Tolu Afilaka

What does it cost a person to keep speaking when the church prefers silence? Pastor Titioluwa Olumideko is a Christian counsellor and the convener of the Healing Party. She has built a voice that addresses faith, trauma, family patterns and the mind in ways many people in the church still avoid. In this episode of Sound Mind Podcast, she explains why not every recurring problem is a demon, how chi...

Most people know her as Jbums. CEO of She Drag Gang. A voice since she was 19. This is the side of the office she has not really sat down to explain. Apostle Bunmi George on God speaking at 13, why the call took years, phones staying down in discipleship, heaven’s applause over a camera, a father’s words becoming an inner voice, therapy, the 8-second rule in marriage, and why she did the work off...

In this episode of Sound Mind Podcast, Tolu Afilaka sits with Moromoluwa Atiketi — ordained pastor, creator, wife and mother. The conversation starts where people still whisper. Her manager impregnated her. Don’t mix business and pleasure. She said it happened twice. Then she talks about loving her husband, raising brilliant children, and why home is peace. She also opens up about becoming “Arsena...

Christians keep asking Daniel Etim Effiong how he does kissing scenes. In this episode of Sound Mind Podcast, he answers it directly. He talks about why he says there is no clean split between sacred and secular, the condition of the heart, and the question he asked a young actress in church: would you ask a gynecologist that? He also shares what he told her about fear, the industry, and staying s...

In this episode of Sound Mind Podcast, Tolu Afilaka sits with artist and sculptor Anthony Azekwoh. They go back to Covenant University — the viral essay, the disciplinary hearing, the relegation, and the years that followed. Anthony shares how speaking up almost destroyed his life, how he watched friends graduate from an Airbnb, and why high blood pressure at 18 became part of the story. He also t...

Most people leave Nigeria looking for a better life. Babatunde Dada did the opposite. After studying and working abroad, he returned to build Nolt Finance — a company focused on the “underserved.” In this conversation, he shares: Why he always planned to come back to Nigeria How long it took to get a CBN license Why his first customers were family Why trust is the real product in finance What youn...

Most people only see dogs as pets or security. Very few understand the real industry behind them. In this episode, I sat with two of Nigeria’s respected dog breeders — Shigo (Preble Kennel) and Timo (Watchers Kennel) — for a raw conversation about: • The emotional side of owning and breeding dogs • The deadly risk of Parvo that can wipe out a whole kennel • Scams involving fake bloodlines and dyed...

In this episode of Sound Mind Podcast, Tolu Afilaka sits with his mentor, Dr. Damola Adegboye — seasoned MC, comedian, and newly minted doctorate holder. Dr. Damola shares the focus of his PhD research on the complex relationship between Nigeria and South Africa — the competition, the cooperation, the historical context, and why tension continues to exist despite deep ties. He also breaks down a p...

In this soul-lifting conversation, IDY Archibong sits with Tolu Afilaka to share her journey of faith — from Covenant University and the Methodist church, to moving alone to the UK, and learning how to stay spiritually alive in a new environment. She opens up about: What campus life and COVID were really like for her How she found a deeper hunger for God Practical ways she stayed consistent with p...

Millions know Love Abolade for her voice, but few know the story behind it. In this episode of the Sound Minds Podcast , Tolu Afilaka sits down with worship minister Love Abolade for an honest conversation about faith, purpose, discipline, and the unseen journey behind public ministry. Love shares how she encountered God at university, why she spent hours in prayer, what shaped her approach to wor...

What does it take to build companies that transform an entire continent? In this episode of Sound Minds Podcast , Tolu Afilaka sits down with Iyin Aboyeji —Co-founder of Andela and Flutterwave, Founding Partner at Future Africa, and one of Africa's most influential entrepreneurs. From growing up in a modest home to helping build two billion-dollar companies, Iyin shares the principles that have sh...

Most people see luxury. Very few understand the journey behind it. In this episode of Sound Minds Podcast , Tolu Afilaka sits down with Waris Amuzat Omotolani , Founder and CEO of Pawnshop by Blue Radish , to discuss one of the most inspiring entrepreneurial stories you'll hear. Born inside a danfo bus because his family couldn't afford a hospital, Waris began his career as an apprentice in Comput...

What if the greatest success of your life still left you feeling empty? For years, Chude Jideonwo was achieving everything many people dream of. He built influential media platforms, advised political leaders, interviewed some of Africa's biggest names, and became one of the continent's most respected storytellers. Yet behind the success was a private battle with depression. In this deeply honest...

