What's A Good Guy?

oin Don and Lashawn in a raw and insightful conversation as they revisit the roots of their podcasting journey. In this debut episode since 2021, the duo candidly explores the intricacies of revisiting old relationships and delves into the uncharted territory of the pros and cons of dating one's ex. As they open up about the challenges one may face, their authentic and thought-provoking exchange s...

Since February 13, 2017, we've dropped an episode highlighting the life, the highs, the lows. We laughed, we cried, we debated, and we asked an important question "WhatsAGoodGuy?" That question turned into a 252-week podcast that some of you listened to every week, and for that, we say thank you! Episode 252 will be our last episode of 2021, and for some time as we both embark on new chapters of o...

We've seen the raise and fall of all our favorites. The thought of reaching your peak before your breakthrough birth this episode where we discuss the fall off of what's a good guy. The guys ask each other a series of questions in regards to falling off. This episode was recorded on November 11th 2021. Don P Twitter & Instagram: @donpeezly Lashawn Twitter & Instagram: @stayfocusla Music By: @preac...

This week's episode we dive into how using our resources got us much further in life. "It's not what you know it's who you know." True story. We discuss tapping into your resource, creating a resource, giving away your resources and being selfish with your resources. This episode was recorded November 10th 2021. Don P Twitter & Instagram: @donpeezly Lashawn Twitter & Instagram: @stayfocusla Music...

A burden is a heavy load that's tough to carry around. So how come when someone asks you what's wrong, you still choose to carry it? Today we talk about our burdens, the ones we used to carry, the ones we help carry and the reason why we don't carry them anymore. This episode was recorded on October 20th 2021. Don P Twitter & Instagram: @donpeezly Lashawn Twitter & Instagram: @stayfocusla Music By...

How often do you hear from a man, "I was wrong." In today's episode, we discussed with our guest Creative Gold our difficulties saying "we were wrong," our pride and ego, harboring our emotions, dealing with trauma, and going to therapy. This episode was recorded on November 11th 2021. Don P Twitter & Instagram: @donpeezly Lashawn Twitter & Instagram: @stayfocusla Music By: @preachgold Art Directi...

In a world where cancel culture is so prominent, how can someone redeem themselves for their mistakes? Redemption seems harder than ever because they're so many people seeing and hearing about your mistakes. Can you redeem yourself without someone's forgiveness, can you go back to doing what you love? What's life can redemption? This episode was recorded on November 9th 2021.  Don P Twitter & Inst...

⚠️ Trigger Warning ⚠️  In today's episode, we discuss the mistreatment of men against women in all shapes and forms. Due to the seriousness and intensity of today's episode, we advise that this conversation may cause an emotional trigger. Today we have our in-house RIAA gold plaque graphic designer, brother, and friend of the show Kojo joining us to have an on mic and camera conversation on how we...

"May your next move be your best move." Just like a game a chess your decision making can lead to your victory or demise. Today we discuss our reactions and how they can alter our universe. We dive in to how we chose to do things when we were younger verses how we do things now. How we react when our buttons are pushed, choosing the high road and influencing the younger generation. This episode wa...

"There's no I in team but a ME in that motherfucker." - Kobe Bryant. Today's episode we discuss the role that you play on your team, in the people you love life and what role do people play for you. How do you handle a role that may not always get the recognition? What sacrifices are you making for the greater good? We get into it all. This episode was recorded September 24th 2021. Website: WhatsA...

The starting point doesn't always determine how and when you get to the finish line but it can help. Today we talk about the advantages of where you start, feeling guilty for having a better start than others, jealously, envy and the judgement that comes with it and where you meet someone in their life. This episode was recorded on September 23rd 2021. Website: WhatsAGoodGuy. Com Twitter: @whatsag...

"Better safe than sorry." something I always heard growing up. If you do this right way, good things will happen to you, so they said, well, I'm here to tell you things happen that are out of your control no matter how good you are to someone or something. Playing it safe doesn't always mean you'll be protected, and today we share how our safety put certain things in danger. This episode was recor...

