Single You "The Podcast"

𝗪𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐡𝐚𝐩𝐩𝐞𝐧𝐬 𝐰𝐡𝐞𝐧 𝐰𝐞 compromise 𝘧𝘰𝘳 𝘩𝘪𝘮 𝐢𝐧 a 𝐫𝐞𝐥𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧𝐬𝐡𝐢𝐩? ⁣ ⁣You often enter into relationships trying to cook your way, sex your way, force your way, serve your way, submit your way into a man’s heart to prove your worth…. don’t you? ⁣ ⁣All to be chosen by a man who sat back and reaped the benefits of your affections. Are you sick of that?⁣ ⁣Oh and how about the emotional heavy-lifting that you...

Did you listen? What were your takeaways? ⁣Please share with me on IG @ justmeReka Grab my FREE SYA mini = 3 writing prompts to help you Discover Your Worth + the How to Get Over Him [video + worksheet ] LINK: bit.ly/SYAMini   Join the Free Facebook Group "Singleness is Not a Punishment."   ⁣ Xo Reka

[ Your Wednesday Tangible Tip ]  A man will get himself together for the right woman... ⁣ Do men really change because we want them to?⁣ I mean you’ve been there right girl? Trying to wait it out— waiting on him to change. Not wanting to quit “because he’ll change for me eventually.” I can love him into changing, exhausting and extending yourself for what? Definitely not reciprocity. ⁣ ⁣This...

[ Your Wednesday Tangible Tip ] She writes: I met a guy last weekend and we slept together. He hasn't text me back until now. We had a good time, he kissed me (first) and it was in front of someone who's flirting with him while I was beside him. I just felt over the moon because no one has ever done that for me. But I realized he never asked me any questions about me. So it got me thinking... does...

 [ Your Wednesday Tangible Tip ] She Writes Am I wrong for getting upset that my man keeps liking other women's photos on Instagram? Or upset that he follows 90% predominantly women? It causes a lot of strain on our relationships... Plus. The ol' "do I give him my passwords because he asked" dilemma. I use to think why. not "I have nothing to hide." In fact I did and it never changed his trus...

Topic: Am I wrong for getting upset that my man keeps liking other women’s photos on Instagram? Or upset that he follows 90% predominantly women? It causes a lot of strain on our relationship. -------------------- Mike Zacchio can be found here: IG = Mike_Zacchio • Quotes and stuff: @hopefulromanticlove • Co-host, @newpodontheblock Books and other platforms here: linktr.ee/mzacchio

Welcome to Single You the Podcast.  Today's tip: How to Make a Guy Wait for Sex with Mike Zacchio. Your Wednesday Tangible Tip drops every Wednesday at 6a.  The tip comes from Thursday's full episode that drops the next day. New episode of Single You drop on Thursday at 6a.  Tomorrow's full episode? = How to Know When to Leave Him with Mike Zacchio (4 tips).  Happily Listening...

If you are a single woman who is dating and looking for Mr. right, what is your biggest dating challenge in finding a good guy?  Most women say: the biggest challenge they are liars, cheaters, no ambition, no standards, no morals, 3 (or more) kids and baby momma drama.  But is that true? Should we just throw the whole male species away? Is there still hope... let's talk with my cousin DJ...

Guest DJ Robinson [Wednesday Tangible Tip] [From EP 15] XO Reka IG = justmeReka

Topic: So I’m with this guy who doesn’t work. He doesn't want a 9-5 but I get up five days a week to work. Then I have school on Saturday while he’s at home in my bed and all he does do is clean and take care of my kids when I’m gone ...am I wrong that I want more? I hate that I’m doing this, is this really what I deserve? Am I settling? --- My name is Jeffrey Whittingham – I am a f...

