Vulnerability Is The New Sexy

Black Men and Manhood: Why So Many Feel Like They’re Not Measuring UpWhy do so many Black men feel like they’re not measuring up? Whether it’s struggling to meet societal expectations, feeling inadequate in relationships, or quietly carrying the weight of unspoken traumas—this conversation is long overdue. We’re peeling back the layers, from toxic expectations to the quiet battle with self-worth,...

Today’s episode is dedicated to exploring the real experiences of Black love in therapy. We’ll discuss common issues couples face and hear from our amazing panel of therapists on how they approach these challenges in session. Whether you’re dating, engaged, married, or navigating healing from past relationships, this episode is for you.

This Pride Month, we’re celebrating identity in its fullness. In this episode, we talk about what it means to be Queer, Black, and Whole in a world that often tries to split us apart. From navigating family and faith to finding joy, freedom, and healing—this is a conversation about reclaiming every piece of ourselves without apology. Because being whole doesn’t mean being perfect—it means being re...

Welcome back to Vulnerability is the New Sexy, the space where healing gets real, and therapy meets real life. Every second Tuesday of the month, we bring together an incredible panel of licensed Black therapists to respond to the questions you’ve been sending in—because sometimes, you just need to talk to your therapist. So join us tonight for Vulnerability is the New Sexy.

On today’s episode, we’re taking a deep dive into an often overlooked question in our community: Are we really prepared for emotionally intelligent partners? We’ve all seen the trending conversations and Instagram posts unpacking what it means to be in a relationship with a man who shows up with emotional honesty, clarity, and integrity—but what does that really require from us as individuals and...

Today, we’re diving deep into a conversation that many of us avoid but desperately need—accountability and forgiveness. As Black men, our ability to heal and evolve is directly tied to how well we own our mistakes and release resentment. Without accountability, growth is stunted. Without forgiveness, peace is impossible.

Welcome back to Vulnerability is the New Sexy. I’m your host, Joe Corley — licensed therapist and Black male mental health advocate. Today’s episode is deeply personal. We’re talking about the presence — and absence — of fathers in the Black community, and how that shapes who we are as men, fathers, and partners. We’ll dive into the generational patterns, the healing, and the legacy we’re trying t...

Today’s episode is one we wish we didn’t have to have — but we must. We’re here to honor lives like Kyren Lacy and Keith Miller — Black men whose inner battles became too heavy to carry. We’re not here to speculate. We’re here to listen, feel, and heal — as a community.

Welcome back to Vulnerability Is the New Sexy. I’m your host, Joe Corley, and this week we're diving into a timely and transformative conversation: How do we get beyond the gender wars and start uplifting one another as Black men and women? The narratives online often pit us against each other, but real healing happens when we sit down, listen, and speak with intention. Today, I’m joined by tw...

Welcome back to Vulnerability Is the New Sexy. Tonight, we’re examining the health of today's Black man. We're looking at mind, body, and soul to explore the intersection of physical health, mental health, and the lived experience of Black men. We'll dive into how stress, culture, systemic oppression, and internalized expectations take a toll on our bodies and minds—and what we can do about it. It...

Welcome back to Vulnerability Is the New Sexy. Today, we’re diving into a real conversation that’s been sitting heavy with me. I recently saw a clip of Kool Moe Dee saying something that stuck with me—he called the drug dealer the first sellout in the Black community. Then, I saw another clip of Black celebrities openly praising movements and ideologies that seem to go against our people."&qu...

Welcome back to Vulnerability Is the New Sexy. Today’s conversation is one that’s been a long time coming—How to Make a Black Man Feel Seen. Because let’s be real, in a world that demands so much from us, how often do we feel truly valued beyond what we provide?"I’ve got three brothers with me today—Mike, Walter, and Q—and we’re going to get into what it really means to be seen, why so many B...

Welcome back to Vulnerability Is the New Sexy. Today, we’re diving into a powerful discussion inspired by something the rapper Ma$e said—‘No powerful man has ever achieved greatness without a strong woman by his side.’""For centuries, Black men have been raised with the idea that we have to be strong, independent, and self-sufficient. But what if true greatness isn’t about going at it al...

