Single You "The Podcast"

I’m over the 50/50 conversations. Cause who’s really talking splitting money with a guy who can’t even locate himself? I’m talking vibe change. You ask. He acts like nothings changed. Why isn’t there more of: “look I’m processing something— we are still good but give me a minute.”  Instead of acting different and making me feel like I’m tripping.  If we say “at this big age” we are going to be ope...

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Relationships, Statistics, and Self-Exploration: Unveiling Truths about Dating (each other) for Black Men and Women. An argument as to why we should give the bus driver a chance.  In this thought-provoking podcast episode hosted by Reka Robinson, she engages in a candid conversation with J. Hall about the complexities of relationships, the influence of statistics in dating, and the dynamics surrou...

"I am intentional about not losing myself in my marriage." - Meg (host) Reka, sits down with the inspiring Meg Watt to explore the dynamics of her decade-long relationship with her husband, Darrel. Through their conversation, they uncover valuable insights on building a healthy marriage, the importance of proper planning and strategy, and the need to embrace personal growth. Meg begins b...

"We have to stop internalizing people’s fruit inspection of us. - Tiyahri In this podcast episode, my guest is Dr. Tiyahri Wilson and we explore the topic of preference when it comes to dating, specifically for Black women. We start off by discussing whether Eboni K. Williams is allowed to have her own preference and if Black women are allowed to be vocal about theirs. We also touch on Eboni&...

In this episode of the podcast hosted by (Me) Reka Robinson with guest (life coach) Bryan Thomas, Bryan talks about his divorce and the lessons he learned from it. He explains why he was with her for a few years but only married for months and that when love is given with the intent to change instead of cover, problems arise. We discuss the concept "Love is meant to cover and not change, acco...

"Share what you want him to know and then allow him to ask the questions that go along with that." - Dr. Tiyahri Wilson. Find her here. In this episode of the podcast hosted by (myself) Reka and mental health therapist Tiyahri, we dive deep into the societal pressure on women to measure their worth by marriage and kids (The Ashanti of it All). We discuss the harmful comments that are oft...

The first 28 mins is my discussion with my friend Cameo King (of the Good Girl Podcast) about her experience on the Red Table (Talk). The episode she was on is titled: How to Find and Keep a Healthy Relationship and you can listen to that here. Then we get into the following; 28:10 When it comes to 'finding and keeping a healthy relationship' what did we learn from; Dating coach Matthew Hu...

Lets all welcome my friend, Cameo King back to the show, you can find her here.   Jump off discussion is about "MAFS" up to episode 8. Points were made & topics were talked about;  3:11 Overall thoughts on Dominique and Mackinley for Cameo. Was Mackinley's response about never dating a Black woman a red flag? Will race play into their issues?  9:58 How I've switched from Dominiq...

Welcome to Season 3 of Single You the podcast. I started this podcast in August of 2020, thank you for every listen, every review, every DM & every share. You have helped me stay consistent. Now let's get into the tea of S16 E5 & E6 of the reality show "Married at first sight": Marry Me in Tennessee, Nashville. What can we learn from the behaviors of these 3 couples? What behaviors do we n...

Welcome to Season 3 of Single You the podcast. I started this podcast in August of 2020, thank you for every listen, every review, every DM & every share. You have helped me stay consistent.   Now let's get into the tea of S16 E1 & E2 of the reality show "Married at first sight": Marry Me in Tennessee, Nashville. What can we learn from the behaviors of these 3 couples? What behaviors...

On this episode, I speak with Dr. Tiyahri. She so graciously shares with us her story of growing up in the church. Being married young, in what she feels was an arranged marriage to strategically leaving her husband after 15 years. Why did she leave? Why does she feel the marriage was arranged? What was she strategic about and how? Let's talk.  Intro: Did anyone have a conversation with her a...

What about those moments we should leave but don't and why don't we? A conversation with Abundance Coach, Published Author, Creative and Art Director; Claudia Noriega-Bernstein.  Some great moments. 10:28; What do we need to unlearn "about love" from our parents?  23:58; When your "vibe" "energy" is off and your always scared is a great indicator to leave but we don't. 25:12; Other...

