Synful Ladies

Episode 69 - Do You Love Me? Prove it In this episode, the Ladies address a dilemma posted in a Facebook group. After their first lifestyle experience didn’t go so well, the boyfriend is insisting that his girlfriend try again because he didn’t get enough attention. However, his girlfriend isn’t bi and isn’t sure she wants to try again. So out comes the infamous phrase “If you really loved me you...

Episode 68 - Change of Heart or Bait and Switch? In this episode, the Synful Ladies return from an inadvertent week long hiatus due to health issues to tackle a thorny situation. When your partner is all ready to jump into the lifestyle only to pull the plug at the very last second, is it a bait and switch? Or have they had a change of heart? The Ladies tackle tough communication conversations and...

Episode 67 - Awkward Encounters In this episode, the Synful Ladies tackle a tricky problem from one of their listeners. How should you move forward when the potential significant other of a family member is discovered to be closely related to former play partners that are no longer in the lifestyle? Especially when you are not out to that particular family member in question? Join Ms. Syn and Lady...

Episode 66 - First Threesome Questions and Tips In this episode, the Synful Ladies tackle the do’s and don’ts of threesomes (especially those first time threesomes). From who kisses who to how to politely ask someone to leave if they have overstayed their welcome, Ms. Syn and Lady Kroft get down to the nitty gritty details sometimes overlooked in the excitement of planning the event itself.  Email...

Episode 65 - Body Conscious In this episode, a listener asks how he can help encourage and support his wife in playing with more people. Living with surgery scars from cancer can do a number on a person’s confidence and comfort in their own body. The Synful Ladies dive into what he can do and what he should keep doing right.  Email:  synfulladies@gmail.com (13) synfulladies (@synfulladies) / Twitt...

Episode 64 - Frenzy or Flag? In this episode, The Synful Ladies break down what could be potential red flags in newbies or if it could just be Newbie Frenzy. Sometimes things we would consider red flags in more experienced couples, aren’t so in newbies; the newbies don’t know any better. Time to help out newbies when we see them!

Episode 63 - This is Weird Right? In this episode, Ms. Syn and Lady Kroft talk about meeting with a couple who has young kids. When they ask to bring the kids along to meet first and not play, is that weird or expected since they have kids so young? The Ladies discuss it all.  Email:  synfulladies@gmail.com (13) synfulladies (@synfulladies) / Twitter Synful Ladies (@synful.ladies) • Instagram phot...

Episode 62 - Is this Jealousy or Territoriality? In this episode, the Synful Ladies discuss a listener’s dilemma: when a spouse walks the fine line of not quite crossing established boundaries but still ends up pushing the other into uncomfortable territory, is the reaction from the responding spouse appropriate or an overreaction? Email:  synfulladies@gmail.com (13) synfulladies (@synfulladies) /...

Episode 61 - Red flag or Inexperience? In this episode, Lady Kroft has a question from a listener: when talking to a potential Dom as a new submissive, how can you tell the difference between a red flag and just my inexperience? Ms. Syn and Lady Kroft tackle all the nuances of vetting and potential red flags from right out of the gate.  Email:  synfulladies@gmail.com (13) synfulladies (@synfulladi...

Episode 60 - Can Communication Be Coercive? In this episode, The Synful Ladies discuss one of the most important aspects of any relationship: Communication. They also answer the question: can communication be coercive? Usually communicating is a good thing but can it also be a bad thing? Join the Ladies as they talk about it all  Email:  synfulladies@gmail.com (13) synfulladies (@synfulladies) / T...

Episode 59 - Allergy Dilemma In this episode, Ms. Syn and Lady Kroft tackle a listener’s question about allergies, condoms, and what to do when an unexpected allergy comes up before, during, or after play. From appropriate responses to how to bring up the subject of allergies, the Ladies cover it all.  Email:  synfulladies@gmail.com (13) synfulladies (@synfulladies) / Twitter Synful Ladies (@synfu...

Episode 58 - What Toy for What Play? In this episode, Ms. Syn and Lady Kroft discuss the differences between your “standard” sex toys to your more “advanced” toys. From dildos, to paddles, to electro play, to fire play, the Ladies dive into all the different types of toys and how they differ between beginner toys to the more advanced toys.  Email:  synfulladies@gmail.com (13) synfulladies (@synful...

Episode 57 - One Up This! In this episode, the Synful Ladies talk about someone we’ve all come across: The One-Upper. From talking about different ways people can be a “one upper” in the different areas of the lifestyle, to talking about how to politely redirect the conversation, the Ladies cover it all.  Email:  synfulladies@gmail.com (13) synfulladies (@synfulladies) / Twitter Synful Ladies (@sy...

