That Husband Podcast

Visit https://www.thathusband.com for merch, live event tickets, and other resources. [S3] EPISODE 40: YOUNG WOMEN GET BRUTALLY HONEST ABOUT MODERN DATING In this episode, Blaque Nubon sits down with Sizo and Lebo for an honest conversation about dating, marriage and what young women are really looking for in a husband. Sizo and Lebo share their perspectives on the pressures women face to be indep...

Visit https://www.thathusband.com for merch, live event tickets, and other resources. [S3] EPISODE 39: YOU KEEP DISAPPOINTING THE WRONG PERSON In this episode, Blaque Nubon sits down with Karabo Mogane for an honest conversation about marriage, people-pleasing and the pressure to keep everyone happy. Karabo shares how marriage has challenged him to recognise his people-pleasing tendencies, learn t...

Visit https://www.thathusband.com for merch, live event tickets, and other resources. [S3] EPISODE 38: HAVE WE RUINED MARRIAGE FOR THEM? In this episode, Blaque sits down with Percy and Tshenolo for an honest conversation about what it means to be a young man today, navigating relationships, money and the pressure to have life figured out. They unpack why it can feel so difficult to be a man in th...

Visit https://www.thathusband.com for merch, live event tickets, and other resources. [S3] EPISODE 37: WHY DO YOU HANDLE CONFLICT THE WAY YOU DO? In this episode, Blaque sits down with VTJ Masakona for an honest conversation about conflict, pressure and the different ways husbands respond when marriage gets difficult. They unpack the different kinds of husbands that can emerge under pressure: the...

Visit https://www.thathusband.com for merch, live event tickets, and other resources. [S3] EPISODE 36: WOULD I LET MY SON MARRY THIS EARLY? In this episode, Blaque sits down with Allan P to talk about getting married young and what 13 years of marriage has taught him about the decision he made at just 21. While he doesn’t regret marrying his wife, but looking back, there are things he wishes he ha...

Visit https://www.thathusband.com for merch, live event tickets, and other resources. [S3] EPISODE 35: 12 YEARS IN AND STILL LEARNING In this week's episode Blaque sits down with Anele for an honest and necessary conversation about divorce, identity, healing, and the journey of finding your way again. Drawing from his book, Thrive, Anele Matshisi opens up about the phases men go through after divo...

Visit https://www.thathusband.com for merch, live event tickets, and other resources. [S3] EPISODE 34: THE GRIEF MEN AREN'T PREPARED FOR In this week's episode Blaque sits down with Anele for an honest and necessary conversation about divorce, identity, healing, and the journey of finding your way again. Drawing from his book, Thrive, Anele Matshisi opens up about the phases men go through after d...

Visit https://www.thathusband.com for merch, live event tickets, and other resources. [S3] EPISODE 33: SHOWING UP IS NOT ENOUGH In this live episode of Beans and Bonds, Blaque sits down with Muzi Mthabela for an honest conversation about marriage, leadership, family, and the intentional work of building a home that lasts. Filmed in March 2025, they unpack what it means for a marriage to be grounde...

Visit https://www.thathusband.com for merch, live event tickets, and other resources [S3] EPISODE 32: A RELATIONSHIP VS. A TRANSACTION In this episode, Blaque sits down with Luxolo Kentane to talk about his new book "There Must Be More" and the realities of marriage, fatherhood, and learning what it really means to love the people you’ve committed your life to. They get real about the hunger for m...

Visit https://www.thathusband.com for merch, live event tickets, and other resources [S3] EPISODE 31: WHEN LIFE THROWS ITS WORST BLOWS In this episode, Blaque sits down with Ntobeko Mjijwa to talk about the realities of marriage, becoming a husband and learning what it really means to love your wife well. They get real about his wife’s depression, losing a child, the pressure of being a husband, l...

Visit https://www.thathusband.com for merch, live event tickets, and other resources [S3] EPISODE 30: WHO ARE YOU OUTSIDE OF THE LIMELIGHT? After a 3 week break That Husband Podcast is BACK! 🎙️ In this episode, Blaque sits down with Pastor Koketso Molaolwe to talk about his new book, The Unlikely Candidate, and the lessons behind his journey from an unlikely beginning to church planting, leadershi...

Visit https://www.thathusband.com for merch, live event tickets, and other resources [S3] EPISODE 29: WORK OVER YOUR FAMILY? This episode started as a quick update to let you know why That Husband Podcast is taking a short break, but it became a much deeper conversation about the kind of husband I hope to be. As my wife and I navigate life with newborn twins, prepare to launch a church, and carry...