Nigeria needs more people speaking sense, not nonsense. That was one of the first things Engineer Dari Aliyu said in this conversation. And honestly, it set the tone for everything that followed. Most people know Dari Aliyu as the founder of TDA, one of Nigeria's most respected fashion brands. What many don't know is the story behind the success. He lost his father at the age of two. He was raised...

What does it really take to break a Guinness World Record? In this episode of Sound Minds Podcast, Tolu Afilaka sits down with Fadó, Nigeria's leading magician and Guinness World Record holder for the Longest Magic Show. For over 22 years, Fadó dedicated his life to mastering an art many people misunderstood. Then came the challenge that would test his mind, body, finances, and resilience like nev...

THE DARK SIDE OF THERAPY, INTIMACY & SEX | Dr. Tolu Oko Igaire (Part 2) In this highly anticipated Part 2, Dr. Tolu Oko Igaire goes even deeper into the unspoken realities of intimacy, emotional connection, and sexual struggles in Nigeria. With raw honesty and clinical insight, she breaks down how culture, religion, parenting, and trauma shape our sex lives and relationships — often in damagin...

The Truth About Therapy, Intimacy & Sex That No One Talks About – Dr. Tolu Oko Igaire In this bold, eye-opening, and deeply honest conversation, Tolu Afilaka sits down with Dr. Tolu Oko Igaire — one of Nigeria’s leading voices in mental health, sex therapy, and emotional wellness. As Provost of the Institute of Counseling in Nigeria and a renowned sex therapist, Dr. Tolu brings rare expertise...

In this powerful and emotional conversation, award-winning actress Shine Roseman sits down with Tolu Afilaka and speaks boldly about life, career, family, and the current state of Nigeria. From growing up in the streets of Ijesha to becoming one of Nigeria’s most loved actresses, Shine opens up about her journey, the influence of her parents, and why she can no longer stay silent about the sufferi...

In this episode, I sit down with Dr. Morenike Molehin , CEO of Oak and Teak , to break down the real journey behind building a successful interior design business in Nigeria and globally . From studying Computer Science at Covenant University to becoming a leading interior designer and entrepreneur , Dr. Molehin shares the truth about career transitions, business growth, rejection, and leadership...

In this raw and unfiltered conversation, Pastor Steve Hills (Love Room) sits down with Tolu Afilaka and speaks openly about the realities of music ministry, work, calling, and longevity in gospel music. From his childhood desire to just sing, to writing hit songs like “Supernatural” and “OluwaTosin”, Steve shares honest truths that challenge common beliefs in the industry. He discusses: Why “Music...

From studying Computer Science at Covenant University to becoming the General Manager of Cafe One, Kelechi Nwaozuzu has walked an inspiring and unconventional career path. In this honest and insightful conversation, Kelechi opens up about her journey — from battling shyness as a child, switching from programming to storytelling, facing over 500 job rejections in the UK, to making the bold decision...

How God Really Speaks – No Audible Voice Needed | Pastor Ayo Ajani (Part 2) In this powerful Part 2 conversation, Pastor Ayo Ajani (Senior Pastor of Petra Christian Centre) shares practical and eye-opening wisdom on how God actually speaks to us in everyday life. He explains why many Christians are being led by God but don’t realize it, the danger of waiting for perfect clarity, and how to move fo...

Pastor Ayo Ajani: The Brutal Truth About Work Ethic Most Christians Ignore Senior Pastor of Petra Christian Centre and one of Africa’s most charismatic faith teachers opens up like never before. In this powerful long-overdue conversation, Pastor Ayo Ajani shares raw wisdom on faith, leadership, family, and the seasons of life. From his dramatic journey growing up in a Muslim home to becoming a glo...

In this powerful episode, Gloria Baba opens up about her journey through fear, faith, loss, and transformation. From conquering public speaking anxiety to navigating marriage, career shifts, and deep personal grief, this conversation delivers raw insight and practical wisdom. You’ll hear how life’s toughest moments can shape purpose, how to rebuild after loss, and what it takes to grow a personal...

In this episode with Tolu Afilaka , Ayo Akinola , co-founder of PiggyVest and CEO of PocketApp , shares the real lessons behind building one of Nigeria’s most trusted fintech companies. This is not just a startup success story. It is a conversation about failure, trust, team dynamics, mentorship, relationships, sales, consumer psychology, and what it really takes to build a business that Nigerians...