Guyset

How do you become more interesting, especially on dates, at work, or when you feel stuck in your 20s? This episode started with a simple question I was asked about dating: How do I become more interesting? But the more I thought about it, the more I realized this question applies to everything. Confidence. Career. Friendships. Relationships. How you see yourself when life starts to feel repetitive...

There's a moment that hits after work when you sit in your car, open LinkedIn, or scroll job boards and think, what am I actually doing? Not because you're failing. Not because things are falling apart. But because something just doesn't feel right. In this episode, I talk honestly about career uncertainty, burnout, comparison, and the pressure to feel fulfilled by your job. I share the thoughts I...

Every year, we tell ourselves this is the year we finally change things. We reset on January 1st. We make big promises. We swear this time will be different. And then life happens. A day gets missed. A habit slips. Motivation fades. And suddenly the goal that mattered so much feels heavy, frustrating, or out of reach. In this episode, I break down how to actually make your New Year's resolutions s...

Almost 50% of guys ages 18–25 have never asked someone out in person. Not because they do not want to, but because they hesitate. In this episode of Guyset , I break down why asking someone out feels so nerve-wracking now, where the fear actually comes from, and why the usual advice like "just shoot your shot" does not help when you are in your head. I talk about dating anxiety, fear of rejection,...

In this Dear Guyset episode, I answer the questions guys actually search for but rarely say out loud. I start with a big one: how to handle farting in a relationship , especially early on when you are trying to avoid making things awkward. Then I get into commitment anxiety and the real question behind it: how do you know if you are ready for a relationship , or are you just scared you will mess u...

Feeling jealous of a friend and not sure what that says about you? In this episode, I break down what jealousy actually means, why it shows up, and how it can reveal way more about your life than you think. This question came straight from a listener who asked, Is it bad to be jealous of my friend? My short answer is no. My real answer needed a full episode. A lot of guys wonder the same thing and...

Ever wanted to borrow someone's confidence? Well now you can. In this episode, I break down the mindset shift that helped me stop overthinking, start taking action, and actually feel more confident in situations I used to avoid altogether. If you've ever looked at someone and wondered how they walk into a room like they belong there, or how they talk to people so easily, or how they seem unfazed b...

In this episode, I talk about what actually happens when you feel stuck in life, why motivation disappears, and how to rebuild momentum when you feel burnt out or unsure of yourself. I walk through the moments where you lose belief in your abilities, the pressure guys put on themselves, the end-of-year slump, and the thoughts that make you question what you're doing. I also break down the mindset...

Dating should be simple, but somehow it never is. In this Dear Guyset episode, I'm answering the questions guys actually deal with every week. How long should you wait after she cancels a date? What do you text after getting her number at a bar? And what are you supposed to do when someone you like suddenly starts pulling back or straight up ghosts you? I talk through the mistakes most guys make w...

Ever had a conversation go so badly that you replay it in your head for days? In this episode, I'm sharing my most awkward networking moment yet: approaching a successful movie producer and completely fumbling the interaction. From forgetting everything I planned to say to asking cringe-worthy questions, this is a masterclass in what NOT to do when introducing yourself to someone successful. But h...

In this episode, I talk with Simon Gervais, a former counterterrorism agent who once protected presidents like Barack Obama and Queen Elizabeth II, and Ryan Steck, founder of The Real Book Spy. Together, they co-wrote the new book, The Second Son coming December 1st. What happens when you leave a life of danger for a life of storytelling? Simon opens up about trading high-stakes operations for hig...

I've been on both sides of the hiring table recently, and I'm sharing exactly what makes candidates stand out (and what makes them forgettable) in today's virtual interview world. This isn't your typical "straighten your tie and walk into a high-rise" interview advice. This is real talk about going from your bathroom to your Zoom call and still landing the job. I'm breaking down the interview turn...

Feeling lost in your career? You're not alone. In this episode, I'm talking about what happens when your job doesn't feel right anymore, when everyone else seems to have it figured out, and when the conventional career path just isn't working for you. What I Cover: When to Leave Your Job Why the two-year rule is BS, how to know when you're actually ready to leave, and why staying in the wrong job...

