Sex and Breakfast

Are you in control of AI, or is AI already shaping your sex life? The hosts tackle these questions while breaking down the three main ways people are currently using AI in their sex lives - as a partner, a practice tool, and a coach. Before diving into a candid debate about whether AI is a help or hindrance to real connection, the panel explores the dangers of AI's built-in bias and echo chamber d...

Dating apps promised us endless choices, but we're getting burnt-out swipes instead of real love. In this episode, the hosts explore why swiping through profiles has made us impatient with the awkwardness of real romance—and more importantly, how to meet people the old-fashioned way. They share practical tips for building a social life first, making friends second, and letting romance happen natur...

This episode explores edging not as a trendy bedroom hack, but as a deeper practice of awareness, control, and connection. The hosts unpack how intentionally pausing at the brink of orgasm can expand arousal capacity, heighten sensitivity, and shift pleasure from something rushed and performative into something embodied and intentional. Drawing from clinical experience, they connect edging to nerv...

Dirty talk has a reputation—and for many people, it’s intimidating, awkward, or even off-putting. In this episode, we strip away the myths and reframe what dirty talk actually is: not performance, not porn scripts, but the simple act of naming desire out loud. We explore why speaking during intimacy can feel more vulnerable than physical touch, and how cultural conditioning, shame, and lack of edu...

Most people think they already know how to masturbate—but what if the way you learned is actually limiting your pleasure? In this episode, we break down the difference between quick, habitual self-touch and mindful masturbation—a practice that transforms not just your solo experiences, but your partnered sex life too. We explore how patterns formed early on—often shaped by shame, lack of privacy,...

Sex is supposed to feel good… so why does it sometimes feel like pressure instead? In this episode, we open up one of the most common—but least talked about—experiences in intimacy: sexual anxiety . From overthinking your performance to fearing disappointment, we unpack the quiet mental loops that can turn connection into stress. You’ll hear how anxiety doesn’t just follow sexual struggles—it ofte...

This episode invites listeners to slow all the way down and question something most people never think twice about: are you actually feeling… or just performing? The conversation centers around orgasmic meditation (OM)—a structured, mindful practice that removes pressure, performance, and even the goal of orgasm itself. Instead, it creates space for presence, connection, and deep attunement betwee...

As conversations about sex become more visible online, many people are still quietly wondering the same question: W hat actually makes someone sexually confident? In this thoughtful episode, the hosts of Sex and Breakfast unpack the deeper ingredients of sexual confidence beyond performance, dominance, or experience. Inspired by a coaching story about a client who tried to embody a rigid “real man...

As conversations about equality expand beyond workplaces and politics, there’s another space where inequality still quietly exists: the bedroom. In this special International Women’s Day episode of Sex and Breakfast, the hosts explore the research behind the “orgasm gap”—the documented difference in how often men and women report orgasming during heterosexual encounters. Drawing on decades of stud...

One year, countless honest conversations, and a global community later — this celebratory anniversary episode reflects on the journey of building a sex-positive space where curiosity, education, and pleasure meet. Nicole and the hosts revisit standout conversations from the past year, including fan favorites like exploring the many types of orgasms, reclaiming pleasure after motherhood, busting my...

Porn. You love it, you hate it, or you’ve never quite known what to do with it—and in this honest, nuanced episode, we talk about all of it. We explore porn through a sex-positive, value-based lens, unpacking the differences between visual porn, erotica, audio erotica, and ethical porn, and how each can impact desire, confidence, communication, and relationships. Drawing from conservative religiou...

In this insightful, and surprisingly nourishing episode, we take you far beyond vibrators and into the often-overlooked world of sensual foods, adaptogens, rituals, and everyday products that can profoundly support intimacy, arousal, and connection. From pantry staples like honey, coconut oil, and mangoes to plant-based alcohol alternatives, saliva-enhancing mints, pheromones, and ancient herbal t...

