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Send episode requests here If you want to date…BUT … …you have no prospects …men aren’t approaching you …you have no success with dating apps.  Then this week’s episode is for you. Tune as I share practical ways you can implement ASAP to start seeing quick results in your love life.  Implement these tips to shift from dead, dusty dating into dating deliciously. Follow me on Instagram for more dati...

Send episode requests here I’m back after a long hiatus and I got a few things to say… Follow me on Instagram for more dating gems at:  @torahcents  @curved2cuffed  MY MOST POPULAR RESOURCES: Read my online essay on why the way we date is broken- Modern Dating is Hard   Learn the basics behind attracting quality men and what it takes to build a rotation. - The Cuffing Season Retreat Bundle. Learn...

Send episode requests here One of the most underrated skills to create a delicious dating experience is the practice of GRATITUDE around your love life.  Most women tend to complain about men, dating and their love lives… …and they have no idea that the more they complain about it.. …the more their love lives will suffer.  It’s not so much the “complaints” that kill their love lives… …it’s the neg...

Send episode requests here In my experience, Women of Faith seem to struggle when it comes to having faith in their love lives.  They have a strong desire for love and companionship…but oftentimes they have even stronger fears, doubts and limited beliefs.  This causes them to lose hope and run out of steam to continue putting themselves out there to meet men and date.  Tune into this week’s episod...

Send episode requests here There’s a LOT of women who hate dating… And a LOT of them believe that men are the problem. They feel that men are the problem…because… They l men aren’t intentional…or honest about their intentions They also feel men don’t wanna commit or show up for them… or put in much effort to pursue etc… These women get so frustrated with men… that they wanna quit dating.  Truth is...

Send episode requests here When someone tells me that they’re a woman of faith, I can normally tell the level of her faith by the health of her love life.  You can go to church regularly, pray, consistently read your bible and serve in ministry… BUT the truth of your spiritual walk is always revealed by the life you live daily…and that includes your love life. Listen in today to find out how to us...

Send episode requests here If it’s been months or years, and you’re still not making progress in your love life… Or not even having fun and enjoying the process.. I can almost promise you that there's a lack of responsibility in the mix.  Meaning, you have not yet taken 100% ownership of your romantic actions and choices.  Every kind of success in your life relies on your ability to make deci...

Send episode requests here I love talking about how fun and fruitful it is to date multiple men at a time… …and I love teaching high-achieving women of faith how to do it…and do it well.  But every time I publicly talk about it…theres always women blurting out:  “Omg that sounds exhausting” Or  “I could never do that”  Or  “That doesn’t work for me” In today’s episode, I’m breaking down exactly wh...

Send episode requests here Everyone wants to have a thriving love life… BUT not everyone is committed to having it.  That’s because creating a delicious dating life filled with fine ass quality men doesn’t just happen.  It takes WORK. It takes letting go of all your excuses for why you can’t do it.. …AND it takes for you to create daily opportunities to navigate your dating obstacles.  Just ask Vi...

Send episode requests here “I’m doing everything right…but dating is still going horribly wrong.” A lot of High-achieving Women of Faith feel this way.  They've always been the perfect girlfriend. They’ve always gone out of their way to show up for the men they’re dating.  They even overinvest their time and energy just to prove how committed they are to growing the connection.  But it still...

Send episode requests here “I don’t have time to date”  It’s one of the biggest lies High-Achieving Women of Faith tell themselves when their love lives are dry or non-existent.  They have no idea it’s a lie tho… They really believe that because they are busy professionals, entrepreneurs, or high-ranking officials in their companies (who sometimes happen to also be single mothers)... …that it also...

Send episode requests here The concept of “Soul ties” is one of the biggest lies ever told to women of faith.  This lie caused us to have a lot of fear. We learned to fear sex instead of having responsibility around it.. …AND fear our own emotions instead of developing the skill of properly processing  In today’s episode, I’m helping you to drop the fear you may have been conditioned to have so yo...

