Vulnerability Is The New Sexy

In this emotionally charged episode of Vulnerability is the New Sexy , we delve into Tyrese Gibson's controversial statement, "I will shoot, stab, and kill over mine," exploring its implications for Black masculinity, fatherhood, and emotional expression. Joined by a panel of insightful guests, we discuss how hurt and unresolved pain can shape our protective instincts, the societal pressures on Bl...

In the much-anticipated return of Vulnerability is the New Sexy , host Joe Corley dives into the powerful topic of Black fatherhood and its portrayal on television. Joined by three remarkable guests—fathers, husbands, and leaders in their fields—they explore how iconic Black TV dads like James Evans, Uncle Phil, and Randall Pearson shaped perceptions of fatherhood and influenced their personal exp...

In part two the ladies and I discuss comments made in the media by Ebony K Williams, what's it like to transition from a relationship to being single, are physical requirements important, emotional maps, is vulnerability really sexy, and how to manage the stress of dating anxiety!

Description: In this episode, we dive into the dynamic world of dating for black women in 2023. Join us as we explore the unique experiences, challenges, and triumphs of being outside the norm. My special guests Keiana, Brenda, Taylor and Savannah share their personal stories, insights, and advice on navigating the ever-evolving dating landscape. From dating apps to cultural expectations, we'll di...

This week I invited three of my brothers, Derrick, Mike and Jay to have an uncomfortable yet fulfilling conversation on our lived experiences on living inside blended families. We don't shy away from some of the difficulties that come with the dynamic, and we also share some strategies that we employ that have worked for us thus far. Often times, marriages that exist inside a blended family do...

In this powerful episode me and some brothers I know discuss our journey as black men who have bravely chosen to confront the stigma surrounding mental health within their community. We delve into the experiences of these resilient individuals and explore the transformative impact therapy has had on their lives. We share our personal struggles, shedding light on the unique challenges they face in...

In this episode my friend Jatoya and I discuss the code and standards that we live by in order to maintain peace in life. We explore some of the concepts we learned early in life and how they show up in current lives. Do you have a code that you live by that helps you maintain peace?

In this episode I speak with my friend and fellow therapist Susana Munoz. Susana and I discuss maternal mental health, and a little bit of paternal mental health. I learned a lot in this episode, and I encourage everyone to listen and get educated on the process of having children and toll it can take on you mentally if you're not mindful and proactive about taking care of yourself. Please like, s...

In this episode I sit down with my friend Brenda Valentine. We discuss our journeys into therapy and the search for healing. Both of us touch on our first experiences with counseling and how we got into the spaces we are in with therapy. We will also share some insight on what we would do if we had to look for a new therapist tomorrow. The healing journey can be difficult and uncomfortable, the ho...

In hard times, being asked how you are can be overwhelming. Can you relate? In this episode I have a conversation with my longtime friend Tanisha about the process of answering the small but heavy question "How are you?" I know when I'm not in a good space, being asked how I'm doing can bring on some anxiety. Tanisha and I talk about how we feel when being asked how we are and so...

Can you relate to feeling qualified to be in the spaces that you're in but still feeling as though you don't belong there? That is imposter syndrome. In this episode, Phoenix and I discuss our experiences with imposter syndrome and will share how I identified and cope with it to this day. I discuss my struggles with imposter syndrome as a coach, teacher, and therapist. Toward the end of the episod...

Living with suicidal ideation can be physically heavy, defeating, and extremely painful. The pain extends to loved ones and can be difficult for all involved to cope with. In this episode, I share my own experiences with suicidal ideation and how I've coped with it for many years. I give insight on my journey to becoming a therapist and what I've learned and wish to share about my healing journey....

Often times the people in our lives set boundaries at inconvenient times. It can be difficult to decipher if a person is showing up selfish or exercising their right to take care of themselves. In this episode I answer the question, is it selfish, or are you mad that you were beat to the boundary?

In this episode I sit down with my friends, Ev, Jeff, and Gareth and we discuss several topics regarding navigating manhood. Neither of claim to be an expert, we process our experiences, discuss vulnerability, and what it's like building relationships amongst other men.

I speak to my friends Jeff and Jennifer Henry in this episode about their HBCU love story. I asked Taylor to sit in, she is currently a student at Howard University, the place of origin of this love story. In this episode, we discuss their origins as individuals and the role that played in how they show up in their marriage. There are so many gems in this episode for people of all stages of relati...

In this episode you hear the origins of a 14, going on 15-year marriage. Donna and I talk about how we navigate life together as a couple, as parents, as partners, and as friends. We discuss how we are still learning to resolve conflict and what it was like for Donna to be married to someone who is clinically depressed. It's a journey we are still on, and we are vulnerable and transparent about so...

This conversation with my son is an example of how a healing journey can have an impact on those closest to you. My son and I display what vulnerability can look like between a father and son. The way my son lives through my pain with me is a validation for me on how important it is to seek healing.

I'm back! In this episode, I briefly touch on what vulnerability means to me and what purpose vulnerability serves in my life. Thank you for the support, especially while taking a much-needed hiatus. Please rate and comment!

In this episode Marcus allows himself to get vulnerable about his personal struggles. The pressures of being a collegiate athlete and going through a strenuous rehab took its toll on Marcus mentally and physically. The bounce-back has been rewarding and inspiring, I'm very proud to bring you this episode. 

In this episode, I talk with Samuel "S3" Arnold, aka Squirmy. We discuss his road to becoming a professional boxer and the personal challenges and sacrifices that presents. The importance of his mother and father on his journey and what it takes to be a champion! 

Yaqui is a Salvadorian young woman, the child of immigrants. She has grown up in poverty and fought her way through adversity, finding herself and making it through college. She speaks about her experiences, growing up being bullied, living in fear, and the mental health challenges of herself and close friends. She is a remarkable young woman.  If you want to support Yaqui her cash app is $Ya...

I experience a healing moment as I speak to my nephews about some of their life experiences. These are two grown men that I've known since the first day of their lives. In this episode, we discuss generation trauma, the effects of losing my mother, being the child of incarceration, growing up in the foster care system, and much more!

The conversation about men and vulnerability is becoming more and more prevalent. The topic is multifaceted and multilayered, it couldn't possibly be covered in one episode. I hope that this is the beginning of a series of conversations that help begin to bridge a communication gap between men and women, and hopefully bring more men to therapy and healing. Let's create spaces where men can be vuln...

March 26th is Epilepsy Awareness Day! In this episode, I sit down with my former player and current friend Kenitra as she discusses her battle with Epilepsy. She gives us insight into her challenges with depression and anxiety and how that plays a role in her battle. Kenitra also gives insight into how she copes and what she is doing to bring awareness to this chronic disease. Thank you for listen...

In this episode, I sit down with Dominique Puentes, a young man I've known for most of his life. We talk about his struggles with anxiety and how he has learned to overcome them. We talk about our shared experience of growing up without our fathers and the impact that has had on our lives. I'm very proud of this episode and I'm proud of this young man.