Wet Dreamz

About the Hosts: Dr. Brad Hinman and Jose Gonzalez are the hosts of the Wet Dreams Podcast. Brad Hinman is a distinguished mental health therapist, sex therapist, and marriage and family therapist, while Jose Gonzalez is a seasoned mental health counselor and sex therapist. They both bring extensive experience to the podcast, creating an insightful platform where they engage in critical discussion...

ABOUT THE HOSTS: Brad Hinman is a licensed professional counselor and a licensed marriage and family therapist with significant expertise in sex therapy. Passionate about fostering healthy relationships and effective communication, Dr. Hinman brings a rich background in mental health counseling to the show, offering insights into relationship dynamics, boundaries, and control. Jose Gonzalez is an...

ABOUT THE HOSTS: Brad Hinman and Jose Gonzalez are both established mental health professionals with specializations in sex therapy. Dr. Brad Hinman is a licensed marriage and family therapist known for his depth of knowledge regarding sexual health and interpersonal dynamics. Jose Gonzalez, a mental health counselor and sex therapist, brings his expertise to issues of emotional well-being and int...

About the Hosts: In this episode of the Wet Dreams podcast, co-hosts Jose Gonzalez and Dr. Brad Hinman delve into the intriguing and sometimes controversial concept of the "High Value Man." Jose Gonzalez is a highly regarded sex therapist and mental health counselor known for his insightful perspectives on human relationships and personal growth. Likewise, Dr. Brad Hinman brings a wealth...

About the Hosts: Jose Gonzalez : Jose Gonzalez is a sex therapist and a licensed professional counselor. With significant experience in helping individuals navigate sexual health and relationships, he co-hosts the "Wet Dreams Podcast" where he addresses a variety of topics related to sexual health, trauma, and therapy. Dr. Brad Hinman : Dr. Brad Hinman, a seasoned licensed professional c...

About the Hosts: Brad Hinman and Jose Gonzalez are both experienced mental health counselors and sex therapists. Brad Hinman, also known as Dr. Brad Inman in the podcast, has built a robust career helping individuals navigate the complex interplay between mental health and sexual wellness. Jose Gonzalez, the host of the Wet Dreams Podcast, brings a wealth of knowledge from his background as a ment...

In this insightful episode of the Wet Dreams podcast, hosts Jose Gonzalez and Dr. Brad Hinman delve into real-life Reddit stories revolving around relationships, sex, and mental health. Equipped with the expertise of seasoned sex therapists, they navigate complex emotions, offering professional perspectives on each scenario. From handling sexual desire misalignments in relationships to the awkward...

In this episode of the Wet Dreamz Podcast, we dive into STEP 5 of their eight step recovery model for men struggling with out-of-control sexual behaviors, such as porn use and sex addiction. Titled " Disassembling ," this step focuses on breaking down the underlying patterns and coping mechanisms driving these behaviors. The conversation explores how unresolved trauma—whether big or small ("big T"...

In this episode of the Wet Dreamz Podcast, we dive deep into the impact of the "silent father" archetype on men’s emotional and sexual health. We reflect on how having an emotionally distant or stoic father often shapes sons’ ability to understand and express their feelings, and we share some of our own experiences as well as what we’ve seen in our clients. We talk about the ways this dynamic can...

In this episode of the Wet Dreamz Podcast, host Jose Gonzalez and guest Dr. Brad Hinman dive into Step 4 of their eight-step recovery model : defining the real problem behind compulsive sexual behaviors like porn use. They emphasize that while porn might seem like the core issue, it’s actually a symptom of deeper emotional needs—such as a lack of affirmation, respect, or validation—that aren’t bei...

In this episode of the Wet Dreamz Podcast, host Jose Gonzalez and guest Dr. Brad Hinman break down what to expect during your first visit to a sex therapist. They discuss common anxieties and misconceptions—like embarrassment, fear of judgment, or not knowing what sex therapists actually do—and reassure listeners that sex therapy is professional, confidential, and supportive. The conversation cove...

In this episode of the Wet Dreamz Podcast, Jose and Brad get real about divorce—how messy, confusing, and emotionally tough it can be, especially for guys. They talk about everything from couples using divorce as a threat, to the weird “should we/shouldn’t we?” dynamic around sex during and after splitting up. The hosts dive into how divorce can seriously mess with a guy's sexual confidence, self-...

