Single You "The Podcast"

Is staying after he cheats more Christian-like? Is cheating part of marriage? There are people out here throughly enjoying marriage, don't get it twisted. And Lanaya Ramsey is one of them.... married for 18+ years. Mother of 3. Teacher, mentor, minister and very very active in the Church. Her journey with dating Jerry, to marriage to 18 years in. What we discuss on this episode… Her journey with d...

What do the affirmations on my pillow mean to the women on my panel? You? Why did I add a scripture on the back? Cameo  we'll discuss your comment; People think you can't have an unsuccessful single life, like you can have an unsuccessful marriage. Carla   we'll discuss your comment; single is so loud Deseree  we'll discuss your comment; imagine a world where women raise their...

This is a conversation I had with Anthony of Anthony does a podcast and my best friend Deseree (his girl). I know this is a questions you have had so we discuss from the lens of 3 people who are doing great work within themselves. We also discuss the quote "I'd rather be alone than with people who make me feel alone." The question I pose to you.... how miserable are you willing to be just to be in...

What exactly is Narcissism? What are the traits?  Well I remember a time that I got rid of a Michael Kors purse and some Jordans because the abusive ex wanted me to 'prove my love' for him. Narcissist? How he made me feel bad about having my parents and growing up in a two parent household. Narcissist? Let's talk.... with a therapist, Nicole Morris who has a Masters in Social work (MSW) and s...

Carla Thomas = Fly Girl. Writer. Stylist. TV Host. Carla is a multimedia creative. Hailing from Baltimore, cultivated at Howard University and now thriving in Brooklyn, Carla is an around the way girl who is quietly brilliant. She creates fun and cool relatable content. She’s always on a plane or in a showroom. On this episode we discuss going to Howard University, why we chose HU and what it mean...

You can buy Single You the Pillow Collection here.  Guest = Anthony from Anthony does a Podcast, and find him on IG here. As well as my best friend Deseree, find her on IG here.   Dropping every Thursday at 6a PST / 9a EST since August 27 of 2020. --------- I intend to help you see that you have authority over your life. No one gives us a manual when we are born. No one gives us a b...

Stacy Paetz… International Television & Podcast Host, Sideline Reporter, Author, Documentary Film Maker, Women's Sports Apparel Designer⁣ ⁣⁣She writes.... ⁣⁣ ⁣⁣“Girl...I've had 3 serious relationships in my life and the last one ended in 2010. I thought he was the one and he left me and I still don't know why. I've been abstinent for over 6 years and before I'd met him in 2008, I had been abst...

What is love? Cause girl him saying ‘I love you’ doesn’t mean he actually does. While I do believe Harry and Meghan are a perfect example of being a team... ‘You two against the world — not against each other'... this episode is less about them and more about what the Bible/God defines as love. 'They' say relationships are hard... Yea this Meghan and Harry is an example of the hard. Not him disres...

What would you do if you dated a guy for a few years. He promised marriage and when you're about to move to be with him... he disappears for 10 months. Then comes back talking about “how are you?” on snapchat. 👉🏽 That’s Adreeahna’s story and she shares it on this episode of Single You the Podcast. Yep he came back but how she handled ‘closure’ and the red flags she passed up. You can l...

I hope you listen with open ears. I'm not here to judge you but if you don't listen to this episode you won't know that. I'm very aware that this message isn't for everyone... but it is for the women I feel called to guide. Because what's the vision for your life sis? No judgement but the way I define judgement and the way cancel culture defines it, is extremely different.  Isn't your body a...

I dated him and I bet you did too. On today's Single You the Podcast; I speak to Jhall. He is a former Fboy and he has confessions for us. From his toxic journey to the man he is today. He's spilling all the tea and I got all the questions. Bring your note book because who he use to be... we need to learn how to dodge that. Reach out to Jhall here on IG and read his blog here.   ------- Did y...

I use to be so confused about my gut and the feeling I would get about men. Why did I feel like 'he is not for me' and I don't have a tangible reason? What does the gut feeling actually mean? Am I too picky? I had to learn what it meant to listen to my gut and how to use it to detect the people who aren't for me. Energy is real and we have to start trusting ourselves. The guy feeling is your God v...

What happens if a guy says "I'm too busy" but still wants to keep you as a 'friend'... how do you handle that situation? He doesn't want to be in a relationship but a freinds-with-benefits situation... he's ok with. How you handle that situation? Let's talk... A quote from Kaitlyn Herman: We ALL have a purpose. At 25, I'm lucky enough to have found mine. Whether you're 23 or 63, I will help you na...

I should have left him when this happened but I didn't. I go over some of the reasons why I didn't in this episode.  ----- Sign up for my Master class here; My Key strategies to help you dodge a dysfunctional relationship.  It’s Reka here! In case you were wondering what I really do... outside of posting about my workouts, Champ & Thor, my beautiful Pitbulls and discussing relationsh...