Welcome back to Vulnerability Is the New Sexy. This is Part 4 of our relationship series, where we’ve been diving deep into what makes relationships thrive. Today, we’re talking about something that can make or break a couple—creating shared meaning and building a future with purpose.""I’m Joe Corley, a licensed therapist, and today’s conversation is all about the importance of aligning...

The Art of Turning Towards: Everyday Bids for ConnectionA Special Episode of "Vulnerability Is The New Sexy"Welcome back to another episode of Vulnerability Is The New Sexy. This is Part 3 of our special four-part series on relationships, and today we’re diving into something that might seem small but actually has the power to make or break relationships—how we respond to each other’s bi...

Welcome back to another episode of Vulnerability Is The New Sexy. This is Part 2 of our special four-part series on relationships. Today, we’re talking about something every couple faces—conflict. But instead of seeing conflict as something that tears relationships apart, what if we learned how to fight in a way that actually brings us closer? Let’s be real—many of us grew up in environments where...

Welcome to Vulnerability Is the New Sexy. I’m your host, Joe Corley, a Black male therapist passionate about creating spaces where we can have real, raw conversations that promote healing and growth. Relationships are one of the most important and sometimes most difficult aspects of our lives, and that’s why for the month of February, I’m bringing you a four-part series all about relationships. My...

Welcome to Vulnerability Is the New Sexy, the podcast where we have real conversations, break down barriers, and explore the strength in vulnerability. I’m Joe Corley—a licensed therapist, mental wellness consultant, and advocate for authentic living. This is a space for Black men to talk about the tough stuff, normalize seeking support, and redefine what it means to be strong and self-aware. Beca...

Welcome to Vulnerability Is the New Sexy, the podcast where we break down barriers, have honest conversations, and embrace the transformative power of vulnerability. Tonight we're talking about a term that's been around for centuries but is now being weaponized in a new, toxic attack against Black Men. "Sassy" is usually a term to describe women, so why is it now being used to emasculate men? Toni...

Welcome to Vulnerability Is the New Sexy, where we normalize vulnerability and celebrate growth in Black men. I’m your host, Joe Corley, and tonight, we’re diving into a timely conversation about Black men and New Year’s resolutions. Now that 2025 is here, we’re reflecting on how goal-setting can shape our mental health, our relationships, and our future. Are resolutions just a ritual, or can they...

Welcome to Vulnerability is the New Sexy, where we create a safe space to explore important topics impacting Black men, our mental health, and our relationships. I’m your host, Joe Corley, and today’s conversation is one that’s often avoided but deeply necessary—porn addiction. I’m joined by a powerful panel of Black male therapists: Dr. Curtis Hill, Karlos Lyons, and Dr. Sekou Fraser. Together, w...

Welcome to Vulnerability is the New Sexy, where we explore the intersection of mental health, relationships, and the power of living authentically. I’m your host, Joe Corley. Today, we’re diving into a topic that’s both personal and deeply nuanced—non-monogamy. With recent headlines featuring Ne-Yo’s candid comments about monogamy not being for him, this conversation feels especially timely. Joini...

Welcome to Vulnerability is the New Sexy! I’m Joe Corley—licensed therapist, mental wellness consultant, and advocate for emotional growth, especially within our Black community. Today, we’re talking about marriage—specifically, the hard work it takes to build and sustain a lifelong partnership. Inspired by Ice Cube’s recent reflections on his 32-year marriage, we’ll explore what it really means t...

Tonight on "Vulnerability is the New Sexy" with Joe Corley The recent allegations of sexual assault against a prominent music mogul have sent shockwaves through the Hip Hop community. Fans are left grappling with uncertainty and confusion about what to believe. And it's not just fans who are affected; charges like these in high-profile celebrity cases can have a profound impact on many Black men,...

Today on "Vulnerability is the New Sexy," therapist Joe Corley closely examines the complex topic of emotional suppression among Black men. Societal expectations and cultural stigmas often prevent these men from seeking help and expressing vulnerability. Research indicates that men face significant challenges related to emotional expression. Studies show that societal norms frequently discourage m...