After Hour Happy Hour

welcome to the last episode of season 4!!! can’t believe another season (and basically year) is gone, just like that 🥲 since we won't see ya'll until the new year, we used this episode to chat all things 2023: goals and themes that we had, how successful we were in achieving them, what we're prioritizing for 2024, and all the above! happy early holidays everyone!! stay safe, and thank...

Surpriiiseeee, our first DUO episode ever!!! Ya'll have seen the three of us (of course) and solo eps of Jam, but never just two of us! In today's episode, Jam and Sharon take over the pod (Vicky had to miss this one) to just... chat. But we get oddly very specific about the fear of aging. Like physically aging. As in wrinkles and loss of collagen. Well- for Jam at least LMFAO. Tune in to...

Are you a people pleaser? To some extent, everyone is at least a little bit (unless you’re a sociopath :D!!). Whether it’d be going out to a social event because a friend asked, going the extra mile at work to help a peer out, or even doing/not doing something in consideration of someone else, we all have people-pleasing tendencies. But is that good? Is that bad? In what situations? Are we people...

Did you lose your years to the pandemic? You’re a liar if you say no. just kidding. ish. but in today’s episode, we chat about the “pandemic skip” aka the years of 2020 - 2022 (more or less) where the concept of time genuinely feels lost, skewed, or insanely weird. No like seriously, you’re telling me that 2017 was 6 years ago and not 3??? Anywho. Whether the pandemic hit while you were a senior i...

What would you do? In today's episode, we thought it'd be fun to come up with situational questions and see how we'd answer/act (aka life is so uneventful that we're spicing it up by asking each other false scenarios : D) jk but it's also fun to see how people think!! We talked about: scenarios that might prompt you to ask your boyfriend for permission on something, situations...

What are you currently listening to? Welcome back to another monthly music sesh where we share our current fav songs as well as our opinions on the others’ choices! This month’s artists are brought to you by: Tate McRae, Olivia Rodrigo, and Denise Julia (can you guess which recs are whose 👀). We also share some music industry conspiracies and tea so tune in to the discussion. Happy listening! Fol...

Why don't we want to be career girlies anymore? Today's topic is a lil revisit/pt 2 to one of our older episodes "Passion vs Paycheck" because... well let's just say, a lot has changed LOL. In today's episode, we chat all things career updates, the struggles of the current job market (no bc why are entry level positions requiring 4-6+ years of experience and paying chump...

Have you ever been love-blinded? 🤔 As in.. you’re super crazy into someone and see so much potential with them and get down bad (like real bad) and then once you’re out of it you’re like… girl wtf was wrong with you, were you okay? LOL. Weeeellll, we talk about it : D In today’s episode we chat all about the love goggles, the difference between being love-blinded versus being in the honeymoon pha...

Do all girls think the same? (And by all girls, we mean just us 3 LOL) Today's episode is a fun lil idea we took from Jubilee's Spectrum videos where we are prompted a question or statement relevant to a specific topic, and answer across the spectrum of strongly disagrees to strongly agrees. For example, Topic: "Do all girls think the same?" Statement: "Girls enjoy the talki...

Have you ever had a conversation with someone (new) and later find out that they thought you were being flirty/trying to hit on them (when you really weren't at all)? Well, Jam has :D And I'm sure a lot of us have experienced same same, but different incidences. So in today's episode, we chat a bit about why meaningful conversations can sometimes insinuate flirtatious behavior. And of...

What are you currently listening to? Today’s music sesh is quite interesting because Vicky apparently got into screamo and Sharon got into… TWICE?????? I guess you’re just gunna have to tune in to find out how exactly that happened 🫢 and of course, we talk all things music including— taylor swift, jvke, scoups tearing his ACL bc his badonkadonk was too big (jk), and all the things. Happy listenin...

Do you believe in such thing as a platonic soulmate? Where's the line between a bestie-for-the-restie and a soulmate when it comes to friendships? In today's episode, we chat all about the concept of platonic soulmates: do we have any, do we believe that certain friends come into our lives when they're supposed to, can opposite gender friends be soulmates, etc. Let us know your thought...

Can you lose your identity in a relationship? You know how (sometimes) people who get out of relationships say things like “time to find myself again?” Does that mean they lost a part of themselves in that previous relationship? 🤔 Or maybe if you find yourself dating someone who “doesn’t check the box” for a personal principle of yours, where’s the line between making healthy compromises for the...