Elana got married young young and divorced months later. Why?  She was then in a relationship where she didn't even want to kiss this 'good man.' Why? Her friend Riggs (from episode 21) was always there for here as a FRIEND and that's it. How did they transition to lovers? Was it weird? What conversations did they have BEFORE they got serious? What's different with Riggs than any other man sh...

We often times by-pass the weight that a relationship is putting on us because our misguided hope makes the weight seems light. Elana has been happily married to Riggs for 10 years now. But before that she was married and divorced quickly. She has had a few dysfunctional relationships. We can learn from women like her, so I asked her to give us 3 things she knew that she didn't want in a husband a...

(Andy) Riggs was married in his early 20s. That did not last but why?  He has now been married over 10 years. That is lasting why?  We also cover:  1. 3 Things not to do in a relationship 2. 3 Things that is keeping their marriage happy.  3. They don't have kids. He explains why! (not that he had to but I wanted to ask for you). (Andy) Riggs can be found on: IG = RiggsRadi...

𝐒𝐨𝐦𝐞 𝐨𝐟 𝐮𝐬 𝐥𝐞𝐚𝐫𝐧 𝐛𝐲 𝐡𝐞𝐚𝐫𝐢𝐧𝐠/𝐥𝐞𝐚𝐫𝐧𝐢𝐧𝐠 ‘𝗪𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐍𝐨𝐭 𝐭𝐨 𝐃𝐨’… Riggs has 3 things you shouldn’t do in a relationship. ⁣⁣ ⁣Riggs went from ‘never getting married again’ to ‘happily every after’ with his wife of 10 years (12 years together). ⁣⁣ ⁣⁣ 𝐅𝐨𝐫 𝐦𝐞 𝐈 𝐰𝐚𝐧𝐭 𝐭𝐨 𝐥𝐞𝐚𝐫𝐧 𝐟𝐫𝐨𝐦 𝐡𝐚𝐩𝐩𝐢𝐥𝐲 𝐦𝐚𝐫𝐫𝐢𝐞𝐝 𝐩𝐞𝐨𝐩𝐥𝐞. ⁣⁣ How are you learning about what makes a healthy relationship? A healthy marriage? Seriously how? ⁣⁣ ⁣⁣ ⁣Ps....

Sick of being played? Shanice explains how she got ghosted after she drove 2 hours to meet up with a guy who never showed. Through her story she shares 4 tips on how to better gage if a man is playing you or not. (1) Stop giving men the benefit of the doubt. (2) Those stupid rules you make for you not to come off as “annoying” to a man —stop with the rules. (3) Ask all the questions. Being afraid...

I want you to start shifting your mindset in the way that people talk to you and how you talk to people. Start thinking about emotional intelligence and what it means.  Are you watching Bling Empire on Netflix? You know the relationship with Kelly and Andrew, the red power ranger... that's a relationship I don't want you to have sis.  In this Tangible Tip Wednesday we go over another exa...

Why is their so much pressure in the church to get married? How should we be dating?  "What you believe is what you do." - Pastor Marlando Jordan The books we suggested you can buy here.  The Right One by Frank Martin and Jimmy Evans Relationships Goals by Mike Todd Relational Intelligence by Dharius Daniels "So what you believe is what you do. So if somebody says, "I believe it's i...

Do you value yourself? Do you know who you are sis? Are you proud of you?  Where there is no vision, the people perish: but he that keepeth the law, happy is he. - Proverbs 29:18 In finding your purpose: 1. Prayer. Ask God to reveal to you, who you are .  2. Searching your heart. Ask yourself the same question. Who are you in Christ? What is your identity? Who are you outside of dating,...

She writes:  Dig, isolate, ache from being lonely, GLOW.   Like many late 20-somethings I've had my share of failed relationships, the most prominent being an 8 year live-in one. "Common law married". I'm not gonna spend so much time on the particulars, but we weren't meant to be. For 6 months I spiraled and acted out every annoying and "smh" worthy moment that almost every woman has aft...

So what is it supposed to feel like when you find your match? Butterflies or no? What I can tell you is this: Yep. Your Vagina Doesn’t Actually Know if He’s The One or Not sis.  ⁣Let’s stop leaning heavy into those butterflies. I have a problem when it comes to following your heart with out logic and strategy behind it. Listen to Daishaundra as she explains the difference between when she had...

Society will definitely make us think so. That only true happiness, joy and fulfillment come inside of a relationship. Cameo and I (Reka). use to think this way but we don't anymore.  Life moves in the direction of your most dominate thought and when we thought that way we ended up trying to cook our way, force our way, serve our way, submit our way into a man’s heart to prove our worth…. Hav...