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Alyx Weiss (YouTube @ayydubs) gives us some age gap loving lessons on this very steamy episodes. We talk hot moms, our celebrity crushes when we were kids, but also ostriches. Ashley gets f*cked in her sleep. Gara attends a King Princess concert. Alyx can be found on all platforms @ayydubs, besides tiktok where she is @alyxweiss Newsletter & Live Events: bit.ly/WHGSPodcast @ashgavs on ig and twitt...

Ellie Desautels (NBC's Rise, Disclosure) gives us the deets about they meet their partner on Tumblr, asexuality and non-genital sex. We also dive deep into the merits of regular back rubs and soft tickling from your significant other. Ashley is the girl in a girl on top 69. Gara dates a very, very bad boy.  Ellie can be found everywhere @ohyouknowellie (check out their IG and TikTok) Newsletter &...

Chrissy Chlapecka (@chrissychlapecka on TikTok and IG, @chrissyschlapp on twitter) reflects on her very gay days of denial, what it means to be a bimbo, and does some very sexy ASMR. Ashley gets fingered on a beach. Gara has a sex competition.  Newsletter & Live Events: bit.ly/WHGSPodcast @ashgavs on ig and twitter. @ashgavscomedy on tiktok. @garararararara on ig. @garalonning on tiktok. Learn mor...

Sammie Cimarelli (The Circle on Netflix) does not take shit from anyone, especially when it comes to bi-phobia, coming out, and poultry. We talk boundary setting, and realizing you're in love at Wawa. Ashley has an epically long not-love story. Gara is shark boy.  Sammie can be found on instagram @sammiee and everywhere else @itsssammie.  Newsletter & Live Events: bit.ly/WHGSPodcast @ashgavs on ig...

This week Violet Benson (Too Tired To Be Crazy podcast, Daddy Issues on IG) schools us on zodiac signs, rebounding, and general self awareness. We get into how she discovered she was pan, hooking up with Francesca, and whether her gay friend has a crush on her. Ashley has a run in with "2 cats equals 1 kid". Gara is in a dry spell.  Violet can be found on instagram @violetbenson and their meme acc...

Remy Kassimir (Netflix, How Cum podcast) is BACK and they are GONNA CRY. No seriously we get to some really deep shit on this episode, and we are so honored that Remy came back. Ashley shares her epic break up story. Gara needs plan b.  Remy can be found on instagram and twitter at @RemyKassimir. Their podcast is called How Cum.  Newsletter & Live Events: bit.ly/WHGSPodcast @ashgavs on ig and twit...

Kevin McHale (Glee & The Office), if you are reading this, honestly, why did you do our podcast? We didn't deserve you. Kevin shares discovering fanfic about himself and his co-stars on Glee, getting feelings for someone during his open relationship, and coming out via AIM. Ashley recalls the last time she tried to hook up with a man (gross). Gara comes out as non-binary at Pride.  Kevin can be fo...

Shea Diamond (Spotify "I am Her", "American Pie", "I am America", "Good Pressure")  blesses us by breaking into song on this episode. Shea recounts her tale of running away from home so that she could come out of the closet. But don't worry, it gets better, and the happy ending includes Sam Smith and The Buttigieg family. Ashley gets an angry email from her aunt after a TikTok goes viral. Gara is...

Francesca Farago (Netflix Too Hot To Handle, Farago The Label) made our dreams come true on the podcast this week. We talk about her budding love story with her new girlfriend Demi Sims (Towie), hooking up with girls while dating Harry Jowsey, and feeling like her whole self after coming out. Ashley may or may not have fingered in a car which is something no one should ever do and she probably did...

This episode we do a deep dive w/ actual radio royalty Taylor Strecker! We cover her entire coming out process from divorcing her husband, wondering if she was asexual (and might still be a little), to meeting her fiancé and coming out to her parents. If you are worried about your labels, defining your sexuality, or feeling generally confused, this is a GREAT episode for you.  Taylor is @taylorstr...

It's our kinkiest episode yet with Mr. Kristofer and Pup Amp  from "Watts The Safe Word" podcast! We talk about puppy play, polyamory, butt plugs, and all things daddy. Ashley gets called daddy for the first time. Gara calls someone daddy for the first time. Watch their podcast Watt's The Safe Word on YouTube (or listen anywhere) Mr Kristofer can be found @mrkristoferweston on IG and @kristoferwes...

Mila Myles (New York State of Mindfulness podcast) is on the podcast this week and they finally answer your most burning sex questions: What is knuckling? Can everyone squirt? And is sex better on shrooms? Ashley catches a woman she once hooked up with in a lie, and we debate whether and what to text her. Gara bangs in front of the empire state building.  Mila Myles can be found on IG @MilaMiles &...

Georgia Bridgers (YouTube, ok anyway podcast) guests on the pod this week and brings *major* star power and leo energy. We discuss the first time she *did it*, coming out on YouTube, and being bi but losing her gay virginity first. Ashley's ex fights with her new girlfriend. Gara needs chapstick. Georgia Bridgers can be found on IG and Twitter @georgiabridgers, Georgia Bridgers on YouTube, and @ge...

