Create Your Fate

"Choosing yourself means letting go of the version of you built for everyone else." — Jose Portillo In this episode: How choosing yourself can feel like sacrifice—and why it’s still worth it. The hidden cost of not choosing yourself (and how to recognize when you’re doing it). Why retreats create a safe space for deep self-discovery—and how to replicate that at home. Micro ways to practice “choosi...

“You don’t have to know the whole staircase. Just trust that the next small step will lead you to the life you’re meant to live.” -- Umna Khan, Founder of UMNA In this episode: How one tiny decision can change the entire direction of your life. Why fear convinces you to stay small—and how to break free. The surprising truth about alignment and intuition in your next chapter. How to reframe “starti...

"You cannot change your circumstance. You just can't. But you can change the meaning behind your circumstance." -- Meg In this episode: A powerful true story of loss, trauma, and the long road to healing How unresolved grief can shape behavior, relationships, and identity over time What it looks like when the body finally says “enough” and forces emotional release A new perspective on how painful...

“You can't control what happens—but you can always control the meaning you give it.” -- Meg In this episode: How to shift your emotional state without ignoring your real feelings The difference between reframing and toxic positivity (and why it matters) How your focus directly impacts your vibration—and what that means for your reality Three simple reframe techniques you can use right now to shift...

"Receiving isn’t passive—it’s conscious, active, and directly tied to how worthy you believe you are." -- Meg In this episode: Why receiving is the most overlooked step in manifesting your desires How to identify hidden blocks to receiving (like guilt, awkwardness, and fear of entitlement) The difference between true deserving and entitlement—and why one empowers while the other sabotages Practica...

“If you are manifesting big dreams, why are you also manifesting difficulty?” -- Meg In this episode: How hustle culture creates subconscious resistance to ease Why your beliefs about hard work may be sabotaging your success The energetic difference between inspired and incessant action Daily practices to rewire your language and welcome ease into your life Get your free 7-day trial to the FateCre...

“The universe isn’t on a budget—you are. And it’s time to stop asking for the discounted version of your dream life.” -- Meg In this episode: Why “fine” is often fear in disguise—and how it's silently sabotaging your manifestations The difference between gratitude that uplifts and gratitude that limits How to ask for what you really want (not the watered-down version) Practical ways to strengthen...

“When you know who you are, no one else gets to tell you who you're not.” -- Meg In this episode: How to reclaim your power by consciously choosing which beliefs to accept or reject The concept of “assigned truth” and how it impacts self-worth and identity Why someone else's opinion of you is often just a reflection of their internal world How early programming and NLP filtering shape your self-pe...

“What’s mine will never miss me. And what misses me was never mine.” -- Meg In this episode: How to stop giving your power away to people, potential, and the past. What to do (and what not to do) in the immediate aftermath of a breakup. How to emotionally and energetically clear space for the relationship you actually want. The surprising mindset shift that helps you quantum leap after heartbreak....

" What got you to fall in love is different than what is going to make you stay in love." -- Meg In this episode: Clarity on why love alone isn’t enough to sustain a healthy relationship Awareness of the subtle signs you're compromising too much of yourself Tools for realignment — whether you're dating, committed, or questioning An honest reflection on what it really means to build a love that las...

"When there’s no resistance, that’s your sign. The universe is saying—go this way." -- Meg In this episode: What trusting your intuition actually looks like in real life How to recognize when life is lining up for you The importance of fast, inspired action before fear creeps in Why resistance (or the lack of it) is a compass And a BIG announcement I’ve been keeping quiet… until now... Get your fr...

"The only way out of a rut is through it. Stop searching for distractions and start searching for yourself." ~ Meg In This Episode: Learn the 4 steps to get out of a rut See how you can appreciate where you are Use it to see where to go in the future Practice the 5-Why Method Great for all Enneagram Types! Get your free 7-day trial to the FateCreator life coaching app! Have you been constantly in...

