Tolu Afilaka

What if the greatest success of your life still left you feeling empty? For years, Chude Jideonwo was achieving everything many people dream of. He built influential media platforms, advised political leaders, interviewed some of Africa's biggest names, and became one of the continent's most respected storytellers. Yet behind the success was a private battle with depression. In this deeply honest...

Nigeria needs more people speaking sense, not nonsense. That was one of the first things Engineer Dari Aliyu said in this conversation. And honestly, it set the tone for everything that followed. Most people know Dari Aliyu as the founder of TDA, one of Nigeria's most respected fashion brands. What many don't know is the story behind the success. He lost his father at the age of two. He was raised...

What does it really take to break a Guinness World Record? In this episode of Sound Minds Podcast, Tolu Afilaka sits down with Fadó, Nigeria's leading magician and Guinness World Record holder for the Longest Magic Show. For over 22 years, Fadó dedicated his life to mastering an art many people misunderstood. Then came the challenge that would test his mind, body, finances, and resilience like nev...

THE DARK SIDE OF THERAPY, INTIMACY & SEX | Dr. Tolu Oko Igaire (Part 2) In this highly anticipated Part 2, Dr. Tolu Oko Igaire goes even deeper into the unspoken realities of intimacy, emotional connection, and sexual struggles in Nigeria. With raw honesty and clinical insight, she breaks down how culture, religion, parenting, and trauma shape our sex lives and relationships — often in damagin...

The Truth About Therapy, Intimacy & Sex That No One Talks About – Dr. Tolu Oko Igaire In this bold, eye-opening, and deeply honest conversation, Tolu Afilaka sits down with Dr. Tolu Oko Igaire — one of Nigeria’s leading voices in mental health, sex therapy, and emotional wellness. As Provost of the Institute of Counseling in Nigeria and a renowned sex therapist, Dr. Tolu brings rare expertise...

In this powerful and emotional conversation, award-winning actress Shine Roseman sits down with Tolu Afilaka and speaks boldly about life, career, family, and the current state of Nigeria. From growing up in the streets of Ijesha to becoming one of Nigeria’s most loved actresses, Shine opens up about her journey, the influence of her parents, and why she can no longer stay silent about the sufferi...

In this episode, I sit down with Dr. Morenike Molehin , CEO of Oak and Teak , to break down the real journey behind building a successful interior design business in Nigeria and globally . From studying Computer Science at Covenant University to becoming a leading interior designer and entrepreneur , Dr. Molehin shares the truth about career transitions, business growth, rejection, and leadership...

In this raw and unfiltered conversation, Pastor Steve Hills (Love Room) sits down with Tolu Afilaka and speaks openly about the realities of music ministry, work, calling, and longevity in gospel music. From his childhood desire to just sing, to writing hit songs like “Supernatural” and “OluwaTosin”, Steve shares honest truths that challenge common beliefs in the industry. He discusses: Why “Music...

From studying Computer Science at Covenant University to becoming the General Manager of Cafe One, Kelechi Nwaozuzu has walked an inspiring and unconventional career path. In this honest and insightful conversation, Kelechi opens up about her journey — from battling shyness as a child, switching from programming to storytelling, facing over 500 job rejections in the UK, to making the bold decision...

How God Really Speaks – No Audible Voice Needed | Pastor Ayo Ajani (Part 2) In this powerful Part 2 conversation, Pastor Ayo Ajani (Senior Pastor of Petra Christian Centre) shares practical and eye-opening wisdom on how God actually speaks to us in everyday life. He explains why many Christians are being led by God but don’t realize it, the danger of waiting for perfect clarity, and how to move fo...

Pastor Ayo Ajani: The Brutal Truth About Work Ethic Most Christians Ignore Senior Pastor of Petra Christian Centre and one of Africa’s most charismatic faith teachers opens up like never before. In this powerful long-overdue conversation, Pastor Ayo Ajani shares raw wisdom on faith, leadership, family, and the seasons of life. From his dramatic journey growing up in a Muslim home to becoming a glo...

In this powerful episode, Gloria Baba opens up about her journey through fear, faith, loss, and transformation. From conquering public speaking anxiety to navigating marriage, career shifts, and deep personal grief, this conversation delivers raw insight and practical wisdom. You’ll hear how life’s toughest moments can shape purpose, how to rebuild after loss, and what it takes to grow a personal...

In this episode with Tolu Afilaka , Ayo Akinola , co-founder of PiggyVest and CEO of PocketApp , shares the real lessons behind building one of Nigeria’s most trusted fintech companies. This is not just a startup success story. It is a conversation about failure, trust, team dynamics, mentorship, relationships, sales, consumer psychology, and what it really takes to build a business that Nigerians...

