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Send episode requests here We live in a time where women have more choices than ever before.  We can buy our own property…we can go to school for whatever…we can choose our own careers, we can play professional sports.  We can even go to war if we want to.  And  even with all of these modern freedoms…we still have societal chains that keep us in bondage… …that keeps us from TRULY being who we want...

Send episode requests here Ever shot your shot with someone and scored big time?? I feel this way about snagging Crystal Irom who is another dope ass love coach and a really good friend of mine.  Almost 2 years ago, I slid in her DMs during the pandemic and since then we’ve grown a beautiful friendship that is filled with so much love, joy and a lot of respect for one another.  Not only do I love...

Send episode requests here Women of faith are being gaslit by mainstream religion.  They deeply desire love, sex and marriage…but are often programmed to bury these desires to appear “godly” and not “desperate” They are single and unsatisfied in their 30s, 40s and 50s…but being told to “commit to The Lord” more and the right man will find them.  They are being taught to keep their legs closed…but...

Send episode requests here One of the biggest fears women have while dating is “Falling in Love” with a man.  So they act unbothered…they suppress their emotions and worst of all…ignore their desires.  And although they are successful at not “falling in love”...they are also successful at damaging their love life.  They have no idea that trying to avoid falling in love is also preventing them from...

Send episode requests here For every time I urge women to have fun while dating.. …there is always someone who is ready to reply “But Torah! I’m intentional. I’m dating with purpose.”  What I find so fascinating is so many women believe they have to choose between pleasure and purpose.  Newsflash! You can have experience BOTH while dating Queen...at the same time You don’t have to sacrifice fun to...

Send episode requests here One of our favorite Celebrity couples is calling it quits after 14 years of marriage.  And a lot of us are struggling with the news.  We’re asking questions like:  “If they didn’t make it…what hope is there for me?” Or  “I thought they were so happy…how could they divorce?” What if I told you that both of these questions are flawed and based in falsehood? What if I also...

Send episode requests here One of the biggest fears we have as women, while dating, is getting rejected by a man we really like.  And some of the most painful rejection is getting ghosted by a man that we really could really see ourselves building a life with.  Shruti was one of many women who became devastated after her dream man ghosted her out of nowhere. He was attractive, checked off all the...

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Send episode requests here “How come it’s the ones who engage engage in premarital sex that are getting married and yet we who have been sticking to our principles, trying to do things God’s way and praying for years are still waiting (and getting older by the day?)” I’m always seeing variations of this question in online communities where women of faith reside.  What these women don’t realize is...

Send episode requests here Most women are dating in scarcity mode.  They are constantly drained, disappointed and finding it damn near impossible to meet attractive, high-quality men that they’re excited about. There are a few women who have cracked the code and learned to date in abundance mode.  These women have no problem designing the love life they want and attracting the men they most desire...

Send episode requests here If you think it’s hard to find one quality man, let alone multiple quality men to date…. If you are struggling cultivating your options in quality men that you are attracted to and excited about.. And If you think dating several high-quality men who provide, protect and pursue you at once is a fantasy… Then it’s a good chance that you have a spiritual deficiency that is...

Send episode requests here “When is it going to be my turn?” “When am I finally going to meet my husband?” “Why can’t I be married already?” These are all questions that are asked by women who are attached to a destination…but not really taking responsibility for and honoring their journey at each milestone.  They think… “Once I have this man…this commitment…this partnership..” “...It’s going to s...

Send episode requests here f you find yourself often find yourself drained and disappointed with men Or that men keep leaving you feeling foolish and that he just wasted your time… It’s a good chance that you might be a woman who is easily impressed.  Because an easily impressed woman almost always ends up somebody’s fool. In today’s episode, learn what it means to be an easily impressed woman, wh...

Send episode requests here As women…we often complain that men objectify us for our bodies and sex. …because we want to be seen for more than our breasts, thighs and ass.  We want to be valued for more than what’s between our legs.  We want to be known and loved for WHO we are as women…and not for what our bodies can do for men.  Well ironically…WE objectify men just as much as men objectify us. I...

Send episode requests here Out of all the men we date…there’s always this ONE that we really like…but we find it hard to have him.  We wanna hear from him daily  We wanna see him all the time.  And we freak out when he’s being inconsistent, emotionally unavailable or even pulling away.  Some of us don’t realize that the ONE we like…is the one that feeds our addiction to dysfunction.  Like crack, t...

Send episode requests here They say first comes love, then comes marriage…then comes the baby with the baby carriage.  But what happens when the love leaves and the marriage is over and we are left alone with the baby? Is new love and marriage still on the table?  It is for my very good friend Christina David  She ended at the end of a hard divorce as a single mom with two young children and now s...

Send episode requests here There’s so many dating gurus (men and women alike) who teach that plus-sized women are not desired by high-quality men for love and marriage.  But is that really true tho? Hell nah! I have my former client and C2C Success Coach, Rashanda Banks here to share what dating as a plus-sized woman is really about when you know what you’re doing.  Rashanda is the queen of buildi...

Send episode requests here “I’ve tried online dating before and it doesn’t work” I’ve probably heard this a trillion times over my career as a dating coach Which is so funny because online dating works extremely well and it’s one of the easiest ways to meet high-quality men.  Truth is…if online dating isn’t working for you, it’s a user error.  Kind of like if you try to use an ice cream scoop as a...

Send episode requests here Over the past 35 years of my life, I have had so much success than I ever thought was possible for me.  Was it drama-free? Nope Was there plenty of messiness? Hell yeah! And in spite of all the trauma, drama and messy…I live a beautiful life filled with love, joy, freedom and abundance.  Even though it looks effortless…my life didn’t happen by chance.  It’s a result of m...

Send episode requests here It’s confirmed… Popular Youtuber, Kevin Samuels, who is most infamous for his controversial dating advice geared towards women… is Dead Whether you loved him, hated him, or remained indifferent…you cannot deny that he had an impactful voice and was a huge influence in the modern dating world. And because of his impact, the internet has been flooded with rants, think piec...

Send episode requests here Most women don’t have powerful, healthy love lives.  It’s not because they can’t or lack the ability.   It's not because of past trauma or hurt.  It’s because they aren’t ready to be 100% responsible for their love lives.  They still want to blame men They still want to make excuses.  They still want to stay in their comfort zones Real power requires real responsibi...

Send episode requests here That moment when a man hops into my comment section talkin’ bout”  “You giving’ all this advice to women. Are YOU even married?” As if a man validates my expertise… As if marriage is a coaching certification… As if having a husband means having an amazing love life…AND I can teach others to do the same. Marriage is a relationship status …Not proof that I can help women t...

Send episode requests here I want to invite you to come on a journey with me to the land of fulfilled desires.  Here the women are satisfied, excited and extremely pleased by the men they are dating. These men show up ready to serve these women and putting big smiles on their faces.   Sounds unrealistic? Think again.  It may sound far-fetched, but it’s easier than you think to live this kind of li...

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Send episode requests here The way we date men is important. Especially when we’re dating multiple men at a time. We don’t date multiple men because it’s “cool” Or to have a one-up on men Or to distract ourselves from being so attached to the one man we really desire.  It’s much deeper than that.  In today’s episode, I get real with you about your dating practices while dating multiple men and I s...