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Guy friends or girl friends? 🤔 In today’s episode, we start off by chatting all things guy versus girl friends: which do we have more of, is there a preference, are there certain situations where a guy’s opinion is more valuable (or vice versa), etc. But then we kind of veer off track.. LOL. You know, things like “has a guy friend ever developed feelings for you,” “would you get jealous if your s...

What are commitment issues? Girl… apparently there’s layers upon layers of what “commitment issues” can actually mean, but hey!! good thing you have us to help explain them all!!! :D (questionable on the “help” and “explain” parts but ya know) What starts as a genuinely curious question about “commitment” spirals into eight different tangents, but that’s to be expected 🤷🏻‍♀️. In today’s ep, we c...

What are your thoughts on Single's Inferno Season 2? It's the most wonderful time of the year!! aka Netflix is back with S2 of Korea's hottest dating show where contestants are "stranded" on a deserted island where no ages or occupations can be revealed UNLESS you successfully escape to "paradise" as a couple. In today's spicy episode, the trio chat all about: 🏝 cast favorites and first impression...

How was your 2022? HAPPY NEW YEAR EVERYONE AND THANK YOU FOR RINGING IN ANOTHER NEW YEAR WITH US!!! Hope everyone celebrated a very happy holiday season and is looking forward to this new year ❤️. In today’s episode, the trio have a little “out with the old, in with the new” conversation about how 2022 went and how they think 2023 will go. They chat: 2022 in three words, highs versus down-bad mome...

What is your personality when it comes to love? If the Myers Briggs (MBTI) and the 5 Love Languages tests had a baby, it would be the Nectar Loveprint personality test . Created by Jubilee Media's Nectar and Relationship Scientist, Marisa T. Cohen, the test highlights four key "prints" when it comes to love: communication (are you reflective or active?), partnership (are you an "i" person or a "we...

Are you single, dating, or in a relationship? For the first time in…. ever (???), the trio covers all three stages of the relationship statuses— aka they’re no longer the three single musketeers!!! (That’s progress if you’ve ever seen one 😌). In today’s episode, Jam, Sharon, and Vicky share their current statuses and how it’s been in their respective lanes (it was highkey just getting real-time u...

What is pretty privilege? [noun]: a person who has more opportunities, and becomes more successful in life because of how attractive they are. In today's episode, the trio chat all about the concept of pretty privilege: whether or not they think it exists, pretty privilege in social situations versus professional settings, if they've ever personally experienced it, and all the tea in between. Tune...

What are you currently listening to? Starting December off with the last music sesh of 2022!! Tis the best season of the year aka Spotify Wrapped BABY! In today’s ep, the trio share their favorite songs of the month per usual, PLUS they guess and share each other’s Spotify Wrapped (see if you can guess too 😉), and of course chat about all things music updates. P.S. thank you thank you thank you t...

Is it tough love or a toxic household? How do you know that it’s one and not the other? In today’s episode, the trio chat a lil bit of it all when it comes to family— asian parenting, mom dynamic versus dad dynamic, tough love and toxic behavior, generational trauma, and all the things :) [Disclaimer: as Vicky so beautifully said… we’re just 3 friends having a lil therapy sesh, yes we love and are...

What are you currently listening to? Welcome to the first music sesh of season 3 BABYYYYY. This month's recs from the trio include Chloe, ZAYN, 27Delly (wow no kpop for once?????) Plus, Jam, Sharon, and Vicky talk all things music: Taylor Swift's new album, BTS leaving for the military : ((, Jin's "The Astronaut" music video theory gone wrong, and more. Happy Wednesday and happy listening!  F...

Hot take but... does social media suck? It kinda do be a love/hate relationship sometimes, no? In today's episode, the trio chat about how they feel about social media and how it has changed over the past couple years. What are the good aspects? The bad? Does one app in particular make them love/hate social media even more? What is social media to you? News? Down time? Destroyed-your-attention-spa...

WELCOME TO THE FIRST EPISODE OF SEASON 3 WOOHOOO we missed ya'll and it's so good to be back!! :') hope everyone had a nice lil break and is ready for us to be back in your ears~ starting off the season wiiittttthhh: what are your non-negotiables when it comes to dating? think "deal breakers," but characteristics or things that the person NEEDS to have. for example: "he needs to be at least 5'8",...

WELCOME TO THE FINAL EPISODE OF SEASON 2!!! First off, thank you to each and every one of you who found us three days ago, three months ago, or have been here from the start; we love you 5ever as always :') Today's wrap of up the season will feature a Q&A from yall about: whether or not trios work, conflicts we've had, things we don't like about each other, and more. PLUS, we share some life u...

