Date with Cents

Send episode requests here Most women spend weeks, even months, trying to figure out if a man is worth their time—dating him, running him by the group chat, hoping it turns into something. I don't do any of that. I know pretty quickly whether a man has even earned a phone call from me, and I never waste three to six months learning what I could have known in the first week. In this episode, I...

Send episode requests here There's a difference between a man getting your number and a man actually pursuing you. I've learned how to inspire the men I want to pursue me—planning the dates, investing, and showing up consistently—without ever forcing it or looking thirsty. In this episode, I'm breaking down exactly how I make it easy for a man to pursue me when he already wants to....

Send episode requests here I've gotten to the point where I have no doubt that when I pick a place to go, I'm going to catch the attention of the kind of man I want—and lately that's meant meeting a millionaire four to five weeks in a row. In this episode, I'm sharing exactly how I get quality men to notice me the second I step into a room. You'll find out why you can feel...

Send episode requests here You say you want a successful, ambitious provider. But have you ever really thought about how that man actually lives his life? Most women can't describe one real thing about their ideal man's day—and that's the exact reason they never know where to find him. In this episode, I'm teaching you how to stop guessing where the man you want hangs out and s...

Send episode requests here You know you want a man this summer. You say it, you feel it, your coochie is jumping for it—but somehow you keep talking yourself right out of going after it. And the stories you're telling yourself sound so smart and so responsible that you actually believe them. In this episode, I'm breaking down the five lies costing you your summer boyfriend. You'll f...

Send episode requests here In this episode, I'm giving you a simple summer plan to have a commitment-ready boyfriend by August—exclusive or not.  You'll discover why "putting yourself out there" and "loving yourself" was never enough without a real system, the number that tells you whether your love life is actually moving or stuck, and why the men you want never seem...

Send episode requests here A lot of you are going to hit cuffing season with a dry and dusty dating life once again.  Because you keep doing nothing in the summer and expecting a man by the fall…it's like wanting a summer body without ever hitting the gym. In this episode, I break down the three things keeping you stuck and headed for another manless winter. You'll find out why the men y...

Send episode requests here A few weeks ago, I walked away from a good man  after dating him for over a year and a half. In this episode, I'm breaking down what made me walk away from a man most women would have stayed with and why I don't regret it for a second.  You'll discover why looks and investment alone don't move me anymore, what happens when you try to adjust a man into...

Send episode requests here I used to be the woman who let a man decide whether my week was good or bad. My marriage taught me that.  When it ended, I couldn't get out of bed for weeks because I had outsourced my entire sense of safety to him.  That's when I had to ask a different question: “Why am I making my peace depend on whether a man can be trusted at all?” This episode walks you th...

Send episode requests here If you’re a woman of faith who struggles with putting in too much effort while dating   ….but not getting much in return from the men you date, this episode is for you.    You’re the woman who is always making time   You’re the woman who is there to provide emotional support,   You’re the woman who is always keeping conversations going.   You’re the woman who is always t...

Send episode requests here Part of the reason why you waste time on the wrong men is because you’re EASY. All it takes is for a man to pay you some consistent attention and now you’re his girlfriend.  And then you get big mad when you realized you invested months…sometimes years into a man who wasn’t worth all that effort There’s no wonder why you’re always so drained and disappointed with men Lis...

Send episode requests here “There’s not enough quality men out here for quality women.” That’s the lie we tell ourselves when we’re not ready to do the work.  The truth is that there are more than enough quality men for quality women AND quality women aren’t finding it hard to meet these men.  Why? Because they are doing the real work towards creating the love lives the desire And that work is dee...

Send episode requests here You finally have multiple men pursuing you, but now you don't know what the hell to do with them ... .so you're either picking whoever texts back fastest or stressing yourself out trying to be "fair" to everyone. Most women think the goal is just getting men's attention, but the real challenge is knowing how to handle it when you actually have ch...

Send episode requests here Last week, we talked about how Women of Faith tend to attract the wrong kind of men—the manipulative, irresponsible, and insecure ones… …and how those "good girl" habits can end up pushing away the intelligent, cultured, and emotionally available men who are actually ready for a real, committed relationship. This week, we're going step by step on how you c...

Send episode requests here That fear of doing all the work, showing up differently in dating, and still not getting chosen is keeping many women stuck in dating limbo…afraid to fully commit to finding love. If you've been consuming dating advice without applying it, deleting apps after two days, or hiding behind stories of being "too busy" or "not ready yet," you're n...

Send episode requests here Out of all the men we date…there’s always this ONE that we really like…but we find it hard to have him.  We wanna hear from him daily  We wanna see him all the time.  And we freak out when he’s being inconsistent, emotionally unavailable or even pulling away.  Some of us don’t realize that the ONE we like…is the one that feeds our addiction to dysfunction.  Like crack, t...

Send episode requests here We live in a time where women have more choices than ever before.  We can buy our own property…we can go to school for whatever…we can choose our own careers, we can play professional sports.  We can even go to war if we want to.  And  even with all of these modern freedoms…we still have societal chains that keep us in bondage… …that keeps us from TRULY being who we want...

Send episode requests here Been having a lot of interesting conversations with new clients about why they believe they haven’t been attracting quality men.  Funny thing is…when I listen to their complaints during our coaching sessions…summa the ladies don’t really have much evidence to support their beliefs.  They’re truly convinced that their biggest problem is not being able to attract quality m...

Send episode requests here Becoming the sun in your love life changes everything. Most women are floating through dating… Responding to texts because they feel like they have to. Going exclusive because he brought it up. Feeling overwhelmed because men want their time. Saying yes when they really want to say no. That’s not power. That’s the sunken place. In today’s episode, I break down what it ac...

Send episode requests here You've convinced yourself it's bad luck, that there are no good men in your city, that maybe you're just not the kind of woman men commit to.  But you don't have bad luck—you have untrained discernment. In this episode, I'm breaking down the exact framework to savagely vet a man in 30 days before you get attached.  You'll discover the four t...

Send episode requests here In this episode, I'm breaking down the W.O.R.D. Method …a four-step framework for when men break their word so you stop spiraling, over-explaining, or blaming yourself.  You'll discover why security doesn't come from men keeping their word (it comes from how fast you respond when they don't), the Good Girl Reflex that makes you audit yourself instead...

Send episode requests here Any woman can get married—that's not hard to do. The problem is the kind of marriages we walk into. Too many good girls are getting chosen because we're "wife material," which really means agreeable, low maintenance, and easy to keep. Then we end up crying on TikTok about husbands who forget our birthdays for 10 years straight or refuse to buy us carr...

Send episode requests here Earlier this week, I made a post about meeting 50 men per month if I wanted to go from no dates to engaged by the end of the year—and the girls lost their minds.  "Where are we supposed to get 50 men?"  "I can barely talk to two men!"  "This seems counterproductive!" So I brought on my friend Kimberly, a dating coach and matchmaker in Atlant...

Send episode requests here We've been told that at a certain age, especially as Black women, our options dry up. That if you're divorced, over 35, a single mom, or plus-sized, you should just take what you can get. But I'm 38, divorced, and I only date men who invest in me—emotionally AND financially. In this episode, I'm breaking down exactly what shifted for me to get here. Y...

Send episode requests here You got more questions, I have more answers.  Tune into this week's Q&A where I cover real questions like how to know when a man has earned exclusivity (spoiler: it's not about how many dates you've been on) to why you keep attracting the same type of men over and over again. You'll hear what to do when you live somewhere with limited dating optio...