What's A Good Guy?

Welcome to another thought-provoking episode of What's A Good Guy? Today, we dive deep into the concept of "settling down" and explore what it truly means in today's dynamic world. Whether you're contemplating a committed relationship, seeking stability in your career, or finding a place to call home, this episode is packed with insights, reflections, and advice to help you navigate this pivotal p...

In this thought-provoking episode titled "Idea of You," we delve into the complexities of dating someone whose interests are piqued by the idea of you, rather than your true self. Have you ever felt like your partner is more in love with the idea of who you are than the real you? How do you navigate the expectations and perceptions that come with such relationships? Join us as we explore: - The dy...

In this candid and insightful episode, we explore a sensitive but important aspect of relationships: dealing with moments when you're not the proudest of your significant other. Whether it's an awkward social situation, an embarrassing comment, or a moment of unexpected behavior, we all face times when our partners might make us cringe. Join us as we delve into: - Understanding the reasons behind...

In this thought-provoking episode, we dive deep into the complex and evolving role of men as providers in modern relationships. Our co-host Quanny kicks off the conversation by sharing his personal perspective: seeing a woman motivates him to make more money. But is this traditional view of providing still relevant today? Join us as we challenge and explore these age-old notions. We discuss: The p...

Feeling overwhelmed, exhausted, or detached? You might be experiencing burnout. In this video, we dive deep into the critical signs of burnout and how to recognize them before it's too late. - What burnout is and how it differs from regular stress. - The top 10 warning signs of burnout that you shouldn't ignore. - Practical tips and strategies to address and prevent burnout. - Personal stories and...

Welcome to our latest episode, where we dive deep into the heart of romantic relationships and the powerful concept of reciprocity. In this video, we explore how to identify if your partner is "the one," ways to show your partner that they are truly special, and understanding how you want to be loved. Topics Discussed: 1. Is Your Partner the One? - Signs and signals that indicate your partner migh...

Welcome to our latest podcast episode where we delve into the transformative power of being taught by your partner. In this episode, we explore the essential elements of being coachable, the art of receiving constructive criticism, and the importance of putting our egos aside. We also touch on the humbling experience of getting a taste of our own medicine and how it can lead to personal and relati...

In this heartfelt video, we delve into the profound realization of life's fragility and how it impacts our faith and daily living. This week has been particularly challenging, as we grappled with multiple losses, deeply feeling the transient nature of existence. Topics Discussed: 1. The Fragility of Life: We share personal experiences and reflections on witnessing the impermanence of life, emphasi...

In episode 269 of "What's a Good Guy," the conversation delves deep into the universal experience of feeling discouraged about life. The host candidly explores the profound question, "is it worth it?" as it pertains to the everyday grind of work, the responsibilities of bills, and the perpetual search for the meaning of life. The raw and honest discussion with the guys uncovers the existential pon...

In this raw and unfiltered episode, we delve into the sacrifices that love often demands. We candidly explore the things we may lose or give up in pursuit of love, and the unexpected turns that love can take. Lashawn's touching personal story sheds light on the complexities of falling for someone unexpected, and we provide honest and heartfelt answers to an 'Ask a Good Guy' question from a listene...

We challenged our listeners to consider how they would have raised their younger selves with the knowledge and wisdom they have now. Each of us reflected on the differences we would have made compared to our own upbringing and explored what nurtures our inner child. We shared valuable insights into self-discovery and understanding our individual needs. Plus, we dived into an 'Ask a Good Guy' quest...

In episode, we delve into the complex dynamics of friendships, discussing the role of support and honesty. Kojo's questions prompt a candid exploration of whether friends should be the target audience for our endeavors, and the reciprocal support we owe to our friends. From ethical dilemmas to considerations of personal growth, we open up about the nuances of friendship dynamics and the delicate b...

In this episode, we dive into the complex emotions and challenges surrounding the 'out of sight, out of mind' concept in the aftermath of a breakup. We candidly discuss the struggles of trying to keep someone out of your thoughts after a relationship ends, including navigating feelings when seeing an ex move on, the difficulties of dating while still processing a breakup, and other related experie...

In this thought-provoking episode, we delve into the complexities of interracial relationships, specifically focusing on the topic of black men dating white women. We explore various theories and perspectives on this trend, openly discussing our own views on the matter and asking candid questions about the role of race in romantic relationships. Join us as we consider the question: Is love truly c...

In this episode, we delve into the complex thought process of considering parenthood. We candidly discuss the myriad of considerations that arise when contemplating starting a family, from personal reasons and the support of the community to navigating relationships with women who have children and addressing health complications. We openly explore the range of emotions and practicalities that com...

Tune in to our latest episode as we unpack the societal pressure on men to equate their value solely with financial success. Lashawn recounts a profound conversation with a customer during a recent flight, sharing valuable life advice that transcends monetary wealth. We delve into the intangible qualities that define manhood, challenging the narrow definition often tied to financial status. Join u...

Join us in this eye-opening episode as Lashawn notices something amiss with Don and initiates a conversation about the masks we wear in various aspects of our lives. We candidly explore the masks we choose to don in the workplace, around friends, certain social settings, and within our relationships. Delving into generational patterns, we reflect on the masks our parents may have worn, and the imp...

Join us in this introspective episode as we explore the complexities of healthy boundaries. We take a deep dive into a list of unhealthy boundaries while examining the healthier alternatives. Together, we candidly reflect on the unhealthy boundaries we've participated in, our initial perceptions of their healthiness, and our plans to incorporate healthier boundaries in our interactions with both o...

Lashawn and Don delve into the profound journey of codependency recovery. Lashawn bravely shares his realization of potential codependency patterns and his therapeutic journey using Coda. ORG's recovery patterns. Together, they explore and discuss the resonating recovery patterns, and in a moment of vulnerability, Lashawn asks Don to share the pattern he relates to the most. This thought-provoking...

Join us in a deep dive into the desires of men. In this enlightening episode, we leave behind generic descriptions and explore in depth what we, as men, truly want for ourselves and in a partner. From aspirations for personal growth to the qualities sought in a significant other, we candidly unravel the layers of our desires and what we hope to offer in return. Get ready for an honest and introspe...

Join us in this thought-provoking episode as we delve into the power of finding the bright side, even in the face of adversity. We explore the transformative journey of showing up for ourselves, the significance of seeking positivity in difficult times, and the challenges of embracing optimism. Discover the profound impact of finding the silver linings as we share personal insights and reflections...

Don and Lashawn dive deep into the dynamics of seeking approval within relationships. They explore the complexities of external validations, the significance of supporting our friends' relationships, and the delicate balance between sharing the good and the challenging aspects of our partners with others. Join the conversation as they unpack the nuances of determining our best man, and candidly sh...

Join Don P and Lashawn as they fearlessly tackle the challenges of having tough conversations. In this candid episode, they explore the intricacies of navigating difficult dialogues – from the struggle of initiating these conversations to the delicate balance of being assertive yet empathetic. The duo engages in insightful discussions about the significance of these tough talks, shedding light on...

Join Don and Lashawn in a candid and introspective dialogue as they explore the profound journey of self-improvement and personal growth. In this thought-provoking episode, the duo draws from their experiences with therapy, delving into the lessons learned and the ongoing pursuit of becoming better men. From discussing aspects they wish to change within themselves to the commitment of putting in t...