Life After Plus One

Going through a breakup isn’t just emotional, it’s physically and mentally exhausting. After a breakup, so many people fall into the trap of “just getting on with it”, showing up for everyone else, managing life, and trying to stay strong, while completely overlooking their own emotional recovery. Grab you free Intro chat here : Free 30 Min Intro Chat 👉🏻Explore Ways to Create Your Best Single Pa...

Resentment towards your coparent can be one of the hardest emotions to navigate after separation. In this episode, we're talking about where resentment comes from, why it can keep you feeling stuck, and how to start working through it in a healthier way. If you're finding it difficult to let go of anger, frustration or hurt, this episode is for you. Grab you free Intro chat here : Free 30 Min Intr...

Legal proceedings and mediation can be incredibly stressful, but what most people don't realise is that the emotional side is often harder than the legal side. In this episode, I'm not giving legal advice. Instead, I'm talking about how to prepare yourself emotionally before walking into mediation or any legal process involving your children. We'll cover the importance of compromise, why trying to...

The way you think about your life matters. If you're constantly telling yourself you can't, you won't. If you're focused on what's wrong, you'll struggle to see what's possible. In this episode, we're talking about the stories we tell ourselves, the choices we make every day, and how they shape our future. Grab you free Intro chat here : Free 30 Min Intro Chat 👉🏻Explore Ways to Create Your Best...

Co-parenting can be really hard when you feel like you’re constantly waiting for your ex to step up, be more present, or parent differently. In today’s episode, I’m talking about the frustration and disappointment that comes with having expectations of your co-parent — and what happens when they keep falling short. If you’ve ever felt stuck waiting for them to change or show up differently, this e...

This is one of the most gut-wrenching things you can go through in a breakup as a single parent. In this episode, I’m talking about what it’s like to feel villainised by your ex, especially when you know your truth isn’t being seen or understood. I’m unpacking why this can happen, what you need to do when you’re in it, how to get through it, and what actually matters most so you can stay grounded...

IM BACK!! And I'm taking about Healing. Let's be honest healing is one of those words that gets thrown around aa little too much, but what does it actually mean, especially when you’re going through a breakup as a single parent? In this episode, I’m unpacking what healing really looks like. Because the truth is, healing isn’t always pretty, and it’s not something people naturally lean into. In fac...

In today’s episode, I’m having a casual chat about what happens when you hold onto hurt for too long, and how it can quietly spill into other areas of your life without you even realising. I talk about why it’s so easy to stay stuck in resentment after heartbreak, how that pain can affect your mindset, your parenting, your relationships, and your peace… and why choosing kindness (for yourself and...

It’s one thing to go through a breakup, but it’s another when your ex keeps letting you down, missing agreements, failing to show up, or making life more complicated than it needs to be. In this episode, we talk about how to handle the frustration, protect your emotional energy, and stop letting their behavior control your mood. You’ll hear why it’s not your fault, how to set boundaries without gu...

There comes a point when “being the bigger person” just feels exhausting. In this episode, I'm talking about that moment when you’re officially fed up with your ex, fed up with the games, the emotional tug-of-war, the unnecessary drama, and the constant feeling that peace is always just out of reach. When every interaction feels even harder than the last, and you start asking yourself… why am I st...

Single parents are often great at showing up for everyone else, and terrible at saying no. In this episode, I unpack why saying no feels so uncomfortable, how guilt and people-pleasing keep you stuck, and what it really looks like to set boundaries with your kids, your coparent, and in dating. If you’re exhausted from over giving and ready to protect your time and energy, this episode is for you....

We see healing all over social media, the quotes, the glow ups, the “I’m healed now” energy, but real healing after a breakup doesn’t usually look like that. It’s messy. It’s up and down. Some days you feel okay, other days you feel like you’ve gone ten steps backwards. And that’s normal. This episode is a bit of a pep talk and a reality check. I’m talking about what healing actually looks like. I...