We've all done it. One good date and suddenly you're imagining the wedding playlist. In this episode of  Guyset , I break down what I call the Ted Mosby Syndrome, when your expectations race ahead of reality and set you up for disappointment. I talk about why so many of us build storylines around people we barely know, how that pressure kills real chemistry, and what it actually means to hold high...

In this episode, I'm breaking down one of the biggest questions guys in their twenties ask: how to talk to girls at a bar without being awkward.  Walking up to a girl at a bar can feel awkward. You start overthinking, psych yourself out, and end up doing nothing. I've been there. We've all been there.  I share the three-step framework that helped me stop overthinking and actually start conversatio...

I used to walk into the gym and feel completely out of place. Everyone seemed to know exactly what they were doing, and I was stuck in the corner wondering how to even start. In this episode, I talk about what it's really like to deal with gym anxiety, imposter syndrome, and that fear of looking clueless. This episode tackles the universal experience of "gym imposter syndrome" that most men face b...

In this candid conversation, 22-year-old American tennis pro Zach Svajda shares his extraordinary journey from starting tennis at age 2 to facing Novak Djokovic on Arthur Ashe Stadium at the US Open. Discover the untold reality of professional tennis as Svajda details his rigorous training regimen (70% focused on leg strength), the grueling 35-week travel schedule that spans the globe, and what it...

Welcome back to another Ask Me Anything episode where I tackle the real questions guys are actually thinking about, wondering, and asking but don't know where to find answers to.  This episode covers 10 questions that make you feel like you should already know the answer but have no idea where to find. Every single question I answer here, I've personally wondered about and felt weird for thinking....

If you're feeling completely lost in your twenties right now, this episode is for you. I saw this guy's TikTok about feeling directionless at 25, and it hit me so hard because I've been feeling the exact same way. So I wanted to share something that's been helping me navigate this weird post-grad phase we're all going through. What I'll Share With You: The "Rule of Thirds" that changed how I think...

Today I'm joined by Alex Joseph Grayson who is currently playing Dallas Winston in Broadway's hit musical The Outsiders . This conversation blew me away as Alex opened up about the reality behind one of Broadway's most physically demanding roles and shared his knowledge that will resonate with anyone chasing their dreams. What we dive into: The Real Broadway Experience: What it actually takes to p...

This week's episode is all about how to actually restart and build momentum again when everything feels completely scattered and you've been stuck in a cycle of bad habits. After moving to a new apartment and completely losing my routine, I've been struggling with all the habits that used to make me feel good: going to the gym consistently, eating well, journaling, and staying off my phone before...

I never thought a conversation with my Uber driver would completely change how I think about meeting new people. What started as a dreaded 55-minute airport ride turned into one of the most genuine conversations I've had in months and it's got me thinking about how we've lost the art of talking to strangers. In this episode, I'm breaking down the incredible questions my Uber driver asked that turn...

I'm back with another moving story that proves I still haven't figured out how to move without everything going wrong. I'm recording this from a hotel room in LA because I had to travel for work just three days after finally getting into my new place. I'm sharing my latest NYC apartment move experience, from co-op board approval nightmares to furniture delivery disasters that had me stressed all d...

When I walked out of "John Proctor is the Villain" on Broadway, I knew I wanted to have a conversation about the guys in the show and I got to have it with two of them, Gabriel Ebert and Hagen Oliveras. These guys don't play the heroes in this show, they play the guys we recognize, the ones who make us uncomfortable because we've either known them or we've been them. Gabriel portrays Mr. Smith, a...

I'm recording from my first NYC apartment for the last time after three years, and I'm honestly feeling all kinds of ways about it. In this episode, I'm getting real about the complex emotions that come with moving out and the transition from roommates to living alone for the first time. I'm sharing my most vulnerable thoughts about this change, from my catastrophic first NYC move three years ago...