Episode 56 - No Feelings Here! In this episode, the Synful Ladies discuss what you can do to avoid catching feelings while swinging. Playing with new people versus regular play partners and communication are all factors in how to navigate this effectively.  Email:  synfulladies@gmail.com (13) synfulladies (@synfulladies) / Twitter Synful Ladies (@synful.ladies) • Instagram photos and videos   Chec...

Episode 55 - It Wasn’t Good. Now What?   In this episode, the Ladies answer a listener’s question on how to let a play partner know that future play times will not happen. Ms. Syn and Lady Kroft dive into why the play time went bad and how to tactfully tell someone not again.  Email:  synfulladies@gmail.com (13) synfulladies (@synfulladies) / Twitter Synful Ladies (@synful.ladies) • Instagram phot...

Episode 54 - Unicorn hunters: The Good and The Bad In this episode, the Synful Ladies tackle the subject of Unicorn Hunters. The Ladies break down the stereotypes surrounding Unicorn Hunters and also define the difference between looking for a Unicorn for a threesome versus a polyam triad.  Email:  synfulladies@gmail.com (13) synfulladies (@synfulladies) / Twitter Synful Ladies (@synful.ladies) •...

Episode 53 - To Be Polyam is To Be Free? Maybe In this episode, Lady Kroft and Ms. Syn break down how being polyamorous can be freeing for some people and not for others. They also answer the question: should I date my roommate? Email:  synfulladies@gmail.com (13) synfulladies (@synfulladies) / Twitter Synful Ladies (@synful.ladies) • Instagram photos and videos   Check us out on  Full Swap Radio...

Episode 52 - First Anniversary Holy Podcasting Batman! It’s been a year! In this episode, the Ladies look back on their first year of podcasting and all the fun they had while looking forward to the next year! Email:  synfulladies@gmail.com (13) synfulladies (@synfulladies) / Twitter Synful Ladies (@synful.ladies) • Instagram photos and videos   Check us out on  Full Swap Radio – Its Not a Mood It...

Episode 51 - Navigating Kitchen Table Poly In this episode, Ms. Syn and Lady Kroft discuss things to keep in mind when trying to get into kitchen table polyamory from parallel polyamory or from monogamy to kitchen table polyamory. From PDA, to comfort level being poly in public, to what side of the bed do triads sleep on, the Ladies have fun breaking it all down for you! Email:  synfulladies@gmail...

Episode 50 - Double Standards In this episode, the Ladies tackle a subject we’ve all come across before: Double Standards. Lady Kroft and Ms. Syn rock on all the different versions of doubles standards that exist in this lifestyle: bisexuality, consent, different dating expectations for different genders, and more.  Email:  synfulladies@gmail.com (13) synfulladies (@synfulladies) / Twitter Synful...

Episode 49 - Consent In this episode, Ms. Syn and Lady Kroft discuss one of the most important topic in every lifestyle: Consent. The ladies go over what it means, why it’s important, what it isn’t, and what coerced consent is and can look like.  Email:  synfulladies@gmail.com (13) synfulladies (@synfulladies) / Twitter Synful Ladies (@synful.ladies) • Instagram photos and videos   Check us out on...

Episode 48 - Things Got Krazy In this episode, the Ladies recount all the sexy fun they had while at Krazy Winter Nights. From sexy outfits to Synful burgers, the Synful Ladies tell all.  Email:  synfulladies@gmail.com (13) synfulladies (@synfulladies) / Twitter Synful Ladies (@synful.ladies) • Instagram photos and videos   Check us out on  Full Swap Radio – Its Not a Mood Its a Lifestyle

Episode 47 - BDE and HBIC Energy In this episode, Ms. Syn and Lady Kroft talk about the guys who exude BDE or big dick energy and the difference between being confident and conceited. HBIC and BDE can be used as a cover but also can be a good indicator of what type of person they truly are. Email:  synfulladies@gmail.com (13) synfulladies (@synfulladies) / Twitter Synful Ladies (@synful.ladies) •...

Episode 46 - How to Deal In this episode, the Ladies answer a listener’s question about when medical problems make erections harder to achieve and the consequent reaction of couple when he doesn’t play Ike his partner does.    Email:  synfulladies@gmail.com (13) synfulladies (@synfulladies) / Twitter Synful Ladies (@synful.ladies) • Instagram photos and videos   Check us out on  Full Swap Radio –...

Episode 45 - Transitioning to Poly In this episode, Ms. Syn and Lady Kroft talk about the transition into polyamory from monogamy, from swinging, and from an open relationship. There can be several pitfalls and issues that can arise when trying polyamory for the first time. The Ladies discuss the common issues and how to address them and work through them with your partner.