That Husband Podcast

Visit https://www.thathusband.com for merch, live event tickets, and other resources [S3] EPISODE 27: HAS LOVE STOPPED FEELING EASY? This episode was born out of the questions we could not finish answering at one of our live Beans and Bonds gatherings, but what unfolded became something much bigger than marriage advice. We wrestle with the hidden parts of ourselves that quietly follow us into our...

Visit https://www.thathusband.com for merch, live event tickets, and other resources [S3] EPISODE 26: WHAT HE WISHES HIS WIFE UNDERSTOOD What does it actually look like for a husband to feel celebrated? So much of marriage rightly teaches men to love sacrificially, to provide, to protect, and to give. But somewhere along the way, many husbands quietly begin to believe that being seen, appreciated,...

Visit https://www.thathusband.com for merch, live event tickets, and other resources [S3] EPISODE 25: WHEN HIS SILENCE BECOMES A LOUD WOUND   In recognition of Men's Mental Health Month, we sit down and wrestle with a simple but haunting question: What were the things we could not say as boys? Long before we became husbands, fathers, leaders, and providers, we were boys trying to make sense of rej...

Visit https://www.thathusband.com for merch, live event tickets, and other resources [S3] EPISODE 23: FATHERS WE NEED TO BE HONEST This Father's Day, we talk about responsibility, legacy, preparation, and what happens to the people we love when life doesn't go according to plan. We unpack the financial, emotional, and practical realities of fatherhood, marriage, and leadership. From raising childr...

Visit https://www.thathusband.com for merch, live event tickets, and other resources [S3] EPISODE 22: THE WOUNDS WE CARRY INTO MARRIAGE Joined by Jabu Zwana, we explore marriage, healing, hypervigilance, childhood wounds, emotional maturity, and the often invisible ways our past shapes our present relationships. Jabu unpacks how our earliest experiences of love, safety, discipline, and belonging q...

Visit https://www.thathusband.com for merch, live event tickets, and other resources [S3] EPISODE 21: YOU CANNOT HEAL WHAT YOU CANNOT ADMIT Joined by Ian Henderson, we explore pornography, shame, father wounds, masculinity, accountability, and the lifelong journey of becoming whole. Ian shares the heartbreaking story of his father's secret addiction, the devastating consequences it had on his fami...

Visit https://www.thathusband.com for merch, live event tickets, and other resources [S3] EPISODE 20: BLEEDING ON THOSE YOU LOVE Mlungisi opens up about growing up in a fractured home, wrestling with unforgiveness toward his father, navigating anger inside his marriage, and discovering that healing is not automatic just because you love God. Together, we unpack the quiet ways pain travels through...

Visit https://www.thathusband.com for merch, live event tickets, and other resources [S3] EPISODE 19: NOT ALL MARRIAGES ARE BUILT THE SAME This episode is about staying, choosing joy when life is heavy, when grief sits in the room with you, when money is tight, when dreams feel delayed, and when love demands more than feelings. King D Music opens up about dating his wife for six years before marri...

Visit https://www.thathusband.com for merch, live event tickets, and other resources [S3] EPISODE 18: A WEDDING & A FUNERAL Marriage often begins with dreams, excitement, and hope, but what happens when joy and grief collide at the exact same moment? From navigating the loneliness of singleness and unrealistic expectations of love, to stepping into marriage while mourning the devastating loss...

https://www.thathusband.com for merch, live event tickets, and other resources [S3] EPISODE 17: THE LIE OF THINKING THINGS ARE NOT THAT BAD What happens when the pressure to provide, to lead, and to “have it all together” quietly exposes the cracks beneath the surface? In this episode, you step into a deeply honest conversation about the hidden battles men carry, the fear of failure, the weight of...

Visit https://www.thathusband.com for merch, live event tickets, and other resources [S3] EPISODE 16: FROM A MESSY START TO A STRONG MARRIAGE Becoming who you're meant to be before life demands it of you, before the responsibility, before the title, before the moment arrives? Or do you only discover who you are when everything is already on the line? In this episode, you step into a story that doe...

Visit https://www.thathusband.com for merch, live event tickets, and other resources [S3] EPISODE 15: THE KIND OF FOCUS THAT MAKES YOU A MAN Can a man become who he’s meant to be before life demands it of him? Before the responsibility, before the title, before the moment arrives? In this episode, we sit with a story that begins long before marriage, long before love, and long before the world see...