In this episode of the Wet Dreamz Podcast, host Jose Gonzalez and guest Dr. Brad Hinman dive into the topic of men experiencing lower libido than their partners—an issue they note is more common than people might think. They discuss the emotional challenges men face, such as feelings of shame, fear of rejection, and worries about not living up to societal expectations regarding masculinity and sex...

In this episode of the Wet Dreamz Podcast, host Jose Gonzalez and guest Dr. Brad Hinman discuss STEP 3 of their eight-step recovery model for addressing out-of-control sexual behavior—"Progression." Building on previous steps (creating distance from the behavior and examining sexual history), they dive into understanding the ups and downs of sexual behavior over time. They explore why it's crucial...

In this insightful episode of the Wet Dreams Podcast, hosts Jose Gonzalez and Dr. Brad Hinman delve into the widespread issue of erectile dysfunction (ED), exploring its causes, effects, and potential solutions. The discussion highlights how ED is increasingly becoming a concern for younger men, not just older demographics. By examining both biological and psychological aspects, the hosts aim to s...

In this episode of the Wet Dreamz Podcast, we talk openly about what dads really go through during pregnancy and those early months of fatherhood. We shared our personal stories, highlighting the excitement, anxiety, and even feelings of being left out that often come with the territory. We discussed how easy it is for men to ignore their own emotions while focusing on providing for their family—s...

Join us as we delve into the world of sex therapy, sharing our personal journeys and insights. Learn how our specialized training enhances therapy sessions by incorporating discussions about complex sexual issues. Discover the dynamics of sex therapy compared to conventional therapy, and explore the challenges and rewards we face as therapists. This episode offers an informative look into our prof...

In Episode 23 of the Wet Dreamz Podcast we continue our series on addressing problematic sexual behaviors and pornography recovery with STEP 2 of our model. This episode focuses on exploring sexual history as a crucial step in treatment. We discuss the importance of understanding a person's sexual past, including porn use, sexual experiences, and relationships, to identify patterns and themes....

In this engaging episode of the Wet Dreams podcast, Dr. Brad Hinman and Jose Gonzalez introduce STEP 1 of an innovative eight-step model designed to assist in overcoming pornography and sex addiction. We discuss the importance of creating distance from addictive behaviors as a crucial initial step and explore this approach in depth. We provide useful insights into the world of sex addiction therap...

Join hosts Jose Gonzalez and Dr. Brad Hinman as they dive into the complexities of pornography and its impact on relationships in this engaging episode of the Wet Dreams podcast. They explore diverse definitions, cultural perceptions, and the psychological nuances of porn consumption, drawing insights from interviews with college students. Discussing the interplay of pornography with loneliness, s...

In Episode 21 of the Wet Dreamz Podcast, we discuss the importance of talking to children about sex and pornography from a young age, focusing on kids between the ages of 1 to 10. We emphasize starting these conversations by age four, as children are likely to be exposed to related content early, often at school or through peers. The episode underlines the importance of having age-appropriate, ong...

In this enlightening episode of the Wet Dreamz Podcast, hosts Jose Gonzalez and Brad Hinman delve into the intricate world of sexting, exploring its potential risks and benefits. They unravel the complexities surrounding this modern form of communication, particularly focusing on how sexting can impact both minors and adults. The hosts share insightful anecdotes from their professional experiences...

Join sex therapists Jose Gonzalez and Brad Hinman as they dissect the portrayal of therapy and relationships in the TV show "Private Practice". This episode delves into the fictional portrayal of therapists' boundaries, client choices, and the complexities of sex and relationships. The hosts offer insights on handling sensitive topics like marriage woes, sexual dysfunctions, and more...

In Episode 16 of the "Wet Dreamz Podcast," hosts Jose Gonzalez and Brad Hinman explore the complexities of relationships during pregnancy from the male perspective. They emphasize the importance of communication and intentional relationship nurturing throughout the pregnancy journey, cautioning against complacency during more stable periods like the second trimester. The episode highligh...

In this episode of the Wet Dreamz Podcast, hosts Jose Gonzalez and Dr. Brad Hinman react to street interviews about why people watch porn, uncovering various reasons such as trauma, disconnection, and unmet personal needs. They explore how social media can serve as a gateway to porn and discuss the chemical stimulation that makes it addictive. Brad addresses common misconceptions, highlighting tha...