Send episode requests here I know a lot of high-achieving women of faith who want to attract better men and have better dating experiences.  I also know that many of these women will struggle because they are slaves to their own perfectionism.  They don’t wanna make mistakes They don’t wanna be judged They don’t wanna feel pain So they hide, downplay their desires and continue suffering in the sam...

Send episode requests here “Why is dating at this age so complicated? Nothing in life is more stressful than dating after 35” This was a post I read from a fed up woman in my social media feed recently.  Thing is…tons of women feel just like her.  Dating isn’t wasn’t stressing them out tho. They’re stressed out because they haven’t accepted that creating a fun, fruitful and fulfilling dating life...

Send episode requests here I get a lot of complaints from women who struggle talking to men they’re dating.  Their text and phone convos are either super boring…OR they fizzle out way too fast.  They think they need to DO more things to fix it…like learn a new set of questions to spice things up.. OR talk more on the phone so that the connection stays strong.  You don’t have to DO more or talk mor...

Send episode requests here Been having a lot of interesting conversations with new clients about why they believe they haven’t been attracting quality men.  Funny thing is…when I listen to their complaints during our coaching sessions…summa the ladies don’t really have much evidence to support their beliefs.  They’re truly convinced that their biggest problem is not being able to attract quality m...

Send episode requests here I know a huge pain point for so many women of faith is that they’re tired of things fizzling out between them and the men they’re dating. They’ll have great chemistry with a guy…go on a couple of dates…and as soon as they get emotionally invested…they either stop hearing from him… …OR he pulls away and wants to be friends. They think the solution is to get more time on t...

Send episode requests here If you’re going out on tons of dates with men you like…and your connections almost always fizzle out or never lead to anything… …let me ask you this:  Are you being open and vulnerable?  After working with hundreds of clients, I've discovered that there is a direct connection between a man being inspired to pursue and a woman’s ability to be vulnerable.  In today’s...

Send episode requests here Food for thought:  Many times when you feel men aren’t emotionally available… …it’s actually because YOU are the one who is being emotionally unavailable. And I say this with my whole chest because 99.9% of the time when women come to me and say:  “Torah! How do I stop attracting men who are emotionally unavailable”  I’m able to dig deeper and discover that these same wo...

Send episode requests here “He just wants to hang out or keep things casual” “He doesn’t express how he really feels about me” “He doesn’t discuss plans for me in his life. He just goes with the flow”  “He never wants to talk about his past or what’s bothering him” Many women might see this as an emotionally unavailable man…but I'm not so quick to jump to that conclusion.  Based upon experien...

Send episode requests here One of the biggest misconceptions I hear a lot as a love coach is that the older you get…the harder it is to date… …and the harder it is to meet quality men.  I’m here to say that it’s all lies.  I don’t care if you’re in your 40s, 50s and even 60s. Florence is a great example of what it looks like to have a fun, fruitful, forward-moving dating experience…in your 50s.  J...

Send episode requests here There’s a lot of dating nonsense floating around about women who are 35+ “You’re a leftover woman” “Men know something is wrong with you” “God might want you to be single” And what I hate the most is that so many single women are choosing to believe this.  Faith was one who believed that since she was over 35 and didn’t meet her original timeline for marriage…that God mi...

Send episode requests here Abstinence can be a period for self-love, personal growth and honor of one’s faith. But because so many women of faith are going on abstinent journeys AND they have no viable marriage options…it is becoming more of a period of dysfunction.  See…women of faith are wanting sex, BUT they are also waiting for marriage.  This is a problem because most women of faith aren’t cr...

Send episode requests here One of the biggest reasons why women don’t create yummy love lives for themselves is because they are afraid of what people will think of them if they do.  They fear people will judge them for kissing men on the first date They fear people won’t approve of them dating multiple men They fear being labeled “difficult” if they bluntly asked for what they wanted for men and...

Send episode requests here Imagine pushing 30, never been on a date, never even kissed a guy before.. Annnddd…you’ve been waiting on God to send your husband, but he’s nowhere in sight. That was Marshae when we first met in 2017.  A beautiful, outgoing high-achieving woman of faith who desired marriage, but was lost when it came to dating and interacting with me because all her life she  was taugh...