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We all want success but I'll bet the closer you get to it the more you'll start to fear it. PEOPLE PLEASING 128. It's time to put an end to your people pleasing sis RELATED EPISODES 145. The 4 Most Important Things to Prioritize in 2024 144. The SECRET to TRUE FREEDOM 134. How to handle conflict as the best version of yourself JOURNALS Reinvent Yourself Planner: :  https://secludedthou...

You might think putting yourself last is noble but sis.. what has this done for you so far? How can you continue to justify this when it leaves you so depleted?  If you liked this clip make sure you check out the full episode: EP 114. Give yourself as many chances as you gave that man JOURNALS Reinvent Yourself Planner:  https://secludedthoughts.com/reinvent Self Reflection Journal:  https://secl...

But... what about the things you're supposed to be doing for yourself? If you committed your time to do something for you why do you easily change your plans when other people need things from you? What about your personal commitments? If you liked this clip make sure you check out the full episode: EP #115. Stop overextending yourself, miss sacrificial lamb JOURNALS Reinvent Yourself Planner:...

Everything you want to achieve and become stems from these 4 things so if you prioritize them you will not only become a better person but you will achieve your other goals as well. RELATED EPISODES: 144 - The Secret to True Freedom 126 - Hold yourself to a high standard 100 - It's time to UPGRADE your Standard 135 - How to build your confidence and self worth JOURNALS Reinvent Yourself Planne...

You might fool your friends but you can't fool me. You made your mind up long before you conjured up that story (in your favor) to tell your friends to get them to cosign on your bad decisions. Let's own up to it. If you liked this clip make sure you check out the full episode: EP #109. How accountability will change your life JOURNALS Reinvent Yourself Planner:  https://secludedthoughts.c...

You gonna throw your advantage away so other people can feel comfortable??? You do know that they're only saying that because they're trying to belittle you and discount your hard work right??? If you liked this clip make sure you check out the full episode: EP #113. Girl stop trying to prove yourself to other people JOURNALS Reinvent Yourself Planner:  https://secludedthoughts.com/reinven...

First we think it’s the money that will solve all of our problems.. Then we think it’s time. “If I had control of my time I’d be happy..” But it’s neither. Today we’re discussing the TRUE way to achieve FREEDOM. Book: The Courage to Be Disliked - https://amzn.to/4aqdDky Leave a comment on Youtube: https://youtu.be/DyNqebw5Vr4 TOPICS DISCUSSED What we THINK freedom is The secret to TRUE FREEDOM Fea...

Lmao let's be real with ourselves pls. Somebody has to tell you this. If you liked this clip make sure you check out the full episode: EP 114. Give yourself as many chances as you gave that man JOURNALS Reinvent Yourself Planner:  https://secludedthoughts.com/reinvent Self Reflection Journal:  https://secludedthoughts.com/self Relationship Journal:  https://secludedthoughts.com/relationships H...

Consider YOUR OWN needs before you prioritize that of others. In some situations it'll work against you if you always prioritize other people before yourself. If you liked this clip make sure you check out the full episode: EP #115. Stop overextending yourself, miss sacrificial lamb JOURNALS Reinvent Yourself Planner:  https://secludedthoughts.com/reinvent Self Reflection Journal:  https://sec...

Let’s talk about the productivity trap that a lot of us fall into + productivity tips to help you achieve your goals in the New Year! Leave a comment on Youtube: https://youtu.be/PwdO9ifotZA JOURNALS Reinvent Yourself Planner: :  https://secludedthoughts.com/reinvent Self Reflection Journal:  https://secludedthoughts.com/self Relationship Journal:  https://secludedthoughts.com/relationships Healin...

Sis.... why are you so hard on yourself but so lenient with people who don't deserve you? If you liked this clip make sure you check out the full episode: EP 114. Give yourself as many chances as you gave that man JOURNALS Reinvent Yourself Planner:  https://secludedthoughts.com/reinvent Self Reflection Journal:  https://secludedthoughts.com/self Relationship Journal:  https://secludedthoughts...

If these people aren't paying your bills or signing your checks why are you explaining and justifying how you spend your money to them? If you liked this clip make sure you check out the full episode: EP #113. Girl stop trying to prove yourself to other people JOURNALS Reinvent Yourself Planner:  https://secludedthoughts.com/reinvent Self Reflection Journal:  https://secludedthoughts.com/self...

