Wanzology

If a glass of milk gets spilled on the counter, does re-living how it got spilt over and over again help clean it up?  Doubtful.  The problem of it being spilt is different from the solution of cleaning it up.

Wouldn't it be nice if when you need something from someone, they're actually 'there' to help?  If you don't take care of your friendships, you may not have any you can count on. 

Continuing to talk about hypocrisy and how many use it to divide themselves from the rest of us.

We can sometimes be upset by someone doing the very thing they just criticized that someone ELSE was doing.  It can be maddening trying to understand how and why some people are like that...I had to figure out how to handle their behavior better.  Listen to what I figured out...

My mom told me, "In order to have good friends, first, you have to be a good friend."  After having a conversation with someone who felt so alone, they were seriously considering taking their own life...checkin' out.  That encounter turned into a great song and a story with a happy ending.

Because we're human, sometimes we believe that challenges or problems must have a complex solution. Not so!!! Most times, the simplest solution is the best solution...especially if make the challenge or problem simple.  K.I.S.S. !!! :D

With all the pressures we put ourselves through each day, what would it be like to think of one's self as a lump of coal?  Time and pressure turn coal into a diamond and that diamond is YOU!

Talking to others we should keep in mind that we're talking in ink.  Hard to erase ink... What would happen if we thought before we spoke instead of as we are speaking?

Life is like a puzzle.  It has big, medium and small pieces.  What if the quality of each piece of the puzzle of your life each day were improved?  Are all the pieces of a day there for you?  Are there pieces missing?  Let's explore the concept of making each piece of your life better.

Faith is believing in something not seen or proven.  Courage is faith put into action!  Don't think you can do or be something?  Let's explore...

Have you ever stopped to think of how your life is like stepping stones leading you through each minute, hour or days in your life?  Every decision is another stone in the path of your life...if  you're paying attention.

Ever accidentally gotten 'stuck' talking with someone who feels completely miserable?  Ever felt that way yourself?  Reminder: don't make the same choices they made...

Ever been in that position where you give so much of yourself, but it's not enough for someone else?  Yeah...beware THOSE people, places, things or situations.

Think you can tell the future? Let's just see about that...

It's been said, "And acceptance is the key to all of my problems".  But how do you accept things that go or don't go your way?  Once one realizes that one only controls the effort and not the outcome, is failure your fault?  Is success?  Maybe...

Misery doesn't always love company.  Sometimes, it's happy being all on it's own, bringing you down.  This episode proposes a way out of that hole.

You can drive yourself nuts worrying about what's already passed because once it's passed, you can't really do anything about it.  So what's next?  The next moment? And the one after that? And the one after that?  Each containing the opportunity for you to either be better,  not care,  or be worse. 

How could we really live if we didn't have dreams?  I'll tell you about some who had none as well as how I came to think of the road to our dreams as a garden path.

Whether you fail or succeed, first, you must try (Sorry, Yoda...).  That's why trying is the very thing we should give more focus to in our lives.

My father used to tell me, "Son, there's only two things you have to do, die and make decisions.  I don't recommend the former, so you better get damn good at the latter."  How can we make better decisions?

One can't deny that many things happen to us in life, but how to we handle those things?  Experience may be the best teacher, but do we realize when we're getting experience or just rolling with a situation?  Can an experience 'change us'? Why? Let's see...

There's not much that's worse than having to listen to a 'know-it-all'.  Don't be one of those!!  Lemme tell ya some things about learning...

Never limit what you can do or who you can be.  Remember, you are the only 'you' there is and you can be, say or do anything, if, you can get past the fear.

Until you make peace with yourself, you'll never be at peace.  Most of us compare ourselves to others, never considering we might have 'something' that someone else wished they had.  Then again, some follow the path of Michael Jackson...

Look past tomorrow to see your future. Live in today to become what you see.   What does this mean?  This episode outlines how...remember, you have the power and the privlege.