Thanks For Your Concern

This week, your retired-party-girls-turned-grown-ish besties are deep in our  Side Quest Era . You know those little detours in life that  aren’t  part of your five-year plan but somehow become the most interesting parts of your personality? Yeah… we’re celebrating  those . Berenices’s talking about her unexpected DJ era, Ella is in her founder era, and we’re unpacking why following curiosity (ins...

In this episode, Ella and Berenice break down how to handle it when sh*t doesn’t go to plan: missed opportunities, bad dates, creative flops, or that one “what if” you can’t stop replaying. From polite rejections to post-breakup recoveries, they remind you that forward is the only direction that matters. Whether you’re crawling, walking, or power-strutting through chaos — the girls have you covere...

You want to get better at something? Time to  cosplay as the person who’s already good at it.  In this motivational and mildly unhinged episode, Ella and Berenice talk about embodying the version of yourself you want to become—whether that’s a content creator, a confident communicator, or your dream-self 2.0. From setting daily skill tasks to building momentum with micro-milestones, the girls brea...

Think twice, babe—your prefrontal cortex is on the mic. In this light-but-nerdy chat, Ella and Berenice break down critical thinking IRL: how to spot cognitive bias, pressure-test your assumptions, and avoid life-altering mistakes (from money moves to messy texts). They even wade into the drama: cheating—yes or no? Smart, funny, and seriously practical, this episode gives you receipts for better d...

It’s out with the old and in with the  boundaries ! In this week’s episode, the girls are saying a collective “bye, bitch” to all the habits holding them back—people pleasing, not having a plan, being passive, and pretending to commit to the bit when they’re over it. Ella and Berenice are spilling the tea, setting intentions, and helping you do the same. Tune in, laugh along, and get inspired to s...

A girl can  always  ask — for the number, the discount, the raise, the upgrade, or the help she deserves! This week, Ella and Berenice unpack the power of asking for what you want without shame or fear of rejection. From workplace promotions to bold romantic moves, they remind listeners that a “no” doesn’t take away your worth — and a “yes” might just change your life. It’s your friendly reminder...

It’s officially  lock-in season!  Ella and Berenice are sharing how to get laser-focused and actually finish the year strong. With only 71 days left, they’re breaking down how to find your “why,” build momentum through small wins, and do the things you’ve never done to get the results you’ve always wanted. From mindset shifts to money goals (like finally paying off that credit card), this episode...

It’s officially  Spooky Season , and Ella and Berenice are serving spooky realness — costumes included. This week, they’re talking about all the things that give them the creeps: toxic relationships that drain your energy, parents acting like your biggest ops, and American workplace culture (terrifying). They also dive into how to spot red flags that aren’t “evil,” just  emotionally exhausting , a...

This week, Ella and Berenice unveil their ultimate  Betrayal List  — inspired by Kanye West’s infamous “opps” tweet (yes, the one with Curious George and his own kid). From brands that did them dirty (looking at you, American Girl), to artists pushing bad art for capitalism, to Croc-haters who’ve suddenly seen the light — no one is safe. Expect chaotic hot takes, niche rants about birds, and a spr...

It’s officially spooky season, and Ella and Berenice are kicking it off with all the chaotic fun you’d expect. From hot takes on Twilight (yes, Edward was giving predator vibes) to defending girlboss villains like Shrek’s Fairy Godmother, nothing is off-limits. They also dive into Ryan Murphy’s chokehold on pop culture and why maybe—just maybe—vampires deserve better PR. Grab your garlic breadstic...

Berenice and Ella are back with a 2025 vibe check:  Are we alright?!  In this world update, they unpack rising housing costs, women leaving the workforce, and the current U.S. political climate—all while keeping it grounded with laughter. They chat about staying informed without spiraling, budgeting with intention, divesting from what doesn’t align, and using a “four-star day” system to build disc...

This week on  Thanks For Your Concern , Ella and Berenice are asking the big question: why are we all expected to race to the bottom? From work to relationships, they break down why wanting  more  doesn’t make you ungrateful—it makes you self-aware. They unpack how “other people have it worse” is a lazy excuse, why asking for better is valid, and how peace, alignment, and higher standards can shif...

