You Can Do Both

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Episode 142: Summer is officially here, and we're giving you a girl chat episode about everything we're most excited about this season. From upcoming trips and weddings to little rituals, wellness habits, bucket list plans, and the simple things making us feel excited for longer days, we're catching up on what's on our summer mood boards. Whether you're looking for your Summer...

Episode 141: We're sooooo back & just in time for hot girl summer. Join us in today's conversation to chat through all the ways we're staying hot this summer. From our fave wellness products to mindsets we're holding to - welcome to season 7!!! ShopMY HERE YouTube HERE

Join us for an overnight staycation in Cape Cod - staying at Wequassett Resort & Golf Club. The perfect overnight trip from Boston, the girls (& the boys) head to Cape Code to enjoy summer kick-off with a little R&R.

Bonus episode: the O’Connor wedding recap is here. We brought you along for every step of Ashley’s planning journey. Now we’re diving into the full Aruba wedding weekend. From the bride’s unfiltered rundown to the must-do details (and what you can absolutely skip), we’re covering it all. If you’re in your bridal era—or right beside someone who is—this one’s for you. 🤍

Episode 140: Between Ashley's wedding, travel chaos, & finally being back to our Boston realities, we’ve been very aware of one thing lately: life feels a  lot  better when past us actually has our back. In today’s Season 6 Finale episode, we’re talking about the small, unsexy habits that make your future life infinitely easier. The truth is, the life you’re living right now is a direct re...

Episode 139: We’re obviously in our wedding eras… and we need HELP. In today’s episode, Ash’s work wife Nicole — Type A, booked & busy, May Gemini, and planner of the most iconic Cape wedding executed in record time — joins us to lay down her rules for every stage of the bridal experience. From engagement parties to bridal showers, bachelorettes to the big day itself, we’re covering the modern...

Episode 138: You know when you find something so good you immediately text your group chat about it? Or force your boyfriend, sister, and coworkers to try it? That’s this episode. Today we’re sharing the products we genuinely cannot live without right now — the things that have earned permanent spots in our routines, our apartments, and our personalities. From wellness staples and beauty ride-or-d...

Episode 137: Happy Galentine’s Month 💌 This year, we’re prioritizing  THE GIRLS  — and in today’s episode, we’re talking about why female friendships deserve way more intention as we get older. From iconic “Fat Sundays” to thoughtfully planned girls’ nights, we’re sharing why you need your GNOs, how female friendships empower every area of your life, and why they need to be nourished. Consider th...

Episode 136: Confidence isn’t about being loud, performative, or pretending you have it all together. It’s quieter than that — and it shows up in how you carry yourself, what you tolerate, and how you move through the world. In today’s episode, we’re talking about confidence as something you  build , not something you perform. We break down how it subtly shapes your career, relationships, friendsh...

Episode 135: We’re talking  habits  — the ones that last, the ones that don’t, and the ones we’ve fully let go of. In today’s episode, we break down how we  actually  build habits in real life: starting small, habit stacking, letting routines ebb and flow, and ditching the all-or-nothing mindset. From what’s currently working for us to the habits we no longer need to track (because they finally st...

Episode 134: In today’s episode, we’re classifying the unhinged wellness trends as a smash or pass. From magnesium foot cream and creatine, to cold plunges, mouth taping, castor oil, red light, and the emotional support jumbo water bottle. We’re getting into our real experiences with the hacks that had us questioning ourselves & the ones we cannot get enough of. Is this an insane amount of wel...

Episode 133: In today’s episode, we’re leaning into a simple but powerful truth:  less is more . Instead of adding more goals, routines, and expectations this year, we’re talking about where doing  less  is actually giving us  more  — more consistency, more peace, and more energy for what matters. We break this down across six areas of our lives: Routines Friendships Wellness Emotional energy Cons...