Would it be of concern if the person you date previously lived with an ex (during the time they dated)? No to us, but yes to our parents apparently 🤔 In today's episode, we chat about the generational difference between our immigrant Asian parents and our viewpoints on living with a significant other prior to marriage. We talk about: why we believe we SHOULD live with a long-term partner befo...

What do girls love but won’t ask for? 🤔 It’s no secret that girls love getting flowers from their S.O. (unless you’re bougie like jam and prefer edible arrangements instead LMAO) but what else?? And why won’t they just ask for them?? In today’s episode, we spill the tea. We even go through each of the love languages and share personal favs of each. You’re welcome boys, we got you in this one :) F...

What are you currently listening to!! First music sesh of the season BABY. For all you fellow music lovers out there, tune in to our monthly ep where we react to each other's recommended song of choice and chat all things music (i.e. The Eras Tour, Jackson Wang concert, are Jennie and Taehyung dating? etc.). As always, drop your music recs in the poll below or send them our way on IG @afterhrh...

You know how everyone talks about "life in your 20's is all about taking risks" or "why you SHOULD take risks?" Well... what if it doesn't work out? Is there such a thing? In today’s episode, we take a lil dive into the raw reality, the good and the ugly, of what it means to take risks. We chat: -How do we each define risks? -Our greatest risk(s) -Is there a right or be...

Welcome back to the first episode of SEASON 4, we missed you!!!!!! This was the longest break we've ever taken so it's good to be back, and hope everyone is just as excited for some new content (and to hear our voices again :')) Warming up the new season with a little catch up of the past 3 months and why we've been *less* social than usual. Let us know what you've been up to,...

surprise!! a short episode of Jam's thoughts! work anxiety is tough and takes time to navigate through; some days are better and some days are worse but it will be fine!! szn 4 coming to you very soon! Follow After Hour Happy Hour! Spotify Podcast: ⁠spoti.fi/32Xcf7Q⁠ Apple Podcast: ⁠apple.co/2KiwOVL⁠ YouTube: ⁠youtube.com/c/AfterHourHappyHour⁠ Instagram: ⁠instagram.com/afterhrhappyhr⁠ Tik Tok:...

How drunk are we going to get? HAPPY LAST EPISODE OF SEASON 3!! 🥂 Really can't believe we've already been doing this for three whole seasons, but here we are :') For today's final episode (no, not like final final), we wanted to drink- i mean- play "Truth or Dab," a drinking game where we tldr: tell the truth/answer the questions or DRINK. A lil fun one for you all, so g...

What are you currently listening to? Happy last music sesh ep of the season! Per usual, we’re bringing you each of our current fav song/artist recs of the month, sharing how we feel about them, and chatting all things music. Tune in for some new k-rnb, pop/rnb, and hip hop recs of the month! Follow After Hour Happy Hour! Spotify Podcast: spoti.fi/32Xcf7Q Apple Podcast: apple.co/2KiwOVL YouTube: yo...

How do you know you’re in love? 🤔 Let’s just say… it’s been so long that we don’t even remember who each other’s “first loves” are L O L. In today’s episode, we thought we’d dive a little deeper into the specifics of ~looooveee~. How do we each define love? When was our first love, and were they really our first “loves?” Is there a difference between loving someone vs being IN LOVE with someone?...

Are friendships different during early vs mid 20's? Now that Jamila has officially turned MID 20s 💀💀 (happy belated bday jam!! 😚), we can talk about friendships then versus now!!!1!!1! In today's episode, we chat all about: making friends during different stages of life, what has changed, do we have more or less, love languages in a friendship, different friend groups, and more. Give us a coupl...

What are you currently listening to? In today’s episode, the trio share their current fav songs/artists (we got a lil mix of edm, pop, and chinese music today : D). They also chat all things music per usual, so tune in for the latest two cents that no one asked for!! Follow After Hour Happy Hour! Spotify Podcast: spoti.fi/32Xcf7Q Apple Podcast: apple.co/2KiwOVL YouTube: youtube.com/c/AfterHourHapp...

Yes or no? In today's episode, we decided to get YOUR majority votes on some debatable topics like: do you believe in soulmates? does the guy have to like the girl more? will cheaters always be cheaters? is your partner your "other half" or "an addition to myself?" Here's how the episode went: we polled these questions on our Instagram story (@afterhrhappyhr), we guessed how the majority of you wo...