This is not your typical ‘create a vision board, declutter your phone, set goals’ prep list. I’m holding you accountable to these 5 things you need to do to get your life together in preparation for 2024. Leave a comment on Youtube: https://youtu.be/CbQTscOMsc4 JOURNALS Reinvent Yourself Planner: :  https://secludedthoughts.com/reinvent Self Reflection Journal:  https://secludedthoughts.com/self R...

Are the things you say about yourself conssitent with the best version of yourself? Are you holding yourself back from living your ideal life because you keep saying things like "that's just not who I am" or "that's just the way I am?"  If you liked this clip make sure you check out the full episode: EP #111. It's time to redefine who you are JOURNALS Reinvent Yourself...

Stop fighting to prove that you "made it out the mud" or that life wasn't easy for you and you had to hustle and grind. Stop letting that offend you. Stop going overboard to try to prove that you struggled. Take it as a compliment instead. If you liked this clip make sure you check out the full episode: EP #113. Girl stop trying to prove yourself to other people JOURNALS Reinvent Yours...

There's no way around it. In order to get through this trial phase in your life you have to do the hard work! JOURNALS Reinvent Yourself Planner: :  https://secludedthoughts.com/reinvent Self Reflection Journal:  https://secludedthoughts.com/self Relationship Journal:  https://secludedthoughts.com/relationships Healing Journal:  https://secludedthoughts.com/healing LET'S STAY CONNECTED! Ti...

...Or maybe he has potential.. but that doesn't mean you'll be around to ever see it. Put yourself first and don't negotiate based on fantasies! STAND UP SIS! If you liked this clip make sure you check out the full episode: EP #109. How accountability will change your life JOURNALS Reinvent Yourself Planner:  https://secludedthoughts.com/reinvent Self Reflection Journal:  https://seclu...

Make sure you rest your mind before the New Year so you can be refreshed and think clearly as your take on the New Year! You also need to make sure you're receptive to hearing God's voice If you liked this clip make sure you check out the full episode: EP #112. You need to rest your MIND too, sis JOURNALS Reinvent Yourself Planner:  https://secludedthoughts.com/reinvent Self Reflection Jou...

Have you ever felt like people weren’t accepting you for who you are? Or that they were projecting their expectations onto you or holding you accountable for meeting certain needs? Let’s talk about it.  JOURNALS Reinvent Yourself Planner: :  https://secludedthoughts.com/reinvent Self Reflection Journal:  https://secludedthoughts.com/self Relationship Journal:  https://secludedthoughts.com/relation...

It's not enough to be vague about your ideal lifestyle or financial position and just leave it up to change. You need to go in depth and then adopt the mindset necessary to manifest it. If you liked this clip make sure you check out the full episode: EP #111. It's time to redefine who you are JOURNALS Reinvent Yourself Planner:  https://secludedthoughts.com/reinvent Self Reflection Journal...

Don't put yourself in a position to attract predators.  If you liked this clip make sure you check out the full episode: EP #109 - How accountability will change your life JOURNALS Reinvent Yourself Planner:  https://secludedthoughts.com/reinvent Self Reflection Journal:  https://secludedthoughts.com/self Relationship Journal:  https://secludedthoughts.com/relationships Healing Journal:  http...

It’s time to stop *needing* motivational speeches and motivational videos to get you to do things. After all, if they were enough you wouldn’t need them in the first place. It’s not a reliable system so let’s talk about what you need to do instead. MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE: Atomic Habits: https://amzn.to/49WHdOu #5 - Stop looking for Motivation - This is what you need instead #105 -  Live in the...

It happens to the best of us sis. Don't be too hard on yourself. If you liked this clip make sure you check out the full episode: EP #109 - How accountability will change your life JOURNALS Reinvent Yourself Planner:  https://secludedthoughts.com/reinvent Self Reflection Journal:  https://secludedthoughts.com/self Relationship Journal:  https://secludedthoughts.com/relationships Healing Journa...

Don't waste time and energy complaining about people who don't meet your standards or respect your boundaries. Accept them for who they are and decide on their place in their life (if at all). If you liked this clip make sure you check out the full episode: EP #105 - Live in the world AS IT IS, not as it should be JOURNALS Reinvent Yourself Planner:  https://secludedthoughts.com/reinvent...

Once I adopted these 3 mindset changes and outlooks on life it changed the game for me.  Mentioned in this episode: EP 88 - Stop begging and start preparing Hebrews 11:6-34 EP 99 - Stop nagging and justifying your non-negotiables Leave a comment on Youtube: https://youtu.be/ewy4_k9JYFg JOURNALS Reinvent Yourself Planner: :  https://secludedthoughts.com/reinvent Self Reflection Journal:  https://se...