MissJudged Podcast

In this episode of MissJudged , Alyssa sits down with Kenny Santucci for a true bombshell conversation—the kind people don’t usually have on mic. Kenny gets unusually candid about his past, opening up about what actually happened behind the scenes during his cancellation and sharing details he’s never publicly said before. No PR spin, no vague answers—just a raw, honest look at what it feels like...

This week on Missjudged, Alyssa is joined by Zack Peter (@justplainzack) host of No Filter with Zack Peter — for an unfiltered, hilarious, and brutally honest conversation about cheating in dating, emotional affairs, DMs, lies, hookup culture, relationship boundaries, and reality TV scandals. Because apparently in 2026, cheating is no longer just “I slept with someone else.” Now it’s secret DMs, l...

We are finally tackling the highly debated topic of 50/50!!!! On this episode of Missjudged, Alyssa sits down with matchmaker Anna Morgenstern to debate one of the most controversial questions in modern dating and marriage: should relationships be 50/50 in all the ways? Anna is in a successful 50/50 marriage. Alyssa thinks 50/50 is basically a beautifully marketed scam against women. So naturally...

What is emotional unavailability, really — are they actually unavailable… or did they just not like you? In this episode of MissJudged, Alyssa is joined by Hunter Stoler to break down emotional unavailability in dating, what it looks like in real life, and why it is not always as simple as blaming avoidant attachment or calling everyone a narcissist. We get into the real signs of an emotionally un...

You don't just date them—you date their entire family system. In this savage-but-true episode, Alyssa sits down with @CandiceGuardino to tackle the #1 source of relationship stress: in-laws and family boundaries. We break down the hilarious and horrifying reality of family meddling: from the people who only need parental approval, not a partner, to those who are recreating their chaotic childhood...

Ever leave a first date thinking “that went amazing”… and then get hit with silence, a slow fade, or the classic “you’re great but…”? In this episode of MissJudged, Alyssa Pettinato in her solo era answers the age-old question: why didn’t it progress to a second date? And yes—she’s brutally honest about it (with sisterly, comedic energy so it doesn’t feel like a personal attack). We get into the p...

Are softboys actually worse than fuckboys? In this episode of MissJudged, Alyssa is joined by @yourpalrick (Ricky Liorti), for a brutally honest, hilarious conversation about modern dating, situationships, red flags, rebounds, and the men who disguise chaos as emotional depth. From the rise of the softboy to why situationships can be more emotionally devastating than real relationships, this episo...

In this powerful episode of MissJudged, Alyssa sits down with professional boxer and world-record powerlifter @StefiCohen for a conversation that goes way beyond dating. Stefi FINALLY opens up about what it’s like to be a public figure when things go wrong, how quickly the media and public opinion can turn, and she shares her side of what really happened during the arrests and the very public issu...

Head over to Youtube or Patreon for this one guys!!! IYKYK. (@missjudgedpodcast) Welcome to Alyssa’s first subscriber-only solo episode of Missjudged — and she did not hold back. In this brutally honest, funny, and feral deep dive into modern dating, breakups, emotional unavailability, toxic relationship patterns, heartbreak, and healing, Alyssa gets real about the kind of relationship behavior th...

Breaking up is hard—especially when you’re stuck in the “should I stay or should I go?” spiral. In this episode of MissJudged, Alyssa is joined by Sabrina Bendory, author of Detached, to share a no-fluff, step-by-step breakup guide for short-term relationships and long-term relationships—including how to break up when you live together. We cover the biggest signs it’s time to end things, how to st...

Body language expert and total badass Linda Clemons joins Alyssa on MissJudged to explain why 93% of communication is nonverbal and how people size you up in the first 7 seconds. You for sure want to listen AND watch this one! We will go over what your posture, eye contact, and nervous habits are silently giving away in dating, friendships, business, and beyond. Think you were playing it cool on t...

Are you actually toxic… or are you just chronically exhausted?  In this episode of MissJudged , Alyssa Pettinato sits down with sleep expert Todd Anderson—who wastes absolutely no time roasting her for proudly running on six hours of sleep and believing she’s “thriving” because her Oura Ring told her so. (Todd would like everyone to know: that’s not thriving.) Together, they break down how sleep d...

Starting 2026 with a reminder to refresh more then just your closet. Friendship breakups don’t get enough airtime — and somehow they still manage to hurt more than romantic ones. In this episode, Alyssa is joined by Lindsey Simcik, (one half of the Almost 30 Podcast), for an honest, funny, and soulful conversation about what happens when friendships start to feel misaligned… and how to let go with...