HOLY SH*T DEMI BURNETT IS ON THE PODCAST!!!! On this episode we talk about coming out on national TV (Demi is a Bachelor and Bachelor in Paradise alum) her big top energy and the people who can top her, meatloaf, and that time Ruby Rose slid into her DMs. Ashley thinks she's using lube, but turns out, it was not lube. Gara tries to find agent 0069.  Demi Burnett can be found on IG @demi_not_lovato...

Chris Sapphire (Netflix's The Circle) brings all the energy on this episode and we're here for it. We talk about why hook up life wasn't right for him, being gay *and* spiritual, and loving yourself while single. Ashley has a weird connection with a girl on a cruise. Gara comes out to a gay friend in church at 3 am. Chris Sapphire is a treasure so go check out his work on IG (mrchrissapphire) and...

Lorelei Ramirez (Los Espookys on HBO, and the New York Times) joins us for an incredibly avant garde, poignant episode where we get into codependency and boundaries to keep relationships healthy. Ashley sustains a sexual injury to her jaw. Gara reviews Happiest Season.  Lorelei is not only a comedian but works in many other mediums. Follow their instagram @pileoftears, their twitch show https://ww...

Jared Freid (JTrain Podcast & U Up? Podcast) might be our first ever straight male guest, but his official title is the ambassador of male ass play. We talk toxic masculinity, and the differences between dating queer and dating straight. Ashley takes a finger up her butt. Gara enjoys some morning wood.  Jared is a podcasting king. Follow JTrain and U Up? He's also a BRILLIANT comedian so go follow...

Breanne Williamson (I Can Explain Podcast) is back for a BRE-peat episode and it's even better than the first. Breanne talks about the time she nearly died using ice cubes in bed. Jen (@jenparkerdavis on ig and tiktok) makes a cameo to talk with Ashley about fake orgasms. Gara talks about sex music and what happens when you reach the end of your sex playlist. Breanne has a fabulous YouTube channel...

Queen of all Drag Queens Brooke Lynn Hytes (RuPaul's Drag Race, Drag Race Canada) joins the podcast this week to discuss her love of pimple popping, dislike of anal, her desire to be alone and why traditional relationships don't work for everyone! Ashley gets her butt pinched (and she likes it). Gara does poppers for the first time.  Brooke Lynn can be found @bhytes on ig and @bhytes1 on twitter. ...

Mat George (She Rates Dogs) tells us about how he is faking straight for Love Island casting and going viral twitter. He also discusses how he lost his virginity story and how he was outed. Ashley talks about how she was outed in 9th grade and her girlfriend turned bully. Gara gets high and has sex.  Mat can be found @matchu_chutrain on twitter and ig. His podcast is She Rates Dogs. Newsletter & L...

Alayna Joy (1 billion YouTube followers) not only tells us about her first time giving and receiving oral sex, but it was also her first ever experience as a fully out gay woman. We also cover compulsive heterosexuality and the struggles of being bisexual. Alayna reads Ashley's birthday tarot. Gara hooks up with the cool(er) barista.  Alayna can be found @missfenderr on all platforms, except for Y...

Rayna Greenberg is BACK (Girls Gotta Eat) and she's here to evaluate whether or not Mayor Pete has B.D.E. and tells us about a time she accidentally went on a date with a woman. Ashley may or may not have had sex w/ 3 people in one day (she's worried you'll judge her). Gara goes on another date with KittyKitty44. Girls Gotta Eat podcast is available everywhere (Ashley's on it!). Rayna's IG is @ray...

Carolyn Bergier & Melody Kamali (Dyking Out Podcast) join the podcast to discuss CBD lube, sex on a bunk bed, and hate banging on a Trump supporter's bed. Ashley laments not being able to eat more butt. Gara shares the story of their first date with Jacob.  Dyking Out podcast is available everywhere (Ashley and Gara are both on it!). Their IG is @dykingout and their TikTok is @dykingoutpodcast. Ca...

Medinah Monroe (Cocktales Podcast, Temptation Island, Dipsea) lends us her very sexy voice on this sensual episode. We talk about bringing a dildo into your hetero sex experiences and sexy authority figures. Ashley gets scammed on on a date. Gara's vagina blows up 5 times its size.  Mediah's Podcast is called Cocktales: Dirty Discussions (cocktalespodcast on ig). Medinah can also be found on ig @c...

Cosplay Icon Emery Pan (OnlyFans) curses this episode and gets our soundboard possessed. She discusses growing up in a religious cult and escaping to sexually experiment in a graveyard. Ashley has a confrontation with a cottage core ghost gay / tiktok lesbian. Gara has a 3 way make-out in a barn.  Emery's work can be found everywhere under @emerypan Newsletter & Live Events: bit.ly/WHGSPodcast @as...