We, as black men, have an interesting way of communicating how we are doing. It's not a straight answer, but if you read between the lines, you might have an idea, for example, Don: How are you doing, bro? Lashawn: I'm just taking it one day at a time. The saying "taking one day at a time" is what we discuss today. Preparing for the future starts with what happens today, right? Ok well we try to f...

The third installment of LET ME TELL YOU ABOUT MY TRIP! Both of our guys are fresh from vacation Don went to St Lucia to celebrate his lady's birthday and Lashawn went to Colombia and Italy! They both shared their experiences traveling with Covid restrictions, experiencing different cultures and what they learned while on vacation. Lashawn gush over his trip to Italy so much that he's applying for...

Continuing from our last episode, "the right woman," Don wanted to discuss a compromise. Something as small as "what should we eat?" to as big as "did my woman settle for me?" We share our old insecurities regarding dating a woman that we feel is above our standards, what compromises we made, and the difference between compromising and settling. This episode was recorded on August 4th, 2021. To st...

Let me ask you an honest question, is the woman you're with right now the one, or are you with her until the right one comes? You don't have to answer that question to us but ask yourself that. Today we discuss finding the right woman. What are some intangibles we look for, learning how to forgive, stepping up to the plate. Don is the most transparent he has ever been as he allows us into his rela...

What do you love? Who do you love? Do you love it unconditionally? Unconditional love is known as affection without any limitations, or love without conditions. This term is sometimes associated with other terms such as true altruism or complete love. Well today we discuss if "unconditional love" is real. We talk about our conditions that applies to our parents, friends and significant others. Thi...

Can someone explain the "it's not business, it's personal" saying? We've been going through the motions of being people in business, and now we're faced with separating the business and personal. Some of our business clients are our personal friends, though, so we speak on creating boundaries, losing friends because of the business, and losing business because of the friendship. This episode was r...

In the world of the perfect, it can make one feel small. Lashawn speaks on the feeling of not feeling good enough and the discouragement that plays in his head. We raise the question of "how important is the final product?" Having to be the best all the time and being your own critic. This episode was recorded on July 20th, 2021. To stay updated with us follow us on social media Website: WhatsAGoo...

A little birdie told Lashawn he was called a narcissist, which led to Lashawn asking Don if he feels that was true about it. The guys look up the definition of Narcissist seeing if they both fit the description. Highlighting if they have narcissist ways and addressing social media doctors. This episode was recorded on August 3rd 2021. Time Stamp Definition of Narcissist 5:11 People Defining You 9:...

Happy Birthday to Lashawn and Meelz. Their birthday is August 18th. Lashawn speaks on his new mindset, his new goals and staying focused on all the tasks at hand. Don reflects on his personal journey, what he learned from Meelz and Lashawn and would his younger self actually listen to his older self. This episode was recorded on August 10th 2021. Time Stamps Lashawn's goals for 30: 3:21 Learning f...

We hope we didn't scare everyone! But we're back! It's been 47 days since Don and Lashawn last saw each other and recorded an episode. With Don moving to Atlanta and Lashawn working in different cities, they decided on keeping the show together. Don speaks on adjusting to leaving the nest, getting acclimated, and networking. While Lashawn vaguely says on what he's been working on, his social media...

BONUS EPISODE  As promised here's the secret episode where Lashawn tried to figure out if Don's heart is still in podcasting and wants to continue the show. With Don moving to Atlanta, Lashawn is unsure what's next for WhatsAGoodGuy. This episode was recorded in April of 2021.  To stay updated with us follow us on social media Website: WhatsAGoodGuy. Com Twitter: @whatsagoodguy Instagram: @whatsag...

Wow, for 230 weeks straight, you guys have supported us through thick and thin. We went on an audio and visual journey where she shared our highs and lows! As Don prepares to transition into a new stage in his life, moving to Atlanta and Lashawn pursues new business ventures, they come together one last time to reflect on how WhatsAGoodGuy started, what they learned about themselves, and each othe...

Hate is a strong word. "I hate cheaters," "I hate corporate America," "I hate this," "I hate that," but what happens when you're in those same positions of hate? Today we put ourselves in the opposing shoe of the things we hate. Morally it sounds good to hate these things, but how would you know how much you genuinely hate it unless you're in those shoes? This episode was recorded on June 3rd, 202...