Visit https://www.thathusband.com for merch, live event tickets, and other resources [S3] EPISODE 28: THE HARD WORK OF MARRIAGE What begins as a light-hearted discussion about what we jokingly call "female crazy" quickly becomes something far deeper. Together, we unpack the moments in marriage when emotions seem to outrun logic, when miscommunication leaves both husband and wife feeling misunderst...

Visit https://www.thathusband.com for merch, live event tickets, and other resources [S3] EPISODE 27: HAS LOVE STOPPED FEELING EASY? This episode was born out of the questions we could not finish answering at one of our live Beans and Bonds gatherings, but what unfolded became something much bigger than marriage advice. We wrestle with the hidden parts of ourselves that quietly follow us into our...

Visit https://www.thathusband.com for merch, live event tickets, and other resources [S3] EPISODE 26: WHAT HE WISHES HIS WIFE UNDERSTOOD What does it actually look like for a husband to feel celebrated? So much of marriage rightly teaches men to love sacrificially, to provide, to protect, and to give. But somewhere along the way, many husbands quietly begin to believe that being seen, appreciated,...

Visit https://www.thathusband.com for merch, live event tickets, and other resources [S3] EPISODE 25: WHEN HIS SILENCE BECOMES A LOUD WOUND   In recognition of Men's Mental Health Month, we sit down and wrestle with a simple but haunting question: What were the things we could not say as boys? Long before we became husbands, fathers, leaders, and providers, we were boys trying to make sense of rej...

Visit https://www.thathusband.com for merch, live event tickets, and other resources [S3] EPISODE 23: FATHERS WE NEED TO BE HONEST This Father's Day, we talk about responsibility, legacy, preparation, and what happens to the people we love when life doesn't go according to plan. We unpack the financial, emotional, and practical realities of fatherhood, marriage, and leadership. From raising childr...

Visit https://www.thathusband.com for merch, live event tickets, and other resources [S3] EPISODE 22: THE WOUNDS WE CARRY INTO MARRIAGE Joined by Jabu Zwana, we explore marriage, healing, hypervigilance, childhood wounds, emotional maturity, and the often invisible ways our past shapes our present relationships. Jabu unpacks how our earliest experiences of love, safety, discipline, and belonging q...

Visit https://www.thathusband.com for merch, live event tickets, and other resources [S3] EPISODE 21: YOU CANNOT HEAL WHAT YOU CANNOT ADMIT Joined by Ian Henderson, we explore pornography, shame, father wounds, masculinity, accountability, and the lifelong journey of becoming whole. Ian shares the heartbreaking story of his father's secret addiction, the devastating consequences it had on his fami...

Visit https://www.thathusband.com for merch, live event tickets, and other resources [S3] EPISODE 20: BLEEDING ON THOSE YOU LOVE Mlungisi opens up about growing up in a fractured home, wrestling with unforgiveness toward his father, navigating anger inside his marriage, and discovering that healing is not automatic just because you love God. Together, we unpack the quiet ways pain travels through...

Visit https://www.thathusband.com for merch, live event tickets, and other resources [S3] EPISODE 19: NOT ALL MARRIAGES ARE BUILT THE SAME This episode is about staying, choosing joy when life is heavy, when grief sits in the room with you, when money is tight, when dreams feel delayed, and when love demands more than feelings. King D Music opens up about dating his wife for six years before marri...

Visit https://www.thathusband.com for merch, live event tickets, and other resources [S3] EPISODE 18: A WEDDING & A FUNERAL Marriage often begins with dreams, excitement, and hope, but what happens when joy and grief collide at the exact same moment? From navigating the loneliness of singleness and unrealistic expectations of love, to stepping into marriage while mourning the devastating loss...

https://www.thathusband.com for merch, live event tickets, and other resources [S3] EPISODE 17: THE LIE OF THINKING THINGS ARE NOT THAT BAD What happens when the pressure to provide, to lead, and to “have it all together” quietly exposes the cracks beneath the surface? In this episode, you step into a deeply honest conversation about the hidden battles men carry, the fear of failure, the weight of...

Visit https://www.thathusband.com for merch, live event tickets, and other resources [S3] EPISODE 16: FROM A MESSY START TO A STRONG MARRIAGE Becoming who you're meant to be before life demands it of you, before the responsibility, before the title, before the moment arrives? Or do you only discover who you are when everything is already on the line? In this episode, you step into a story that doe...

Visit https://www.thathusband.com for merch, live event tickets, and other resources [S3] EPISODE 15: THE KIND OF FOCUS THAT MAKES YOU A MAN Can a man become who he’s meant to be before life demands it of him? Before the responsibility, before the title, before the moment arrives? In this episode, we sit with a story that begins long before marriage, long before love, and long before the world see...