You can find The Good Girl Podcast here.  What other topics would you like me to cover? Plus I always love your feedback, please reach out if you feel led. I'm always here. :-) --- Now, suppose you are ready to invest in yourself, to learn how to do the work to be happy single, truly. You want tools to do better in this area, unlearn bad Christian dating theology, learn how to set and KEEP bo...

Today's guest is Mel from the PreInternet Friend's Podcast. You can find him on IG here and his podcast here.   Flow of show;  Has anyone ever had a conversation with you about what makes a healthy relationship vs. unhealthy? Not having those conversations… Was that at your detriment? You didn’t grow up in church — so how would you feel about dating a women who felt she could change you...

Honk for Jesus. Save Your Soul. is a 2022 American dark comedy-drama film written, directed, and produced by Adamma Ebo, in her feature directorial debut, and is a feature-length adaptation of Ebo's 2018 short film of the same name. Starring Sterling K. Brown and Regina Hall.  This movie has SUCH A LOUD message and I want to discuss. So coming up next week, I ask my homeboy Jay... who didn't...

Flow of show: 1. Yes, single can be loud but let's discuss.... How do you manage being single? How do you manage being alone a lot? 2. Question from DM. I was sharing scenario of why I’m single to a non believing relative and some church friends … one said “opposites attract, so where your put together be prepared to fill in his gaps” while another argued “science” says that “like attracts li...

Angie Martinez IRL Podcast | We're All Gonna Die: Lauren London. Click here.  Check out episode 49. Titled: How can we be so confident in our professional life but not in the lane of relationship? Click here.  Check out episode 50. Titled: Anwar on: If you were raised to be a daughter instead of a woman, then re-parenting yourself is a necessary step to your healing and love journey! Cli...

Excellence comes from order > which brings peace.  "In the Bible no one is called your blessing unless they have the power to produce well-being in you and are deeply connected to you in faith and social bond". - God's wisdom for navigating life by Timothy and Kathy Keller You are going to have to decide, do you want what the word has been offering you for the rest of your life or do you w...

New to me? My name is Reka and I work with Women of Faith: READY for guidance on KEEPING boundaries & getting over the shame of constantly being mishandled by men. Listen to 59. I don't believe a lot of Women Of Faith know what love truly is.... here Listen to episode 60. Lu'Cretia on: I thought that if I did girlfriend things then 'he' who I dated would eventually choose to be with me. Part 1...

Episode to listen to next: 29 Titled: Theresa on: waiting until marriage to have sex is that the ONLY way I can get a lasting marriage? Does Jesus teach that? Click Here.   Also episode 31. Titled: Why praying hasn't gotten you a good man (yet). ⁣ Click Here.   Hit me up for the next episode you should listen to after episode 31!  --- Now, suppose you are ready to invest in yourself...

Intro to Jalencia :50 Did anyone have a conversation with her about what makes a healthy relationship vs. unhealthy? No and how that affected her dating life. 2:20 I (Jalencia) was dating to just date and how that set her up for dysfunction.  5:08 How did Jalencia find me and why she decided to spend the money to join Single You Academy.  14:13 Why did SYA work for you and advice didn't?...

Listen to Part 1 here.  More information on Single You Academy Here. 00:00 A good man isn't running around screaming that he wants a submissive woman.  6:27 My abstinence journey, Chris' respect and the ebs and flows of handling it when it gets hard.  22:48 Alpha Vs. Beta man. The difference and the definition.  41:04 Our influence over men but how we're using it wrong.  -...

More information on Single You Academy Here. ---- Now, suppose you are ready to invest in yourself, to learn how to do the work to be happy single, truly. You want tools to do better in this area, unlearn bad Christian dating theology, learn how to set and KEEP boundaries and you know you have nothing else to lose. In, that case, I invite you to apply and join the wait list to Single You Academy....

More information on Single You Academy Here. ------ Intro to Chris. You can find him here.  And grab his TikTok swag here.  4:11 Did anyone have a conversation with you about what makes a healthy relationship vs unhealthy? How we've normalized dysfunction 6:40 How religion affected him positively and negatively when it came to dating. 9:20 Women don't know what a God fearing man is a rea...