[ 𝗛𝗲𝗹𝗽 ] 𝗦𝗼 𝗜'𝗺 𝗪𝗶𝘁𝗵 𝘁𝗵𝗶𝘀 𝗚𝘂𝘆 𝘁𝗵𝗮𝘁 𝗗𝗼𝗲𝘀𝗻'𝘁 𝗪𝗼𝗿𝗸. 𝗔𝗺 𝗜 𝗪𝗿𝗼𝗻𝗴 𝗕𝗲𝗰𝗮𝘂𝘀𝗲 𝗜 𝗪𝗮𝗻𝘁 𝗠𝗼𝗿𝗲?⁣ ⁣  𝘏𝘦 𝘥𝘰𝘦𝘴𝘯'𝘵 𝘸𝘢𝘯𝘵 𝘢 𝟿-𝟻 𝘣𝘶𝘵 𝘐 𝘨𝘦𝘵 𝘶𝘱 𝘧𝘪𝘷𝘦 𝘥𝘢𝘺𝘴 𝘢 𝘸𝘦𝘦𝘬 𝘵𝘰 𝘸𝘰𝘳𝘬. 𝘛𝘩𝘦𝘯 𝘐 𝘩𝘢𝘷𝘦 𝘴𝘤𝘩𝘰𝘰𝘭 𝘰𝘯 𝘚𝘢𝘵𝘶𝘳𝘥𝘢𝘺 𝘸𝘩𝘪𝘭𝘦 𝘩𝘦’𝘴 𝘢𝘵 𝘩𝘰𝘮𝘦 𝘪𝘯 𝘮𝘺 𝘣𝘦𝘥 𝘢𝘯𝘥 𝘢𝘭𝘭 𝘩𝘦 𝘥𝘰𝘦𝘴 𝘥𝘰 𝘪𝘴 𝘤𝘭𝘦𝘢𝘯 𝘢𝘯𝘥 𝘵𝘢𝘬𝘦 𝘤𝘢𝘳𝘦 𝘰𝘧 𝘮𝘺 𝘬𝘪𝘥𝘴 𝘸𝘩𝘦𝘯 𝘐’𝘮 𝘨𝘰𝘯𝘦 ...𝘢𝘮 𝘐 𝘸𝘳𝘰𝘯𝘨 𝘵𝘩𝘢𝘵 𝘐 𝘸𝘢𝘯𝘵 𝘮𝘰𝘳𝘦? ⁣ ⁣ 𝘐 𝘩𝘢𝘵𝘦 𝘵𝘩𝘢𝘵 𝘐’𝘮 𝘥𝘰𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴, 𝘪𝘴 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘳𝘦𝘢𝘭𝘭𝘺 𝘸𝘩𝘢𝘵 𝘐 𝘥𝘦𝘴𝘦𝘳𝘷𝘦? 𝘈𝘮 𝘐 𝘴𝘦𝘵𝘵𝘭𝘪𝘯𝘨?⁣ ⁣  XO...

Why do you keep falling for the bad guy? Maybe because time is moving and you feel like you’re not?  Have you thought "I’m happy for all of my friends who are married with families but I can’t help but feel like sometimes life is passing me by."⁣⁣⁣ ⁣ ⁣Am I taking the words right out YOUR mouth girl? ⁣ ⁣You feel stuck and you thought ➡️ having the kids and getting married would make you happy?...

Join Single You Academy Here: www.single-you.com/join Reka's IG = justmeReka D. Irvin's IG = @therealsupad ----------- Atlanta, GA (October 2020) - D’wayna Irvin, affectionately known as “D. Irvin”, is a woman who certainly lives up to her moniker. A product of New Orleans’ 9th Ward, the polarizing entrepreneur, influencer and author has experienced it all – from crime, fast money and near-de...

Learn from her story! One of the things that helped me heal from the pain I inflicted on myself by being with my abusive ex, was finding and learning from women who had been through what I went through. I loved feeling like I wasn't the only woman who made 'stupid' decisions for a man. I also was able to learn from those women. Here is what Stacey J. wrote on her Facebook:  I became single af...

This is a Personal Story of mine and my intention is to always help you feel less alone, while inspiring you to choose you.  xo, Reka IG = justmeReka / Reka@justmeReka.com www.single-you.com/join

How you answer this?  "Like how do I not love myself? Because I'm in a relationship where I’m unhappy? That automatically defines me as not loving myself?  Why do people say that?  I feel like I'm down to do anything. You wanna go across the country? Let’s go, you wanna go to the casino at 3a? I’m down.   Help me understand?" xo,  Reka = @justmeReka www.single-you.com...

