MissJudged Podcast

Dating after 30 is a CRIME SCENE—and apparently both men and women have some explaining to do. This week, Alyssa is joined by her good friend Jessica Galpin to put the biggest dating crimes on trial and talk about all the shit nobody warns you about when you’re single in your 30s. We’re talking breadcrumbing, the classic “I’m just a bad texter” excuse, bad sex, questionable bedroom behavior, mixed...

You blocked them. You cried. You told all your friends you were DONE. You gave a TED Talk about how toxic they are. And then… somehow you're back in their house. WHY?! This week, Alyssa sits down with John Jacobs (@maybachdiamonds) to talk about why we keep going back to toxic exes, why toxic relationships can feel so addictive, and—most importantly—how the hell you actually break the cycle and mo...

After planning 200+ weddings, Alyssa has learned one very important thing: you can fake a lot of s*** in a relationship, but wedding planning will expose you FAST. In this solo episode of MissJudged, Alyssa is taking 16+ years of behind-the-scenes wedding chaos and turning it into the relationship advice nobody asked for—but honestly, everyone dating, engaged, or married probably needs. Want to kn...

Can you date someone with completely different political views—or has politics officially become one of the biggest dating dealbreakers in modern relationships? Should we be like this?? This week, Alyssa is joined by Charlie Goldensohn (@chez.chuck) for a funny, unfiltered conversation about what happens when dating, relationships, friendships, family, and politics collide. And no, this isn't a po...

This week on MissJudged, Alyssa sits down with renowned sex therapist, relationship expert, professor, author, and 90 Day: The Last Resort expert Dr. Tara (@luvbites.co) for one of the funniest, most honest, and most educational conversations about sex, dating, and intimacy. From the biggest misconceptions about what makes someone "good in bed" to the questions everyone is too embarrassed to ask,...

What happens when grief enters a relationship — and suddenly love, dating, marriage, friendship, family, and even your situationship all start acting weird? In this episode of MissJudged, Alyssa is joined by viral creator Sidney Raz (@sidneyraz) for a raw, funny, and surprisingly helpful conversation about grief, loss, love, cancer, miscarriage, death, and how relationships survive life’s most dev...

Why do you keep choosing the wrong partners? Is it trauma, attachment style, or are you unknowingly dating narcissists and emotionally unavailable people over and over? In this episode of MissJudged, Alyssa sits down with a licensed relationship therapist to break down the psychology behind toxic relationships, narcissistic partners, emotional abuse, trauma, attachment styles, and why so many inte...

Can your relationship survive a vacation… or is one shared hotel room all it takes to expose every red flag? In this solo episode of MissJudged, Alyssa breaks down how to travel with your partner, boyfriend, girlfriend, or situationship without turning the trip into a passive-aggressive group project from hell. Whether you’re planning your first baecation, going away with someone you’re “not techn...

In this episode of MissJudged , Alyssa sits down with Kenny Santucci for a true bombshell conversation—the kind people don’t usually have on mic. Kenny gets unusually candid about his past, opening up about what actually happened behind the scenes during his cancellation and sharing details he’s never publicly said before. No PR spin, no vague answers—just a raw, honest look at what it feels like...

This week on Missjudged, Alyssa is joined by Zack Peter (@justplainzack) host of No Filter with Zack Peter — for an unfiltered, hilarious, and brutally honest conversation about cheating in dating, emotional affairs, DMs, lies, hookup culture, relationship boundaries, and reality TV scandals. Because apparently in 2026, cheating is no longer just “I slept with someone else.” Now it’s secret DMs, l...

We are finally tackling the highly debated topic of 50/50!!!! On this episode of Missjudged, Alyssa sits down with matchmaker Anna Morgenstern to debate one of the most controversial questions in modern dating and marriage: should relationships be 50/50 in all the ways? Anna is in a successful 50/50 marriage. Alyssa thinks 50/50 is basically a beautifully marketed scam against women. So naturally...

What is emotional unavailability, really — are they actually unavailable… or did they just not like you? In this episode of MissJudged, Alyssa is joined by Hunter Stoler to break down emotional unavailability in dating, what it looks like in real life, and why it is not always as simple as blaming avoidant attachment or calling everyone a narcissist. We get into the real signs of an emotionally un...