Episode 132: In the spirit of Ashley being MARRIED, today’s episode is all about dating with intention and what actually to look for when searching for husband material. We talk about the difference between dating with clarity versus pressure — why this isn’t about forcing timelines, ignoring red flags, or “marriage by date three,” but about choosing alignment over adrenaline. We share the green f...

Episode 131: In today’s annual  Anti-New Year’s Resolutions  episode, we’re slowing things down and reflecting before rushing into 2026. We’re sharing our honest take on year-end reflections and how we like to set ourselves up for a new year  without  a laundry list of goals. This episode is meant to inspire your own approach to the year ahead by sharing the themes, intentions, and energy we’re ch...

Episode 130: Today, we’re talking dopamine menus — the quick, everyday hits of joy you can reach for when you need a reset. We’re breaking down how to build your own menu  and  giving you tons of inspiration by sharing what’s currently on ours. We chat through our current hyperfixations, the oddly specific things that instantly lift our mood, and the simple habits that help take the edge off on bu...

Episode 129: Today, we’re giving you our  official  rules for surviving (and actually enjoying!) the holiday season. If the next few weeks feel like a blur of family dynamics, social obligations, alcohol, budgets, outfits, and a calendar that refuses to quit… this one’s for you. We’re sharing the simple habits, mindset shifts, and low-effort rituals that help us make the most of the short but fest...

Episode 128: It’s that time of year again — Our Fourth Annual Holiday Gift Guide is here! And as always, we’re breaking down the gifts we actually use, love, and swear by. From small luxuries to thoughtful gifts, this episode is your one-stop shop for ideas that will actually hit this holiday season. Happy gifting, besties. 🎄💛 LTK: https://www.shopltk.com/explore/You%20Can%20Do%20Both/giftguides...

Episode 127: This week’s episode is a lighthearted, hysterical, and surprisingly real look at all the things we  thought  we’d have figured out by now… but absolutely do not. From the everyday life skills no one warned us about, to things that we should absolutely know by now, we’re breaking down the gaps, the growth, and the shared chaos of being 27 and still learning as we go. It’s honest, it’s...

Episode 126: We’re leaning into  the era of gratitude.  As the holiday season ramps up and life gets busier, we’re taking a moment to slow down, be present, and actually appreciate what’s around us. Gratitude isn’t just about journaling every morning or forcing positivity - it’s about the small, intentional moments that shift your mindset and help you feel a little more grounded every day. We’re s...

Episode 125: Soft Girl Fall was fun, but we’re entering Hard-Core Winter. In this episode, we’re talking about the shift — what it means to tighten routines, level up habits, and get serious about our goals while still keeping things balanced and fun. Think of this as your seasonal reset to end the year strong (without burning out). We partnered with Cozy Earth to bring you this episode. And thank...

Episode 124: With a new month comes a fresh start — and this episode is all about using it to reset, reflect, and realign. We’re sharing our monthly rituals for looking back on what worked (and what didn’t), setting intentions that feel inspiring, and building habits that help us thrive in both life and work. Tune in for the perfect dose of motivation to start your month grounded and refreshed.

Episode 123: You know those “unspoken rules” — the things you just  do  without ever really talking about them? Every relationship has them, and today, we’re spilling ours. From the pink jobs and blue jobs that keep things running smoothly, we’re breaking down what really works for us. It’s a fun, girl-chatty conversation about partnership, communication, and the little things that make our relati...

Episode 122: T-minus 5 months until Ash says “I do,” and 11 months until it’s Court’s turn! In this week’s Wedding Episode, we’re catching up on all things planning — from the progress Ash has made (and her big destination wedding reveal!) to everything Court still has left to figure out. We’re chatting wedding planners, budgets, decision fatigue, and all the behind-the-scenes moments that come wi...

Episode 121: We're back!!! And we're kicking off Season 6 with a verrry YCDB episode. For us,  doing both  looks like balancing full-time jobs, running this podcast, planning weddings, managing side-hustles, and living our healthiest lives. In this episode, we break down the five rules that keep us grounded while navigating the chaos of life. From staying consistent without burning out, to...