Guyset

Starting your career is so overwhelming. How do you get a job without experience? Do networking calls actually work? Should you work at a startup or a big company? And how do you figure out what career you actually want? In this episode, I answer some the biggest early career questions I hear from recent graduates, job seekers, and young professionals. We cover practical strategies for finding a j...

You'd think there'd be nothing to learn from Love Island . I thought the same thing. But after watching this season, I realized it might actually be one of the best case studies on modern dating, confidence, communication, and relationships. Beneath all the drama, awkward conversations, and viral moments are real lessons about trust, emotional maturity, flirting, insecurity, expressing your feelin...

In this episode of Guyset, I talk about one of the biggest challenges we all face: self-doubt. Whether it's starting a new career, asking someone out, pursuing a dream, applying for a job, or simply believing you're capable of more, self-doubt has a way of convincing us not to even try. I break down why confidence doesn't come before action, why the way you speak to yourself matters more than you...

Welcome back to another Dear Guyset episode, where I answer the questions guys are actually asking about dating, relationships, work, confidence, fitness, and everything in between. I'm no expert, but I am going through all of this alongside you, sharing what I've learned so far and what I continue to learn along the way. Is it weird to want a relationship but not know if you're ready for one? How...

Intern season is here. In this episode, I share the advice I wish someone gave me before my first internship, including how to meet people, make yourself known, ask better questions, stand out at work, and create opportunities for yourself. Whether you're starting your first internship or your first full-time job, these are the lessons that helped me build confidence, earn trust, and get the most...

What can guys learn about confidence, vulnerability, relationships, and communication from one of the biggest shows in the world right now? In this episode, I break down the biggest lessons I took away from Off Campus and why I think it might secretly be one of the best guides to dating, relationships, and becoming a better man. Before you skip this because you haven't seen the show, you don't nee...

Turning 26 made me realize how much can change in a single year. In this episode, I talk about the 10 biggest lessons I learned at 25 about confidence, comparison, relationships, career growth, self-doubt, gratitude, and believing in yourself when you're still figuring life out in your 20s. I talk about developing a growth mindset, putting yourself out there, building confidence through action, ha...

In this month's Dear Guyset episode, I answer the questions guys are actually asking about dating, confidence, work, and figuring out your 20s. I talk about age gaps in relationships, whether pick up lines ever actually work, how to prepare for a job interview quickly, why dating apps can feel so frustrating, and how to negotiate your salary without completely panicking. If you've ever felt like e...

This week, I wanted to talk about something I think so many people struggle with after graduation, during their first jobs, or honestly at any point in their 20s: how to actually figure out what you want to do with your life. I talk about why I think we spend so much time obsessing over what could be or what could've been instead of paying attention to the things already right in front of us that...

No one really tells you what life actually feels like after college. There's no clear structure anymore. No defined path. And for the first time, it's fully on you to figure out what comes next. In this episode, I talk about post-grad life and why this phase can feel so uncertain. The pressure to have things figured out, the questions about your career, your friends, your future, and the feeling t...

Why does it feel like everyone is watching you at the gym? Why do you feel like an imposter, even when you've been showing up consistently? In this episode, I break down the internal monologue of lifting, what gym imposter syndrome actually feels like, and why that voice in your head doesn't fully go away. I talk about the moment I felt like I didn't deserve a bench, how that brought me back to wh...

How do you respond to a breakup text? Should you send one after a few dates? What if sex felt awkward the first time? And how do you actually come across as confident on a date? In this episode of  Guyset , I answer real questions guys are asking about breakups, awkward sex, confidence, rejection, and navigating situations no one really prepares you for. If you've ever overthought a text, felt uns...

How do you stay consistent when motivation disappears? What does it actually take to build something, stay disciplined, and get better over time? In this episode of Guyset, I break down the concept of the daily practice and why consistency, discipline, and belief are the real difference between people who succeed and people who don't. I talk about a Juilliard flute player who practices 5+ times a...

How do you actually stand out in dating today? What makes someone memorable on a first date, and what small things actually make a difference? In this episode of Guyset, I break down how to stand out in early dating, from texting and confirming plans to what to say on a date, how to ask better questions, and the small details that make you more attractive without trying too hard. I talk about: • H...

Am I settling… or am I just comfortable? There's a point in your 20s where everything looks fine on the surface. You have a job, a routine, maybe you're dating someone, maybe you like where you live. But underneath that, there's this quiet question that keeps coming up… is this really it? In this episode of Guyset, I break down what it actually means to be "settled" and why it's so hard to tell th...

How often should you shave? Should you be using dating apps or trying to meet someone out? And what does it actually mean when she doesn't text you back after a great night? In this Dear Guyset episode, I'm answering some of the most common dating and relationship questions guys don't know where to ask out loud. We're talking about grooming and confidence, dating apps vs real life, texting anxiety...

In the past few months, have you felt a little off? L ike you've been tired, unmotivated, or just not feeling like yourself for no clear reason? In this episode of Guyset, I talk about something a lot of people experience but don't always have a name for: seasonal depression. When winter drags on, the days get shorter, the sun disappears earlier, and it can quietly affect your mood, motivation, an...

How do you actually stand out at work? Whether you are starting your first job, beginning a new role, or a few years into your career, there are simple habits that make a huge difference in how people see you at work. In this episode of Guyset, I talk about the things that actually matter if you want to succeed in your job. Not the corporate clichés. The real habits that make people stand out to t...

As you get older, staying in touch with friends gets harder. Life gets busier. People move cities. Careers take off. Relationships start. And suddenly, the friends you used to see every day become the friends you "need to catch up with." In this episode of Guyset, I talk about why adult friendships naturally shift over time and why it takes real effort to maintain connection as life changes. Wheth...

Why do we feel like we have to have it all figured out? And what if you're actually right where you're supposed to be? In this episode of Guyset, I sit down with bestselling author Robert Dugoni to talk about career pressure, ego, confidence, anxiety, and how to stop feeling behind in life. We break down: • Why young men feel pressure to "have it all together" • The difference between being anxiou...

When can you sleep together? How do you actually know if she's ready? And what does it mean if she seems interested but is a terrible texter? In this Dear Guyset episode, I'm answering some of the most common early dating questions guys don't know where to ask out loud. We're talking about when to sleep together in a new relationship, how to read mixed signals, what bad texting really means, when...

Valentine's Day comes with pressure for almost every guy, whether you're single, in a relationship, or somewhere in between. I've experienced Valentine's Day from both sides. I've been single for most of my life, and I've also been in relationships. And I can honestly say they're completely different experiences, but they're both stressful in their own way. If you're single, Valentine's Day can fe...

Most guys are not bad at flirting. They are just stuck in their head. In this episode of Guyset, I go back to the basics with Flirting 101 . I talk about how to flirt with confidence, how to make the first move without getting stuck in your head, and how to handle rejection without letting it destroy your self-esteem. This is not about pickup lines or dating tricks. It is about mindset, presence,...

Feeling behind in life is one of the most common thoughts people have in their 20s, especially after college. You look around and it feels like everyone else is moving faster. Better jobs. Better relationships. More clarity. More progress. And somehow you missed the timeline. In this episode, I break down why that feeling exists, why it's so convincing, and why it's also misleading. We talk about...

In this Dear Guyset episode, I answer the modern dating questions guys are actually dealing with but rarely know how to talk about. What do you do when your friends don't like your girlfriend? Is it possible to go back to being friends after hooking up? Can you date multiple people early on without being a bad guy? And what should you text when she cancels a date? We talk through real situations a...