You don't just date them—you date their entire family system. In this savage-but-true episode, Alyssa sits down with @CandiceGuardino to tackle the #1 source of relationship stress: in-laws and family boundaries. We break down the hilarious and horrifying reality of family meddling: from the people who only need parental approval, not a partner, to those who are recreating their chaotic childhood...

Ever leave a first date thinking “that went amazing”… and then get hit with silence, a slow fade, or the classic “you’re great but…”? In this episode of MissJudged, Alyssa Pettinato in her solo era answers the age-old question: why didn’t it progress to a second date? And yes—she’s brutally honest about it (with sisterly, comedic energy so it doesn’t feel like a personal attack). We get into the p...

Are softboys actually worse than fuckboys? In this episode of MissJudged, Alyssa is joined by @yourpalrick (Ricky Liorti), for a brutally honest, hilarious conversation about modern dating, situationships, red flags, rebounds, and the men who disguise chaos as emotional depth. From the rise of the softboy to why situationships can be more emotionally devastating than real relationships, this episo...

In this powerful episode of MissJudged, Alyssa sits down with professional boxer and world-record powerlifter @StefiCohen for a conversation that goes way beyond dating. Stefi FINALLY opens up about what it’s like to be a public figure when things go wrong, how quickly the media and public opinion can turn, and she shares her side of what really happened during the arrests and the very public issu...

Head over to Youtube or Patreon for this one guys!!! IYKYK. (@missjudgedpodcast) Welcome to Alyssa’s first subscriber-only solo episode of Missjudged — and she did not hold back. In this brutally honest, funny, and feral deep dive into modern dating, breakups, emotional unavailability, toxic relationship patterns, heartbreak, and healing, Alyssa gets real about the kind of relationship behavior th...

Breaking up is hard—especially when you’re stuck in the “should I stay or should I go?” spiral. In this episode of MissJudged, Alyssa is joined by Sabrina Bendory, author of Detached, to share a no-fluff, step-by-step breakup guide for short-term relationships and long-term relationships—including how to break up when you live together. We cover the biggest signs it’s time to end things, how to st...

Body language expert and total badass Linda Clemons joins Alyssa on MissJudged to explain why 93% of communication is nonverbal and how people size you up in the first 7 seconds. You for sure want to listen AND watch this one! We will go over what your posture, eye contact, and nervous habits are silently giving away in dating, friendships, business, and beyond. Think you were playing it cool on t...

Are you actually toxic… or are you just chronically exhausted?  In this episode of MissJudged , Alyssa Pettinato sits down with sleep expert Todd Anderson—who wastes absolutely no time roasting her for proudly running on six hours of sleep and believing she’s “thriving” because her Oura Ring told her so. (Todd would like everyone to know: that’s not thriving.) Together, they break down how sleep d...

Starting 2026 with a reminder to refresh more then just your closet. Friendship breakups don’t get enough airtime — and somehow they still manage to hurt more than romantic ones. In this episode, Alyssa is joined by Lindsey Simcik, (one half of the Almost 30 Podcast), for an honest, funny, and soulful conversation about what happens when friendships start to feel misaligned… and how to let go with...

Is wellness actually making us healthier… or just wasting our money and time?  In this episode, we’re joined by @DocJudComedy to officially separate medical facts from Instagram fiction . From mouth taping and cold plunges to hyperbaric chambers and Ozempic, we break down the viral wellness trends everyone is obsessing over—and ask the question no influencer wants to answer: is this actually helpi...

To ring in the new year we are kicking off with some honesty. Y’all don’t know how to screen your dates. At least, that’s the verdict from Alyssa in this solo episode of the MissJudged podcast... She’s tackling the elephant in the room: most people have no idea how to properly screen for dating, and it’s why so many end up in bad matches, situationships, or just wasting their own time. Alyssa lays...

Alyssa and Benny Hart are back — and this week we’re dragging one of the most toxic dating habits of all time: making your new partner pay for your old partner’s crimes. Because let’s be honest… Just because your ex cheated doesn’t mean a three-hour text delay means your new boyfriend is also a cheater. Just because your ex ghosted, breadcrumbed, love-bombed, or weaponized “I’m busy” doesn't mean...

This week on Missjudged , Alyssa sits down with the iconic, stunning and sweet  Roma Abdessalam (@TheRealSahd) — influencer, entrepreneur, and certified comeback queen — for a hilarious and unfiltered deep dive into her three engagements, dating rules, and the ultimate glow-up era. Roma opens up about her dating history and her engagements, the lessons she’s learned along the way, and how every “a...