Synful Ladies

Episode 95 - Hold up Shallow Hal In this episode, Ms. Syn and Lady Kroft address dealing with fundamental issues in a relationship that is attempting to swing but starts to lean closer to tempting one of the partners to cheat. Then the Ladies talk about “wife snatching” and ending up the odd man out when it comes to couple play.  Email:  synfulladies@gmail.com (13) synfulladies (@synfulladies) / T...

Episode 94 - Wife’s Master In this episode, the Synful Ladies talk about an issue with a nesting partner whose wife has a Master who recently moved to the same town and then Lady Kroft and Ms. Syn tackle a listener’s email about an unusual fetish. Listen as the Ladies dissect it all!

Episode 93 - Objectivity In this episode, Lady Kroft and Ms. Syn tackle a group sex dilemma with a hinge polyamorous woman and her two partners which ended with one partner and their date feeling used and objectified from the sexual encounter. Group sex can be fun but the Synful Ladies delve into what can go wrong when communication gets ignored in the heat of the moment. 

Episode 92 - Do You Have To Let It Linger? In this episode, The Synful Ladies address what happens when a boundary gets crossed when you didn’t know you had that boundary. Sometimes emotions and feelings can linger for days or even weeks afterwards and that is normal. The Ladies talk about the after effects and how to work through those emotions and process them appropriately.  Email:  synfulladie...

Episode 91 - Are Your Standards Too High or Are My Standards Too Low? In this episode, the Ladies discuss a listener’s problem with his partner’s Standards, namely she says she can’t ever find any play partners who meet them and she’s lowering herself to his standards to play. Ms. Syn and Lady Kroft talk about how subjective standards are and why using language like “falling on a sword” and “takin...

Episode 90 - Scening Now or Later?   In this episode, the Synful Ladies discuss their weekend shenanigans and also what fun things that are coming up for the whole crew: from Rope Intensives to the Club OKCs pool party, the calendar is quite full! Then Ms. Syn and Lady Kroft talk about how to approach someone in a dungeon to scene the same night you meet them. Going over all the important things t...

Episode 89 - Is there a Correct Way to be Polyam? On this episode of The Synful Ladies, the Ladies discuss a couple different situations where the question has arose: is this not the “right” way to be polyamorous? From someone who is a hinge in a poly-vee dynamics to someone who is poly-saturated and trying to be upfront with new people about what they can offer, Ms. Syn and Lady Kroft discuss and...

Episode 88 - Rule Breakers? In the latest installment from the Synful Ladies, Lady Kroft and Ms. Syn tackle a couple different posts seen in the wilds of social media. First up, if a partner tells you their rules within their marriage and then breaks those rules, who is at fault? Next, is it on the person who accepts a request to play from half of a couple to check with the other half to be sure i...

Episode 87 - KWN Recap   In this episode, the Synful Ladies get back to business and recap all the fun and debauchery that was had at Krazy Winter Nights. From almost driving past hotels, to meeting some amazingly sexy people, to hosting the largest rope class ever, the Ladies dish on it all!  Email:  synfulladies@gmail.com (13) synfulladies (@synfulladies) / Twitter Synful Ladies (@synful.ladies)...

Episode 86 - BDSM Dynamics through a Poly Lens In this episode, the Synful Ladies have a special guest join them for an intriguing topic: how is a D/s dynamic in a BDSM relationship viewed when transitioning into the world of polyamory. The Ladies take a deep dive into the nuances of what perceptions can be wrong and should be reevaluated along with their special guest star.  Email:  synfulladies@...

Episode 84 - The Lifestyle Fixes Everything… not! In this episode, Ms. Syn and Lady Kroft talk about what happens when couples get into the lifestyle and begin swinging - to save their marriage or relationship. (Sidenote: It’s not usually good). Using play partners to attack or hurt your significant other, is never a good sign and the Synful Ladies talk about all the ways things can go wrong and w...

Episode 83 - Partner’s Partners Problems In this episode, the Synful Ladies offer their take on how a listener can address problems with their metamour taking on more of a parental role for the listeners children and refusing to have any communication or interaction with the listener. A basic respectful relationship is needed for any successful meta-meta relationship but when that isn’t happening,...

