch in your shoes. Facing your gut feelings...

My third-grade teacher preached to us every day, "Your desk is what your real life looks like. If it's cluttered and difficult to locate things in...ummm that's also your world away from the desk."

A lot of American businesses are locked in on cleaning house. People are getting laid off or fired. The laziest thing anyone can say is, "I didn't see it coming." Not true! The signs were there. Now what? Go with the flow. That old job was a rock in your stream getting in your way. You didn't lose anything. They did! Winning is a choice. Don't make the decision to quit on yourself.

It's completely natural to pull off what you're sharing as the self-guided tour of an adventure. It's based on facts not the full layout as it happened. I learn that trick every day when I go back and fact check myself. Ooops I did it again. Based on not always right on. When you share it enough times you begin to believe that's really what you did and are.

We've totally forgotten how important we are to the process of all things growing forward. If we decide to do what everybody else is, where does the power of being you locate its importance in history growing beyond yesterday?

People with motivation and opinions surround us every day!  Your decision making is based on what they feed you.  Oh Oh... have you ever asked yourself the questions then questioned the answers?   The cold hard facts about stepping in a pile of dog crap... you can scrape it off your shoes but the smell never goes away.  Why are you wasting your time asking people for leadership when you've never s...

Endlessly we exchange.  Even worse are the days when the physical locatiion of an answer is far far away in a Star Wars fantasy.  When you need to know how, there's rarely anybody around for an answer.  But when someone comes to you, you're expected to drop everything and super serve.  Stop giving away your how.  Your how is your how.  They're stealing your art.  

It seems so stupid. To physically ask yourself questions then question answers. Now do it with a digital device recording every breath you take. The stupid mental earthquake hits. It feels so stupid to ask yourself about the walk and way. Especially when there are billions of others around your decision making. Yeah, and none of them have spent 30 seconds in your shoes. WTF do they know about the...

Rarely do you hear anyone talking about having hope unless they're hoping for a good seat at Taylor Swifts wedding.  That's called selfish hope.  Take the time to ask the silver haired people about hope and you'll learn things your parents kept from you.  Hope... we lack it in it's truest shape and foundation of outreach.

We all think we are the real deal at work. We are it! The thing! Top dog. Best of the best greater than the Goat. What would happen if you could hire yourself? What if you had to work with you?

We tend to it very naturally. Buying beauty for our outside world without putting focus on the inner self. There has to be balance with the self coming first.

Yeah... Dot your T and cross your I. It sounds odd. So does life. It all seems odd and somehow people are finding their personal victory. Dot your T and cross your I. Stop being like everyone else.

I call it postproduction blues. You put in the work. You made sure everything in the recipe was present. You did it all including experiencing the victory. Then you are suddenly alone. Postproduction blues is dangerous. It's when most of our worst decisions are put into play alongside the victory.

Why do we endlessly allow other people to define who we are as people. It's not just politicians and bosses. It's your family, friends and new gatherings. Oh, you are. Why? Because we said so. Stop being afraid of your shadow and be you.

Thanks to social media and the constant talk of a community of know it all's... Who are you in the eyes of those who assume they know you?

We spend way too much time seeking leadership from people that have never walked in your shoes or sat in the bathroom with you during those bad cramps and vomit spills. What does anyone know about you? Yet they always want you to be happy.

We endlessly tell others as well as objects around us how much we love them. Yet, your heart doesn't feel like it's receiving as much as you are sharing.

Constantly, we are comparing our lives to others. How close to they are you? If they have something you need or you're just measuring them up... how close to they are you? Now spin it around, what if you're the one being watched? You are their they.