Guyset

Welcome back to another episode of Dear Guyset, where I answer the real questions guys are asking about dating, relationships, career, confidence, and figuring out life in your 20s. This week, I'm answering seven questions about situations we've all probably found ourselves in at some point. How long should you talk to a girl on a dating app before asking her out? What do you do when you've been o...

What if you didn't have to wait until Monday, next month, or the new year to change your life? In this episode of the Guyset Podcast, I'm talking about The Fresh Start Effect , a psychological phenomenon that explains why we're more motivated to pursue our goals after meaningful milestones like birthdays, Mondays, and the start of a new year. But here's the thing: you don't need a fresh start to c...

We all go through moments when we feel stuck, lost, overwhelmed, or just not like ourselves. Maybe something didn't go the way you hoped, you experienced rejection, you're having a bad week, or you've found yourself in a funk that you can't seem to shake. In this episode of the Guyset Podcast, we're talking about how to get back up again, reset your mindset, stop overthinking, and start feeling li...

I'm back with more life advice from the internet and sharing what I actually think about it. From putting your phone down and being more present to worrying less about the future, figuring yourself out, doing the work, and remembering that what feels impossible today might feel completely different tomorrow, these are the pieces of advice that stood out to me. We talk about why everything feels ha...

These are some of the things I wish someone had sat me down and told me when I was starting a new job, so I'm here to tell you them. From learning how to speak up and ask questions to handling feedback, owning your mistakes, saying no, building relationships, and actually showing the value you bring to a company, these are the lessons that can make you better at your job. Whether you're starting a...

The internet is full of life advice about how to make the most of your 20s, but how much of it is actually helpful when you're living through them? In this episode, I'm going through some of the best advice I've seen online and figuring out what's actually worth listening to, what's easier said than done, and how I'd apply it to real life. I talk about comparing yourself to other people, celebrati...

What should you do when someone cancels a date on you? When should you meet the friends of someone you're dating? And how soon after matching on Hinge should you ask someone out? In this Dear Guyset episode, I'm answering real questions from guys about dating, relationships, career, and life in your 20s. We're talking about what to do when someone cancels a date at the last minute, whether you sho...

As we say goodbye to summer and work starts to kick back into full gear, I thought it was the perfect time for a work reset. In this episode, I'm sharing the things I think actually matter at work and the habits that can help you get your focus back, reset your mindset, and set yourself up for success. I'm talking about how to prioritize what actually matters, keep track of your accomplishments, u...

How do you make a big decision when you have no idea what the right choice is? In this episode of Guyset, I'm talking about analysis paralysis, overthinking decisions, fear of failure, and the anxiety that comes with wondering if you're making the wrong choice. I'm currently stuck between taking a new opportunity and staying where I am, so I'm breaking down my actual thought process in real time....

There is so much work and career advice on the internet, especially when you're starting your first job or trying to figure out corporate life in your 20s. But how much of that advice is actually good? In this episode of Guyset, I went through some of the work advice I've been seeing on TikTok, Instagram, and across the internet and gave my thoughts on all of it. Some of it I completely agree with...

So how do I know if she actually likes me or if she's just being nice? And if we start dating, how do I know if she's seeing someone else? And what do I do when we I start to really like her and overthinking everything? In this Dear Guyset episode, I'm giving my take on some of the biggest early dating questions guys are asking right now. I'm talking about how to tell if she likes you or is just b...

What can Spider-Man teach us about growing up, rejection, heartbreak, comparison, grief, and moving forward? In this episode of Guyset, I'm breaking down the biggest lessons guys can learn from Spider-Man: Brand New Day and why Peter Parker continues to be one of the most relatable superheroes for all guys. We grew up alongside Tom Holland's Spider-Man, and now Peter Parker is dealing with many of...

Nobody teaches you how to go on a first date. There's no rulebook, no playbook, and no guide to what actually works. So I made one. In this episode, I'm sharing the unwritten rules of dating, from the confirmation text that sets the tone to how to prepare before the date, keep the conversation flowing, make a great first impression, and follow up afterward. These are the small things that can make...

What are the things that are actually worth spending money on? The "things worth the money" trend has been all over TikTok and Instagram lately, so I decided to put my own spin on it. In this episode, I share the purchases and experiences that have genuinely improved my life across dating, lifestyle, and mindset, and explain why I think they're actually worth spending money on. From grooming produ...

From situationships and first texts to relationship fights, work-life balance, and moving on from an ex, I'm answering the questions guys are really asking. How do you know if you're in a situationship or a relationship? When should you text someone after getting their Instagram? Should you manscape before a first date? In this segment of Dear Guyset, I answer your biggest questions about dating,...

Dating has never been more confusing. What is a situationship? When should you become exclusive? And how do you know when it's time to define the relationship? In this episode, I break down every stage of modern dating, from first dates and situationships to exclusivity, commitment, and relationships. I explain what each dating label actually means, when it's time to have the "what are we?" conver...

Starting your career is so overwhelming. How do you get a job without experience? Do networking calls actually work? Should you work at a startup or a big company? And how do you figure out what career you actually want? In this episode, I answer some the biggest early career questions I hear from recent graduates, job seekers, and young professionals. We cover practical strategies for finding a j...

You'd think there'd be nothing to learn from Love Island . I thought the same thing. But after watching this season, I realized it might actually be one of the best case studies on modern dating, confidence, communication, and relationships. Beneath all the drama, awkward conversations, and viral moments are real lessons about trust, emotional maturity, flirting, insecurity, expressing your feelin...

In this episode of Guyset, I talk about one of the biggest challenges we all face: self-doubt. Whether it's starting a new career, asking someone out, pursuing a dream, applying for a job, or simply believing you're capable of more, self-doubt has a way of convincing us not to even try. I break down why confidence doesn't come before action, why the way you speak to yourself matters more than you...

Welcome back to another Dear Guyset episode, where I answer the questions guys are actually asking about dating, relationships, work, confidence, fitness, and everything in between. I'm no expert, but I am going through all of this alongside you, sharing what I've learned so far and what I continue to learn along the way. Is it weird to want a relationship but not know if you're ready for one? How...

Intern season is here. In this episode, I share the advice I wish someone gave me before my first internship, including how to meet people, make yourself known, ask better questions, stand out at work, and create opportunities for yourself. Whether you're starting your first internship or your first full-time job, these are the lessons that helped me build confidence, earn trust, and get the most...

What can guys learn about confidence, vulnerability, relationships, and communication from one of the biggest shows in the world right now? In this episode, I break down the biggest lessons I took away from Off Campus and why I think it might secretly be one of the best guides to dating, relationships, and becoming a better man. Before you skip this because you haven't seen the show, you don't nee...

Turning 26 made me realize how much can change in a single year. In this episode, I talk about the 10 biggest lessons I learned at 25 about confidence, comparison, relationships, career growth, self-doubt, gratitude, and believing in yourself when you're still figuring life out in your 20s. I talk about developing a growth mindset, putting yourself out there, building confidence through action, ha...

In this month's Dear Guyset episode, I answer the questions guys are actually asking about dating, confidence, work, and figuring out your 20s. I talk about age gaps in relationships, whether pick up lines ever actually work, how to prepare for a job interview quickly, why dating apps can feel so frustrating, and how to negotiate your salary without completely panicking. If you've ever felt like e...

This week, I wanted to talk about something I think so many people struggle with after graduation, during their first jobs, or honestly at any point in their 20s: how to actually figure out what you want to do with your life. I talk about why I think we spend so much time obsessing over what could be or what could've been instead of paying attention to the things already right in front of us that...