As the new year begins, this reflective and grounding episode invites you to rethink resolutions and explore a gentler, more meaningful reset through realignment—especially when it comes to your sexual self. Instead of chasing rigid goals, the panel guides you through a journaling-based sexual reboot rooted in curiosity, compassion, and authenticity, while honoring what already sparkles in your li...

This is Part 2 of our deeply honest conversation about Long Distance Relationships, we unpack what really goes into keeping intimacy alive when love spans cities, countries, and time zones. From communication mismatches to reintegration struggles to the sweet ache of longing, we explore how long-distance couples can stay connected with rituals, values-based communication, emotional honesty, and pl...

In this warm and deeply honest conversation, we unpack what really goes into keeping intimacy alive when love spans cities, countries, and time zones. From communication mismatches to reintegration struggles to the sweet ache of longing, we explore how long-distance couples can stay connected with rituals, values-based communication, emotional honesty, and playful creativity. The coaches and thera...

In the spirit of the holiday season — a time of gifting, play, and delicious surprises — we’re sharing some of our favorite intimacy-enhancing products and pleasure-supporting tools. In this fun, unfiltered, and enlightening episode, we dive into the evolving world of sexual wellness items — from practical essentials to creative innovations you probably didn’t even know existed. Nicole highlights...

Part 2 of this insightful conversation about the often-overlooked power of touch in relationships. Centered around Barry McCarthy’s “five gears of touch” model and the Touch Continuum. The group explores how intentional touch builds emotional connection, bridges intimacy, and opens clearer communication between partners. They highlight how modern couple life often bypasses the rich middle gears (s...

This is Part 1 of a 2 episode series of a warm, insightful conversation about the often-overlooked power of touch in relationships. Centered around Barry McCarthy’s “five gears of touch” model and the Touch Continuum. The group explores how intentional touch builds emotional connection, bridges intimacy, and opens clearer communication between partners. They highlight how modern couple life often...

In this powerful and deeply personal episode, we explore the complex, often silent world of sexual trauma. They open with a candid look into their own healing journey — from surviving childhood trauma to becoming a certified sex coach and advocate for survivors — before the group unpacks the different forms of sexual trauma, including “big T” and “little t” experiences, and how they manifest in th...

In this powerful and deeply personal episode, we explore the complex, often silent world of sexual trauma. They open with a candid look into their own healing journey — from surviving childhood trauma to becoming a certified sex coach and advocate for survivors — before the group unpacks the different forms of sexual trauma, including “big T” and “little t” experiences, and how they manifest in th...

In this vibrant episode, we dive into the playful intersection of sex and exercise — or “sexercise.” Together they explore how movement enhances sensual awareness, body confidence, and connection, touching on everything from coregasms and pelvic health to aging, embodiment, and pleasure as a lifelong practice. With humor and honesty, the conversation reframes fitness as more than physical strength...

In this essential episode, we dive into sexual accessibility for differently abled bodies—because everyone deserves access to pleasure, intimacy, and fulfilling sexual experiences regardless of ability. Join us as we break down harmful myths, discuss practical modifications that make sex more accessible, and share valuable resources that support disabled individuals in their sexual journeys. Urge....

In this two-part conversation, hosts and sexperts explore one of the most universal and challenging topics in long-term relationships: how to maintain and cultivate desire over time. They dive into the realities couples face—including dwindling libido, caregiving responsibilities, stress, aging, myths about spontaneity, and mismatched values. The discussion reframes boredom as a potential catalyst...

In this two-part conversation, hosts and sexperts explore one of the most universal and challenging topics in long-term relationships: how to maintain and cultivate desire over time. They dive into the realities couples face—including dwindling libido, caregiving responsibilities, stress, aging, myths about spontaneity, and mismatched values. The discussion reframes boredom as a potential catalyst...

In this enlightening episode, the hosts dive deep into the wonderful world of orgasms, debunking the myth that they're "one size fits all" and celebrating the incredible variety of orgasmic experiences available. From the commonly known clitoral and vaginal orgasms to the lesser-discussed cervical, anal, energetic, and even "coregasms" from exercise, the panel explores how pleasure extends far bey...