James is back! He's married and I always loved talking with him about relationship and marriage.  ---- I know what I went through and I share my story as well as the stories of my clients. 𝗪𝐡𝐲? So you see you’re not alone. 𝐂𝐚𝐧 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐫𝐞𝐥𝐚𝐭𝐞 𝐭𝐨 𝐡𝐞𝐫 𝐬𝐭𝐨𝐫𝐲? This was just a strategy call. ⁣ ⁣ 𝐌𝐞: 𝐃𝐢𝐝 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐩𝐚𝐫𝐞𝐧𝐭𝐬 𝐞𝐯𝐞𝐫 𝐭𝐚𝐥𝐤 𝐭𝐨 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐚𝐛𝐨𝐮𝐭 𝐡𝐞𝐚𝐥𝐭𝐡𝐲 𝐫𝐞𝐥𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧𝐬𝐡𝐢𝐩𝐬? ⁣ ⁣ Her: No. My parents never r...

Learn from her story! One of the things that helped me heal from the pain I inflicted on myself by being with my abusive ex, was finding and learning from women who had been through what I went through. I loved feeling like I wasn't the only woman who made 'stupid' decisions for a man. I also was able to learn from those women.  I hope you learn from Jackii's story!  Xo, Reka IG = justme...

𝗛𝗼𝘄 𝘄𝗼𝘂𝗹𝗱 𝘆𝗼𝘂 𝗮𝗻𝘀𝘄𝗲𝗿 𝘁𝗵𝗶𝘀 𝗾𝘂𝗲𝘀𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻?⁣ ⁣Reka I’ve been meaning to ask you but in my time of confusion I want to move forward. but my actions are showing me— I just want to stay stuck. ⁣ ⁣You’ve answered the question so many times however I still can’t seem to understand it. I know what I am but why can’t I believe it? ⁣ ⁣ I know I am beautiful inside and out, I am kind, outstanding, funny, loving, w...

The Fall Out of Those Entanglements. That time I talked about Will & Jada and cheating with James. James was my co-host at the time on Power 99.1. While I no longer do the morning show on Power 99.1 -- I kept all my juicy audio.  xo, Reka  IG = @justmeReka

𝙄 𝙡𝙤𝙫𝙚 𝙢𝙚 𝙨𝙤𝙢𝙚 𝙒𝙞𝙡𝙡 𝙎𝙢𝙞𝙩𝙝 𝙖𝙣𝙙 𝙅𝙖𝙙𝙖 but this whole “entanglement” thing has got me thinking about YOU. How even Beyonce and Jay Z are normalizing that cheating is just the price of admission to a marriage. ⁣ ⁣ ⁣ It's not. I'm calling bullshit, sweetheart. ⁣ ⁣I don't want you to idolize them. It worked for them. Maybe they are happy, but the fact is you just don't know. ⁣ ⁣ ⁣ I don't want you thinki...

 I remember when I posted my first blog back in early 2018. I did it the midst of full shame of what I allowed a man to put me through but I knew that my story would be healing for me AND other women. ⁣ ⁣I didn’t know then I would create Single You but 𝙄 𝙠𝙣𝙚𝙬 𝙄 𝙬𝙖𝙣𝙩𝙚𝙙 𝙩𝙤 𝙝𝙚𝙡𝙥 𝙖 𝙬𝙤𝙢𝙖𝙣, 𝙤𝙣𝙚 𝙬𝙤𝙢𝙖𝙣, 𝙖𝙣𝙮 𝙬𝙤𝙢𝙖𝙣 𝙤𝙫𝙚𝙧𝙘𝙤𝙢𝙚 𝙬𝙝𝙖𝙩 𝙄 𝙟𝙪𝙨𝙩 𝙬𝙚𝙣𝙩 𝙩𝙝𝙧𝙤𝙪𝙜𝙝. I knew that sharing my story and pushing aside shame,...

#AskReka How did you concluded that your relationship was abusive? I think it's a word women struggle with because we're programmed to think abuse is JUST physical abuse.  Do you listen to my podcast and you think "I need more. I wish I had steps".... that's exactly what "Single You" is.  What is “Single You”? An online community and resource for single women. The primary purpose of “Sin...

Dude they made me cry!! Getting “flowers” for the gift my Grandmothers, parents and God gave me weird. I’m supposed to be doing this but I really really really do appreciate the love— especially the day (doing mornings) before my last day on Power 99.1 I’ll have a letter for the Tri Cities that I’ll read on air tomorrow at 7a (September 10, 2020) xo, Reka I help women discover their worth. So that...

I didn't have a strong relationship with God until I hit about 34. I always believed in God and grew up in the church but (for me) because I didn't seek a true relationship with God. Because I didn't question the things I was told and not told, I began to rush and try to get into relationships. Which sadly set me up for failure. I was so naive and I thought that when a guy told me he loved me, he...