In this week’s episode of  Thanks For Your Concern , Ella and Berenice tackle the art of letting go—with plenty of laughs along the way. From petty jokes about exes to real talk on why holding grudges only weighs you down, they blend comedy and self-help in a way only they can. Tune in for relatable stories, honest advice, and a reminder that sometimes moving on is the ultimate power move. Follow...

Ella and Berenice are talking  money, marketing, and the evolution of the hustle.  From MLM girlboss eras to TikTok shop drops, everything is basically an ad now—and they’re breaking down how social media has changed the way we sell, spend, and date. They get into time as currency, why energy exchange is more valuable than ever, and how chasing the bag can look different in 2025. Lighthearted, fun...

This week Ella and Berenice are raising the vibes and talking about  energy, alignment, and how to spot good vibrations (and bad ones 👀).  From music that changes your life, to trusting timing, to recognizing when people are secretly hating, the girls cover everything from flow, frequency, and finding your people. There’s laughter, honesty, and just a sprinkle of delusion to remind you that what’...

Live from New York (yes, actually in the same room for once), Ella and Berenice recap the chaos of 2025 so far — from luxury hotel room service epiphanies to the dystopian weirdness of Jeff Bezos’ wedding guest list. They cover celebrity clout invites, the downfall of Vogue’s print era, and why streaming services have turned back into cable with extra steps. Plus, hot takes on TikTok “brand reveal...

Some lessons you only have to learn once—because  never again  means never again. This week, Ella and Berenice reflect on the situations, people, and habits they’ve happily left in the past, from proving their worth in dead-end situationships to staying quiet when they should’ve spoken up. They’re talking boundaries, peace-keeping (or peace-breaking), and why it’s perfectly fine to walk away from...

Ella and Berenice are sharing the real-life choices that actually made them happier—from cutting off toxic people to quitting drinking (and jobs!), ditching people-pleasing, and actually listening when friends give good advice. This episode is a little reflective, a little chaotic, and a lot of “main character energy.” Whether it’s embracing meditation or finally saying no without guilt, the girls...

This week, Ella and Berenice are throwing it  way  back with chaotic college memories, closet drinking confessions, and a deep dive into the red flags of dating secret dads. From petty sorority drama to confronting generational trauma, the girls are spilling it all — no filter, no shame. Whether you're in your healing era or your “live fast, crash later” phase, this episode is for you. 🎧 Foll...

Ever realize  after  the fact that it was the last time you’d do something? This week, Ella and Berenice get nostalgic (but in a fun way) reflecting on the unexpected last times—like living down the hall from your besties, using a Blockbuster membership, or saying goodbye to an ex without realizing it was  goodbye forever . From romanticizing the single era to leading with love, this episode is a...

From chaotic camping trips to college Finstas we had to delete on sight, Ella and Berenice are revisiting their most iconic disasters—and the miraculous (and not-so-miraculous) saves. This episode dives into what separates optimism from delusion, why sometimes you just have to take the L, and the growth that comes from crashouts (hello, character development!). Whether it’s group dynamics gone wro...

This week, Ella and Berenice are turning up the heat and turning down the tolerance. From calling out rude strangers to walking away from uneven relationships, they’re breaking down why they’re simply  too hot to settle . They dive into being the girlfriend  not  the mom, why hookups aren’t always worth the energy, and embracing seriousness as a strength—not a buzzkill. If you’re booked, busy, and...

Ella and Berenice are rating all things  Summer Hot or Not  — from festival chaos to celebrity procedures, girl math, and why doomscrolling is officially out. It’s giving hot takes, belly laughs, and just the right amount of delulu. Whether you’re front row at a concert or removing your eyelids (kidding… kind of), this episode has something for everyone. Follow the pod for more: IG:  @thanks4urcon...

It’s giving Tony Awards, teenage heartbreak, and high school jazz hands! This week, Ella and Berenice dive into their core musical theater memories—from savage director notes to peak drama in the rehearsal room. They reflect on the musicals that shaped them, the performances that inspired them, and the importance of seeing yourself on stage. Plus, a nostalgic nod to Broadway classics and iconic Di...

In this week’s episode of  Thanks for Your Concern , Ella and Berenice are embracing their villain era—in the name of self-care, of course. They cover everything from setting boundaries and social media breaks to dropping your dusty situationship and doubling down on caffeine. Plus, they get real about navigating burnout, finding clarity, and summoning audacity in a world that feels a little on fi...