Episode 82 - Self Conscious vs Self Confidence  In this episode, Lady Kroft and Ms. Syn answer a listeners question about how to handle scars and other areas of our bodies that we are self-conscious about before, during, and after playtime. Discussing how self consciousness can turn into self-confidence, the Synful Ladies talk about different ways and strategies to manage being self-conscious.

Episode 81 - Odors and Scents and Smells, Oh My! In this episode of the Synful Ladies, Ms. Syn and Lady Kroft discuss a listener’s dilemma: he wanted to play with a couple but the woman had an odor and he couldn’t perform. The Ladies talk about all the possible reasons smells happen; from pheromones to sweat to bacteria, there are a wide range of potential causes and the Ladies talk about why that...

Episode 80 - Habits In this episode, Ms. Syn and Lady Kroft talk about something we all have but can forget we have : habits. From “Do you get in a rut or habit of eating at the same place?” to “do you make it a habit to always initiate play in the same way?”, the Synful Ladies cover all different types of habits you can have from grooming, to play, to clothing, to eating. What habits to they disc...

Episode 79 - Laughter is the Best Medicine   In this episode, the Synful Ladies talk about some of the funniest and silliest stories they’ve experienced in the lifestyle as well as some that others have experienced. Laughter and fun is had by all as the Ladies sit back and enjoy the stories. 

Episode 78 - Why the Judgement?   In this episode, Lady Kroft and Ms. Syn talk about the judgment that can be passed on people who are into looking for casual no strings attached sex without a relationship. The judgment and gatekeeping seem to come out towards those who are upfront about their intentions from the get go due to assumptions that they aren’t really being honest about what they want....

Episode 77 - De-escalation station    In this episode, The Synful Ladies tackle something that happens often in polyamory but yet doesn’t get talked about a lot: de-escalating a relationship with a partner. Trying to navigate from partners, lovers, to friends or more of a friends with benefits situation without a true break up is an especially hard thing to do. The Ladies offer their opinions and...

Episode 76 - Couple Profile Tips and Advice In this episode, Ms. Syn and Lady Kroft share their insights into the world of social media and looking for other compatible couples to swing with. From what to include on your profile to what not to say when you chat with another couple, the Synful Ladies dish on it all. 

Episode 75 - Comparison Catastrophe  In this episode, the Synful Ladies answer a listener’s question: how do you stop comparing yourself to your metamours, (your partner’s other partners). Ms. Syn and Lady Kroft weigh in and offer advice on how to tackle the jealousy, insecurity, and fears that could all be contributing to the comparison phenomenon.  Email:  synfulladies@gmail.com (13) synfulladie...

Episode 74 - She Does but I Don’t  In this episode, Ms. Syn and Lady Kroft offer advice on what to do when one half of a couple is seriously talking about ending participation in the lifestyle but the other isn’t ready to leave yet. Getting down to the reason that the partner who is wanting to leave is key because it may be that instead of leaving the lifestyle, you simply need a break. Burnout co...

Episode 73 - Update and a What Would the Synful Ladies Do Dilemma? In this episode, the Synful Ladies hear back from a listener with more information and detail about their previous question and situation. This is an update from the situation featured in Episode 67 - Awkward Encounters. Then Ms. Syn and Lady Kroft tackle a “What Would You Do?” Question posed in a social media group. Find out what...

Episode 72 - Rumor Spreader In this episode of the Synful Ladies, Ms. Syn and Lady Kroft answer a listener’s question about addressing rumors. Whether you’ve been in the lifestyle for years or if you’re just starting out, rumors can ruin a good thing. The Ladies discuss all the complications that can arise from the different ways you can tackle hearing rumors about you and your partner especially...

Episode 71 - Pool Party Recap  In this episode, Ms. Syn and Lady Kroft recount all the sexy, synful shenanigans that were had at The Club OKC Pool Party 2022! From the corn hole competition, to the sexy pool side games on Saturday, the Synful Ladies dish on it all! It was amazing and fun and if you didn’t make it out this year, be sure to put it on your calendar for next year! Email:  synfulladies...

Episode 70 - Helicopter Mother and Polyamory In this episode, a listener writes in asking for help in addressing her overbearing mother who wants to join her on a potential polyamorous date. Amidst the uncertainty and excitement of new relationships potentially forming, a mother feeling left out is added to the mix. Ms. Syn and Lady Kroft discuss how to set boundaries, expectations, and how to app...