Visit https://www.thathusband.com for merch, live event tickets, and other resources [S3] EPISODE 14: WHAT HAPPENED TO DATE NIGHTS? Can a marriage hold when everything changes at once? When life accelerates, pressure builds, and the rhythms that once sustained you begin to slip? In this episode, we step into a deeply personal season as Blaque Nubon and his wife Lilly Million open up about the real...

Visit https://www.thathusband.com for merch, live event tickets, and other resources [S3] EPISODE 13: YOU'RE NOT LIVING IN A MOVIE Can you step into the tension between who you are, who you have been, and who you are becoming, and all this, in the presence of one woman who sees it all?  Today, we explore the disorienting, yet sacred, moment when marriage asks us to consolidate every version of our...

Visit https://www.thathusband.com for merch, live event tickets, and other resources [S3] EPISODE 12: DOES MARRIAGE REALLY CHANGE US? In this episode, the conversation moves into the sacred, often unspoken spaces that shape a man. What begins as a chance connection unfolds into a deeply human story of love, loss, and becoming. Through the weight of grief, losing a mother in the uncertainty of a pa...

Visit https://www.thathusband.com for merch, live event tickets, and other resources [S3] EPISODE 11: BROKEN BUT NOT FINISHED In this episode, we sit down with DJ Xtreme, a husband, father, and radio personality, for a conversation about failure, redemption, and the difficult road back to the life you once imagined. What begins as a story about relationships quickly becomes something deeper: an ho...

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Visit https://www.thathusband.com for merch, live event tickets, and other resources [S3] EPISODE 9: A WARNING FOR YOUR EGO In this episode, we sit down with Gift Maseko, a husband, father of two, and pastor of Jesus Every Church, for a conversation about integrity, accountability, and the quiet work of becoming the kind of man your family can trust. What begins as a story about ministry quickly b...

Visit https://www.thathusband.com for merch, live event tickets, and other resources [S3] EPISODE 8: PRESENT ON PURPOSE In this episode, we sit down with DJ Sabby for a conversation that moves far beyond the spotlight and into the soul of a husband and father. Known to many as a confident voice on air and a vibrant public personality, Sabby opens up about the man behind the mic - the young boy who...

Visit https://www.thathusband.com for merch, live event tickets, and other resources  S3] EPISODE 7: A WAKE UP CALL This month, we intentionally create space for wives' voices, not to replace ours, but to enrich them. Because sometimes the greatest insight a husband can receive is hearing how he is seen, supported, and celebrated from across the table. In this episode, we sit with Tebello Motshwan...

Visit https://www.thathusband.com for merch, live event tickets, and other resources [S3] EPISODE 6: I'M SECURE ENOUGH TO SUBMIT This month, we intentionally create space for wives' voices, not to replace ours, but to enrich them. Because sometimes the greatest insight a husband can receive is hearing how he is seen, supported, and celebrated from across the table. In this episode, we sit with  @M...

Visit https://www.thathusband.com for merch, live event tickets, and other resources [S3] EPISODE 5: WHAT I LEARNED TOO LATE This Valentine’s season, That Husband Podcast flips the script. Instead of centering romance as something men must perform, we pause to ask a quieter, braver question: how are husbands celebrated, seen, and honoured? In this special episode, Blaque sit across the table not w...

Visit https://www.thathusband.com for merch, live event tickets, and other resources [S3] EPISODE 4: MARRIAGE ON AUTOPILOT This Valentine’s season, That Husband Podcast flips the script. Instead of centering romance around wives alone, this episode creates space to ask a powerful and often overlooked question: how do wives intentionally celebrate and honour their husbands? In this conversation, we...

Visit https://www.thathusband.com for merch, live event tickets, and other resources [S3] EPISODE 3: TRUST GOD OR STAY STUCK Sitting across the table is a husband who understands that love is not about perfection, but about choosing to show up again and again, especially when you fall short. Together, we reflect on what it means to love sacrificially, to race to the back of the line, and to embrac...

Visit https://www.thathusband.com for merch, live event tickets, and other resources [S3] EPISODE 2: HAVE WE DEMONISED A GOOD THING? In this episode, we slow the noise down and step into a conversation many husbands carry quietly but rarely articulate. What does connection really mean, not just physically, but spiritually, emotionally, and relationally? Through honest reflection and lived experien...