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Send episode requests here It's January and you've probably already had the thought: "I want this to be the year I get engaged" Maybe you said that last year too….and the year before that. Every December you look back and nothing really changed. You went on a few dates, maybe talked to a few guys, maybe had something that felt like it was going somewhere and then it just... did...

Send episode requests here Most women are out here dating without any kind of plan….just swiping and hoping something works out, going on dates and hoping he's the one. But hope is not a strategy. Hope is how you end up years into this with nothing to show for it. In this episode, I'm breaking down my complete dating strategy for 2026—and it's totally different from last year. You&a...

Send episode requests here Most dating advice says to guard your heart, stay unbothered, and avoid getting too emotionally involved.  But for me, true connection means being fully open and expressive—I fall in love without holding back, and I do it without getting attached. In this episode, I share the mindset shifts and simple steps I follow to stay grounded and true to myself when I meet a new m...

Send episode requests here My client Dr. Juliet went from dating men who couldn't afford to send her an Uber to having wealthy men send her gifts just for rescheduling a date. In two months, she went from less than one date per week to 22 video calls in November alone with high-caliber men begging for exclusivity after the first date. In this episode, Dr. Juliet breaks down what actually shif...

Send episode requests here Wondering what it takes to be surrounded by men who invest in you mentally, emotionally, and financially?  This episode is full of gems of how to inspire men to adore you and add tangible value to your life.  OTHER POPULAR RESOURCES: Read my online essay on why the way we date is broken- Modern Dating is Hard   Learn the basics behind attracting quality men and what it t...

Send episode requests here My bestie Dr. Jasmyne went from never asking men for help with her luggage to having a pilot chase her through the airport offering to buy her whatever she wants.  The shift happened in less than one week—and it started with something as simple as letting a man put her bag in the overhead bin. In this episode, Dr. Jasmyne joins me to talk about what actually happened on...

Send episode requests here I can talk to 40 men in a week, carry on conversations with five or six at a time, swipe multiple times a day, run a multiple six-figure business, go to pole class, date, and live my life…all without getting drained or frustrated. When I tell people this, they ask "Torah, how are you not burnt out?"  The answer? It's my mindset.  I think differently about...

Send episode requests here I've been posting all the evidence this week on my Instagram stories…the caliber of men reaching out to me, the quality of dates I'm going on, the matches I'm getting…and many are asking "Torah, how are you doing this?” In this episode, I'm pulling back the curtain on the exact things I do outside of my profile to make sure quality men pursue me...

Send episode requests here You've been told dating apps don't work, but what if the problem isn't the apps—it's how you're using them?  I used to delete Tinder every few months out of frustration until I figured out the skill that changed everything.  Now I go on intentional dates whenever I want (from the comfort of my couch) with men who plan, pursue, and show up like gr...

Send episode requests here I just went on five dates in one week—including a man who drove six hours just to meet me and another who planned a seven-hour experience complete with private dining.  Three of these men… met them on Hinge.  When I posted screenshots, women flooded my DMs saying "that can't be my Hinge" and "dating apps don't work for me."  But here's...

Send episode requests here You’re relying on your pretty pictures to sell you, but quality men need more than a nice smile to know you’re worth pursuing. If your dating profile isn’t pulling the kind of men you actually want, this episode is for you I’m breaking down the biggest mistakes women make on their profiles and why most are just throwing content up without any real strategy. You’ll hear m...

Send episode requests here “How do I know whether I’m doing way too much with a man?”  “How do I know whether I’m  giving too much of myself?” “How do I make sure I’m not overinvesting in a relationship that isn’t going anywhere?” These are all questions women ask when they are tired of giving their time, energy and hearts to men who didn’t earn it.  I got some better questions for you to ask thou...

Send episode requests here “When is it going to be my turn?” “When am I finally going to meet my husband?” “Why can’t I be married already?” These are all questions that are asked by women who are attached to a destination…but not really taking responsibility for and honoring their journey at each milestone.  They think… “Once I have this man…this commitment…this partnership..” “...It’s going to s...

Send episode requests here   If you freeze up or get triggered when men ask you questions like “Why are Single” or “WYD?”, this episode breaks down the real reason this happens and how to flip the script completely.  I'm sharing what's actually going on when men ask these questions, the mindset shift that changes everything about how you respond, and why your current approach is telling...

Send episode requests here Here’s the audio replay of my most recent live training:  Build Your Rotation: Attract 3 Commitment-Ready Boyfriends in 90 Days What you'll learn: 🔥 The 3-part dating strategy that helps you get pursued by the right men—without chasing, over-giving, or performing for a man’s approval.  🔥 How to meet commitment-ready, high-quality men ANYWHERE—even if you’re convin...

Send episode requests here I hired a dating coach even though I literally AM a dating coach, and people are confused as hell about why I'd do that. If you're embarrassed about needing help with dating, this episode breaks down why investing in dating support- especially when you think you don't need to - separates extraordinary results from just good enough.  I'm sharing the co...

Send episode requests here If you keep saying you want a successful, high-earning man but somehow never meet any, this episode breaks down the strategic mistake that's keeping you stuck in the same disappointing cycle.  I'm sharing why it's not about your standards being too high or you not being good enough, plus the one shift that changes everything about the type of men who start...

Send episode requests here If you're constantly saying yes when you mean no, accepting last-minute cancellations with a smile, or pretending his low-effort bullshit is perfectly fine - you're abandoning yourself and wondering why dating feels exhausting. In this episode, I'm breaking down what self-abandonment actually looks like in dating, why your "good girl" programming...

Send episode requests here Broke men don't just stumble into your life by accident - they show up because they can sense which women will tolerate their inability to provide. If you keep attracting men who either expect you to fund the relationship or can't afford to match your lifestyle, this episode breaks down why this pattern keeps happening and how to flip the script completely.  I&...

Send episode requests here My ex came back (Latin Papi) In this episode, I'm breaking down exactly how I'm handling this situation, including my five-step repair plan that lets me enjoy what works between us while protecting my peace.  You'll learn the difference between repair and reconciliation, why trusting patterns over promises keeps you out of fantasy, and how the right bounda...

Send episode requests here At 40 years old, Dr. Courtney had been single most of her life, hadn't dated anyone in six months, and was drowning in dissertation anxiety while dealing with a nightmare tenant situation. Fast forward just five months later and she's now Dr. Douglas with multiple quality men traveling hours just to take her on dates, including one who performed magic tricks fo...

Send episode requests here You got more questions, I have more answers.  Tune into this week's Q&A where I cover real questions like how to handle men who repeat the same annoying mistakes, what to do when your ex comes back wanting another chance, how to communicate your needs without becoming passive, and how to know if your walkaway power is too strong. We also talk about managing expe...

Send episode requests here You finally have multiple men pursuing you, but now you don't know what the hell to do with them ... .so you're either picking whoever texts back fastest or stressing yourself out trying to be "fair" to everyone. Most women think the goal is just getting men's attention, but the real challenge is knowing how to handle it when you actually have ch...

Send episode requests here You're getting attention, good morning texts, and flirty conversations—but he never actually asks you out, and you're sitting there wondering what the hell happened. You know he's attracted to you. The conversation flows. He seems interested. But weeks go by and you're still just texting while he never makes real plans. You're confused why he act...

Send episode requests here You know you're a catch, you show up looking good, but you want quality men to feel more excited about approaching you…and it's simpler than you think. The secret isn't changing how you look or where you go. It's three powerful energy shifts that make you magnetic to approach instead of just beautiful to admire. When you master these, quality men will...