X & Y On The Fly - Dating Podcast | Love | Sex | Relationships

Okay, who really should be calling the shots when it comes to relationship management? The man? How about the woman? Emily and Scot define what 'wearing the pants' really means, offer some real-world ideas on how to take male/female power struggles off the table forever, and even hear opinions from a couple women on the street. Will you agree, disagree or somewhere in between? Either way, get read...

It has been said that this podcast has something for everyone, and this episode pretty much proves it. What are the disadvantages of dating when you are younger compared to when you are older? And how about the distinct dating advantages of being older? And while on the subject, what can younger people learn from the experiences of older daters, and how can people who find themselves single into t...

OK, get your "decoder rings" on. Emily and Scot are feelin' decidedly frisky after almost two months without an XYotF show, and ready to help you figure out what on Earth MOTOS (Members Of The Opposite Sex) mean by what they say, and what to say to them in return. Seriously, do you find yourself at a total loss for words when it comes to relating to the other gender? Your tongue-tied troubles are...

Special guest Renee Piane (www.deservewhatyouwant.com/renee). It happens to the best of us. You meet someone (or not even?) and you fall for him or her...hard. Usually, however, unless the person we're talking about here is 'The One', the relationship is going to end. What if your feelings were extraordinary powerful for this person and you were hoping it would last forever? How can you fall OUT o...

Are you kidding me? Do Emily and Scot really think they can solve 'world peace' in a single podcast? Actually, understanding MOTOS (Members Of The Opposite Sex) might not be as enigmatic as we make it out to be, let alone 'impossible'. Listen in to this episode for all the secrets--it's a show that you just don't want to miss. AND...be sure to get in on the newsletter when you log-in at: http://ww...

Emily and Scot are back with another mano-a-mano discussion on a truly controversial topic. So which gender has the more difficult time when it comes to dating? Listen in as Scot gets some outside opinions on the matter to start out with. From there, prepare to be surprised and challenged by what you hear, because as usual nothing is left on the table and no stone is left unturned. Do we finally g...

Special Guest Sean Stephenson (www.timetostand.com). You look around you and see couples who can't seem to get along. Then you wonder how they ever got together, let alone stay together. In this episode Scot and Emily define what settling is all about and provide real solutions for helping you stay out of that trap...forever. Never, ever settle...ever again! === HELP US SEND THE MESSAGE === The co...

Special Guest David Wygant (www.deservewhatyouwant.com/wygant). Why is it so many people can't stay attracted to someone who used to seem so hot to them? And how can you prevent this from happening? Scot and Emily have heard one too many stories from listeners who have managed to somehow extinguish the flame after a relationship starts. Worse...it's often the case that they can't exactly pinpoint...

Special Guests Jon and Laurie Weiss (www.deservewhatyouwant.com/happy). We all know that men and women are supposed to be 'happy' together. But what does that ? Emily and Scot look at the big picture, welcoming some gold-plated advice from a pair of guests who happen to have nearly fifty years' worth of experience at both relationship coaching AND relationship happiness. Don't miss this chance to...

Special Guest Marie Forleo (www.deservewhatyouwant.com/marie). There's a lot of talk about how to create attraction. But what is there to remember about maintaining that attraction once you actually HAVE someone in your life? Discover the hidden mistakes that all too many people make and find out what it takes to keep the fire burning for a LONG time to come. === HELP US SEND THE MESSAGE === The c...

Finally...something the 'perfectly imperfect' co-hosts don't exactly agree on. Emily thinks that men should give women LOTS of flowers, early and often in a relationship. Scot, while not exactly against giving women flowers altogether, has a completely different outlook on the subject. No guests or 'man-on-the-street' interviews in this episode, just the two hosts mano-a-mano. Tune in for somethin...

At long last--and after a considerable number of requests from listeners--this is the 'introcast' episode. Recorded nearly a year after Episode 1 was first published in June of 2006, Emily and Scot introduce themselves, share some of their background, recount how they met, describe what makes their relationship great and--of course--tell all about X & Y Communications. If you are a new listener, t...

Dating and relationship advice has gone through significant changes over the last 20 years. Some of it has been good and necessary evolution, some of it downright detrimental and counter-productive. As X & Y Communications marks its 20th anniversary, we look back on the good, the bad and the ugly out there over the years since we opened our doors. First of all, what was up with men having an entir...