"Perhaps the reason you don’t notice your progress is because you keep raising the bar." -- Meg In this episode: Understand why we hold ourselves to impossible standards and how it leads to burnout. Recognize the subconscious programming behind perfectionism and self-criticism. Learn how to shift from self-punishment to self-compassion. Take actionable steps to make rest a requirement, not a rewar...

"Your brain will always choose a familiar hell over an unfamiliar heaven. Because its one job is to protect us and keep us safe. It does not care about happiness. It cares about safety." -- Meg In this episode: Bravery is an action, not a feeling—stop waiting to “feel” ready. Your brain prioritizes safety over happiness, but you don’t have to. Shift from “what if” to “what is” and take the drama o...

"If all you ever do is focus on the parts you want to change about yourself, you'll never accept yourself...and if you never accept yourself, you'll never be able to love yourself." -- Meg In this episode: Understand what true self-acceptance is See how self-acceptance is related to self-worth How to have a more authentic sense of self How to stop that inner-critic voice inside of your head Get yo...

"Happiness isn’t something you find—it’s something you practice." — Yaniv Shanti In this episode: Why happiness isn’t just about joy—and what it really means to be happy The biggest traps people fall into when chasing happiness How to break free from external validation and cultivate self-acceptance Practical ways to train your "happiness muscles" and shift your mindset Get your free 7-day trial t...

"You are not going to be able to love yourself until you accept yourself, and you are not going to be able to accept yourself if you keep trying to change yourself because you're focused on all the things you hate about yourself." – Meg In this episode: Understand how the "why" behind your actions determines success or failure. Learn how negative motivators, like self-hate, sabotage long-term succ...

"Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate. Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure." – Marianne Williamson In this episode: Why you are not the exception to success—you are just as capable as anyone else. How self-doubt and limiting beliefs are keeping you from stepping into your full potential. The importance of recognizing the difference between fear and truth in your minds...

"Most of the time, when you say 'it's not worth it,' what you really mean is I'M not worth it. " -- Meg In this episode: Your decisions should be based on worth and alignment with your future self , not fear, difficulty, or cost. What you focus on expands—shifting your focus from obstacles to value changes your entire experience. Self-worth directly impacts decision-making; whe...

"There's nothing. more valuable than being free of an affliction that you know is pulling you down, whether it's alcohol or any substance or a behavior." -- Tina Hines Wrotenbery In this episode: Explore the benefits reducing and eliminating alcohol in your life How to go beyond just "Dry January" and still have a social life Dive into holistic practices, such as Breathwork, to help you navigate l...

"We continuously show up for other people, which is great --but we can sacrifice ourselves along the way." -- Meg In this episode: What choosing yourself in 2025 looks like Sneaky ways you have been self-abandoning and not choosing yourself How to align yourself to get back to your true authentic self How to choose (and love) ALL parts of yourself Begin your 7-day trial to the FATE online life coa...

"Integrity to yourself is more important than integrity to anybody else." -- Meg In this episode: Learn how easy it is to change your mind Understand the art of doing what you want Why changing your mind can be scary How to know if you’re making the right decision for you Begin your 7-day trial to the FATE online life coaching community FOR FREE ! Get unlimited access to coaching tools, Enneagram...

" Energy flows where your attention goes. If your mind automatically goes to the worst case scenario or to a negative potential that does not exist yet, that is where you are sending energy to meet you." -- Meg In this episode: Learn how to focus on the facts and nothing but the facts Stop worrying about every little thing Figure out what your emotions are actually telling you Find out what your t...

" You don't have to to feel responsible for other people's emotions. Who you were is not who you are. Identify who you want to be and take small steps to becoming that person." -- Meg In this episode: Learn how to stop people pleasing Survive and thrive through this holiday season Stop being overcommitted to other people Start realizing that you are not responsible for other people's emotions Begi...

"We say yes, because we don't want confrontation. We don't want to feel guilty. We don't want someone not to like us." -- Meg In this episode: Learn how to say no AND mean it How to still say yes to yourself Find out why it is so hard to say no and see how to overcome the need to say yes Let go about worrying how other people perceive you Begin your 7-day trial to the FATE online life coaching com...