Are you an S or N in the Myers Briggs personality type? 🤔 Are you someone who relies on your five senses, is more practical, and bases things off of facts or experience (S)? Or are you someone who reads between the lines, is more imaginative, and looks for deeper meaning (N)? In today's episode, the trio chat about all the two types while going through different quizzes (linked below!) that ranks...

Have you read Verity? If you haven't, (1) you really should, (2) like actually, you're genuinely missing out, (3) it's Colleen Hoover bro.. (ok but no really, go read the book and then come back to this ep). Synopsis: Lowen is a struggling writer who is offered the job of a lifetime. Jeremy Crawford, husband of bestselling author Verity Crawford, hires Lowen to complete Verity's remaining series a...

What are your favorites of the month? Wrapping up the last episode of the month with a good ole music sesh/august favs (ft chase atlantic, devita, and youha). This one's exciting cuz the trio also share all things Seventeen concert, Head in the Clouds festival (where they had their first fight??), Camo/JMIN tour, Lauv press conference they were invited to??? and more! (Tune in to the end where we...

Dating friends or dating strangers? In today’s episode, the trio chat all about the concept of dating a friend (starting off as friends and eventually developing feelings) versus dating a stranger (i.e. meeting someone new through Hinge). Both work but also may not work. Both have pros but also have cons. Why? Like what? Is there one that Jam, Sharon, or Vicky prefer? Have they all experienced bot...

How do we feel about dating apps? Tinder, Hinge, Bumble, Coffee Meets Bagel (did we miss any??) we’ve tried them all (not really but sure). The trio have chatted about dating before, but never really about the specifics of dating someone via app versus dating via not. Does it work? Is it sustainable? Preferred? What makes you swipe right/left? All the above. Tune in to all things dating apps, and...

Why are we (actually) single? If you've been a loyal listener for a while, you know it's no secret that the trio is, and has been, single for who knows how long now lolololol (or are they hmmm... 🤔). BUT, Jam, Sharon, and Vicky have yet to share the truth behind why they (for the most part) CHOOSE ish to be single... ish (you'll get it LOL). They reveal red flags about themselves when dating, str...

Is your 20s your defining decade? Well... that's what this podcast's bio says... but how much of that does the trio actually believe? In today's episode, Jam, Sharon, and Vicky chat about the truth behind their 20s: early 20s vs mid 20s vs what they think late 20s will be like, best/worst things about this decade, which stage they prefer, and more. Happy listening! Love, your older (or younger) si...

Are we jealous people? In today’s episode, the trio chat all things jealousy: have we ever been jealous of each other? In friendships? What about relationships? When is jealousy triggered? Is being jealous worse than being envious? If you like attention, does that mean you’re easily jealous? Lots of questions amirite?? Tune in to hear all things spicy (or not)— there’s only one way to find out. Ha...

Does bro code apply the same for girls? “Bros before ho*s” “curls before girls” you know the saying.. but do those same “bro” codes translate to “girl” codes? In today’s ep, the trio go through a list of bro codes (link below) and answer from a girl’s perspective (you’ll get it). Let Jam, Sharon, Vicky know if you agree w their logic. Happy listening! Make sure to subscribe to @AFTER HOUR HAPPY HO...

Cute or creepy? You know how there’s certain things that guys might do that us girls can see as either cute or creepy? Liiike persistent texting, staring (or admiring) at you, PDA, etc. In today’s ep, the trio chat all things cute or creepy aka once again, jam and sharon are in the presence of Vicky’s psychoanalysis and utter disgust for men LMAO jk but not really.. happy listening! Make sure to s...

What are your favorites of the month? Another wednesday, another music sesh 😌 (if you’ve been here a while, you can 10000% match the trio to their artist recs of the week: Sabrina Claudio, pH-1, Suga). Plus, Jam, Sharon, and Vicky share random other favs of the month *ahem Stranger Things S4 Volume 1 <3333333* Happy listening! Make sure to subscribe to @AFTER HOUR HAPPY HOUR for your weekly ch...

What are your irrational fears? (Bonus points if you can correctly match these three fears to us: solitary confinement, balloons, and cruises/open water) In today's ep, the trio chat all about their irrational fears which pretty much just turned in to them sharing all types of fears. Let Jam, Sharon, Vicky know if they missed anything you might be scared of! P.S. this ep was one of those funny-for...