Is wellness actually making us healthier… or just wasting our money and time?  In this episode, we’re joined by @DocJudComedy to officially separate medical facts from Instagram fiction . From mouth taping and cold plunges to hyperbaric chambers and Ozempic, we break down the viral wellness trends everyone is obsessing over—and ask the question no influencer wants to answer: is this actually helpi...

To ring in the new year we are kicking off with some honesty. Y’all don’t know how to screen your dates. At least, that’s the verdict from Alyssa in this solo episode of the MissJudged podcast... She’s tackling the elephant in the room: most people have no idea how to properly screen for dating, and it’s why so many end up in bad matches, situationships, or just wasting their own time. Alyssa lays...

Alyssa and Benny Hart are back — and this week we’re dragging one of the most toxic dating habits of all time: making your new partner pay for your old partner’s crimes. Because let’s be honest… Just because your ex cheated doesn’t mean a three-hour text delay means your new boyfriend is also a cheater. Just because your ex ghosted, breadcrumbed, love-bombed, or weaponized “I’m busy” doesn't mean...

This week on Missjudged , Alyssa sits down with the iconic, stunning and sweet  Roma Abdessalam (@TheRealSahd) — influencer, entrepreneur, and certified comeback queen — for a hilarious and unfiltered deep dive into her three engagements, dating rules, and the ultimate glow-up era. Roma opens up about her dating history and her engagements, the lessons she’s learned along the way, and how every “a...

This week on the Missjudged Podcast, Alyssa and @MadisonMalloy deliver a much-needed reality check for anyone who’s ever said, “All the good ones are taken.” Spoiler: they’re not. You just might be dating with a terrible mindset, babe. If you’re tired of ghosting, red flags, and your friends telling you to “just manifest him,” this episode breaks down what’s actually getting in your way — and it’s...

Welcome to the digital jungle — where romance begins with a “hey” and ends with a screenshot. In this episode of Missjudged , Alyssa and comedian Luis J. Gomez (@GomezComedy) take a brutally honest (and hysterical) deep dive into the modern dating minefield known as the DMs. From unsolicited “good morning” pics to messages that read like Craigslist ads for emotional damage, nothing is off-limits....

Love is blind… but your lawyer shouldn’t be. In this no-fluff, all-facts episode, Alyssa sits down with celebrity divorce attorney @RobertWallack to talk all things prenups, postnups, and what it actually means to protect your heart, your money, and your assets. Whether you’re wildly in love, newly engaged, or just future-planning with someone who still hasn’t deleted their Bumble—you need this ep...

Ah, the situationship —that magical gray area where you’re basically dating… but not really. On this episode of Missjudged , Alyssa and guest Dating Expert Ben Hart ( @bennyinc ) get real about why we keep falling into these undefined “almost-relationships” and how to tell if you’re thriving… or just wasting your prime years waiting for someone who “doesn’t like labels.” We break down the many fla...

Buckle up, lovebugs—this one’s a ride. Dating coach and professional matchmaker Anna Morgenstern (@Annamorgenstern) joins Alyssa on the MissJudged Podcast to spill the messy, hilarious, and sometimes heartbreaking truth about modern dating. From ghosting to catfishing, we’re exposing why swiping culture has us all exhausted—and whether matchmaking is the real cure to dating app burnout. Anna also...

YEP, this one is for the men AND the women. Alyssa is joined by the always insightful (and hilarious) @chrstinamavrones for a no-holds-barred conversation about the fine line between spotting real red flags… and sabotaging something that might actually have potential. We’re talking about the dating tightrope: when to run, when to stay, and when to admit that maybe TikTok isn’t your therapist. Toge...

What happens when your romantic partner becomes your business partner? Spoiler: it’s not always #PowerCoupleGoals. This week on MissJudged , Alyssa is joined by Dryden and Emily—founders of the lifestyle brand @wildandroam.co—for a raw, hilarious, and deeply real convo about what it actually takes to run a business (especially in the highly emotional wedding industry!) with your spouse without los...

Why are so many men and women out here treating commitment like it’s life or death? In this episode, I sit down with the king of dating advice- Ben Hart (@Bennyinc), for a brutally honest and wildly entertaining conversation about why men and women are terrified to define the relationship—especially in their 30s and 40s. We talk ghosting, “not ready” red flags, emotional unavailability dressed up...