In this episode, I share my best tips for co-parenting amicably, how to reduce conflict, communicate more effectively, and create a healthier, happier co-parenting dynamic with as minimal drama as possible. 👉🏻Explore Ways to Create Your Best Single Parent Life NEW COPARENTING PLAYBOOK (The Ultimate Guide to Texting Your Ex) Free 30 Min Intro Chat Ongoing 1:1 Coaching Clarity Support Session Join...

When you step back into the dating world, especially after a difficult relationship or breakup, it can be easy to latch onto one thing, they’re nice . They’re kind. They’re not toxic. They treat you better than your ex. And suddenly, that feels like enough to convince yourself they must be “the one.” But is being nice actually enough? In this episode, I unpack why “nice” can feel so compelling whe...

As 2025 comes to a close, it’s the perfect time to pause and reflect. In this episode, I explore what this past year has taught us, both the challenges and the wins. I’ll talk about how to take those lessons into 2026 to create a stronger, more empowered version of yourself, and how to let go of anything that’s holding you back. 👉🏻Explore Ways to Create Your Best Single Parent Life NEW COPARENTI...

The holidays can be tough when your past relationship still lingers in your mind. In this episode, I talk about how to stop letting your ex trigger your emotions, take over your headspace, and steal the joy from your Christmas. I unpack practical strategies to let go of the resentment, stay focused on yourself and your kids, and create a holiday that’s about what really matters to you. 👉🏻Explore...

Becoming a single parent for the first time can feel overwhelming and scary. In this episode, I unpack the main things you should focus on, and the things you can let go of, so you can start navigating this new chapter with a little more clarity and confidence. 👉🏻Explore Ways to Create Your Best Single Parent Life NEW COPARENTING PLAYBOOK (The Ultimate Guide to Texting Your Ex) Free 30 Min Intro...

Christmas can be tough when you’re co-parenting, especially if tensions are high or it’s your first one solo. In this episode, I share my top tips for navigating the holidays with less drama, less stress, and more fun for you and your kids. From setting boundaries to managing expectations, I cover everything you need to make Christmas enjoyable and create memorable moments without the extra stress...

In this episode, we’re diving into triggers, the reactions that catch you off guard, hit you in the chest, and make you think, “Why does this bother me so much?” Instead of fighting them or feeling ashamed of them, we’re talking about how to actually learn from your triggers and use them to your advantage. Because triggers aren’t just emotional explosions, they’re information. They’re pointing you...

In this short and uplifting pep talk episode, we dive into the real heart of letting go after a breakup, the part no one prepares you for. If you’ve been feeling stuck, overwhelmed, or caught between wanting to move forward and still feeling the pressure of what happened, this episode is your gentle reminder that you can get through this, and you will . Listen in to this quick reset for your mind...

In this episode, I dive into the truth about finding love as a single parent, especially when it feels impossible. If you’ve ever told yourself that no one will want you, that dating is too hard, or that you’re destined to be alone, you’re not the only one. Today we unpack why dating feels so overwhelming, the patterns that keep leading to heartbreak, and the practical things you can do to finally...

Today marks two years of the Life After Plus One podcast! To celebrate, I’m giving 20% off all eBooks and coaching sessions for today only, no code needed, the discount is applied directly, so jump on and grab it while it’s available! In this episode, we’re talking about that stage after a breakup where you just want answers . You want to know why things ended the way they did, why your ex is acti...

Blending families can be one of the most beautiful, and most challenging, chapters in your single parent journey. It’s not just about bringing two people together; it’s about bringing two worlds together. In this episode, I dive deep into what it really means to blend families successfully. From managing your expectations to setting healthy boundaries, building trust with each other’s kids, and ma...

After a breakup, it’s easy to lose yourself, the confidence, the spark, the version of you that once felt sure, capable, and grounded. In this episode, we’re talking about how to rebuild that. I breakdown small but powerful steps you can take to start feeling like you again. From letting go of negative self-talk, to setting boundaries, to learning to trust yourself again, this episode is your remi...

handover days can be rough. That feeling in your stomach before you see your ex? The racing thoughts, the shaky hands, the tension that builds up every single time you have to do the handover? In this episode, I talk about the anxiety, nerves, and stress that come with facing your ex, and how to manage those feelings in a healthy way. You’ll learn how to stay calm, grounded, and in control when em...