Tolu sits down with Laju Iren, a filmmaker with a passion for creating impactful and faith-driven films. Together, they delve into Laju’s childhood, artistic beginnings, and how her faith plays a pivotal role in her filmmaking process. From her early life to her journey as a filmmaker, this episode provides an intimate look at her story. The episode also covers Laju’s new project ONOBIREN , a Chri...

In this in-depth conversation on That’s My Time Podcast , Dr. Kemi Oyedepo , the wife of Pastor David Oyedepo Jnr. (son of Bishop David Oyedepo), opens up about her remarkable journey. From growing up in Zimbabwe as a diplomat’s daughter and her international travels , to finding love with Pastor David Oyedepo Jnr. , their story is full of faith, perseverance , and incredible experiences . In this...

In this episode of That’s My Time Podcast, Tolu Afilaka hosts a deep, no-holds-barred conversation with guests from different belief systems. The discussion moves from Chioma’s experiences of spiritual sensitivity and her connection to water, to portals, altars, and why blood magic is rejected. The table debates whether Jesus is the only way, the role of religion in power and control, and how peop...

In this heartfelt Christmas special episode of That’s My Time Podcast, Tolu Afilaka sits with Tunmise and Adepoju for an honest, soul-searching conversation about faith, devotion, and the realities of walking with God in 2025. This episode is not about perfection. It is about process. Tunmise reflects on a faith journey rooted in her youth and shaped by intentional growth, personal encounters with...

In this deeply introspective and emotionally charged episode of That’s My Time Podcast, Tolu Afilaka sits with Olushola Olaleye for a profound conversation about masculinity, vulnerability, spiritual responsibility, success, pain, leadership, and the silent emotional battles men fight daily. From the first moment, it becomes clear that this episode is not entertainment it's therapy, mentorship, an...

In this gripping continuation of That’s My Time Podcast, host Tolu Afilaka and co-host Daeola sit down once again with the dynamic Ebuka Mic, comedian and youth pastor at Christ Embassy, for a conversation that delves deep into the heart of the Christian faith, spirituality, and the power of the Holy Spirit. In this second part of their conversation, Ebuka takes us on a journey through powerful th...

In this powerful and spirit-filled episode of That’s My Time Podcast , host Tolu Afilaka and co-host Daeola welcome back Ebuka Mic — comedian, youth pastor at Christ Embassy , and passionate soul winner — for a raw, convicting, and transformative conversation about evangelism, the Holy Spirit, and the true heart of ministry . Ebuka opens up about his divine burden for souls and the encounters that...

In this unfiltered and powerful episode of That’s My Time Podcast, host Tolu Afilaka sits down with Nollywood stars Olumide Oworu, Treasure Chikwendu, and Adegoke Adelusi for a raw, inspiring, and eye-opening conversation about acting, fame, Nollywood’s billion-dollar growth, the painful truth about auditions, stage vs screen performance, and the future of Nigerian cinema. From Olumide’s journey a...

In this powerful episode of That’s My Time Podcast, host Tolu Afilaka and co-host Daeola sit down with Pastor Lokachi of Celebration Church International (CCI) for a raw and inspiring conversation on purpose, purity, singlehood, relationships, honor, and spiritual growth. From his remarkable story of being a stillborn baby resuscitated through prayer, to discovering his calling to ministry as earl...

Meshkiey lost his dad and turned that pain into purpose. In this unfiltered conversation, he breaks down how he found his voice, built momentum while keeping a 9–5, and carved a lane in Nigeria’s ₦50 billion skit industry. We cover idea generation, characters, the money math behind skits, handling hate, faith, family, and the move toward film. If you’re a creator trying to grow without the hype, t...

🎙️ EPISODE 4 – ADULTING 101: Real Talk on Relationships, Lagos Hustle & Growing Up In this deeply personal and hilarious episode of That’s My Time , I’m joined by three amazing guests who represent different parts of my journey: Modupe Cole – my cousin, whom I haven’t seen in 18 years! Increase – my university classmate from our Civil Engineering days. Favour Nelson – a top productivity expert...

Welcome back to another explosive episode of That’s My Time Podcast with your host Tolu Afilaka and i have my amazing brothers — Increase, AYK, Awa Victor, Fulfillment, and Gini. In honor of Men's Mental Health Awareness Month, we went all in: from relationship standards, cheating, ego, money, and masculinity, to how men really process emotions. You don’t want to miss this honest, funny, and at ti...