Turns Out I'm Into It!

In this episode I talk about my journey with Age Play. This is one of the more divisive kinks in BDSM and it was a form of play I used to be very uncomfortable with. Overtime, through exploring this kink slowly with my partner, I have been able to understand Age Play a lot better, and my little self has now become an important part of my kink identity.  What all this has to do with Harry Potter Pj...

I don't think this was quite what the fairy godmother had in mind, but I had a great night out at the Townsville Erotic Ball! This was a big event for our regional North Queensland community and brought in awesome humans from all over the state!  In this episode I tell you all about my experience at this event. I’m talking sexy costumes, traffic light wristbands and fire twirling entertainmen...

I’ve got an extra special deep-dive episode for you today, where I interview Persephony Falls. Persephony is one of the first people I met in kink. She is a self professed Sadomasochist, has more than 15 years experience in kink, and she is heavily involved in the Townsville kink community organising the local sub-munches here.  In this episode we cover everything from kinky Greek mythology, advic...

Monogamy is something most couples never really discuss. It is generally assumed when we enter a relationship, it will be monogamous, and that is that. After all, monogamy is the only way to show true emotional commitment to someone… right? Well I strongly disagree. Monogamy - when agreed to for the right reasons - can be perfectly healthy. Though this is often not the case. I have frequently seen...

For many people, the idea of seeing their partner in the arms of another person is to painful to even imagine… but for Slade and I, we were pretty excited about it!  In this episode, I recount all the juicy details for you, about what this recent experience was like, how the opportunity came about, as well as some insights into the positives of an open relationship. Also in this episode, discover...

Last week's chat on Objectification got some super interesting responses! So I decided to go even deeper into this topic today and add some of YOUR comments to this conversation.  Objectification is such an interesting topic, because despite its negative connotations, it is a suuuuper common desire and can be extremely validating for people of all genders and roles!  Later in the episode I di...

Mentioned in this episode Harley Rabbit Audio Fantasies. Use the code INTOIT23 for 25% discount Coming Together - by Danielle Harel PHD and Celeste Hirschman MA (book) Get in touch! Website: harleyrabbit.com/podcast  Fetlife: HarleyRabbit We are taught that sex is all about having an orgasm, but there is sooooo much more to it!  Great sex is about all the wonderful and complex feelings we get to e...

Mentioned in this episode Harley Rabbit Audio Fantasies. Use the code INTOIT23 Coming Together - by Danielle Harel PHD and Celeste Hirshman MA (book) Why I want you to see me naked (Fetlife blog post) See my face photo and show your support!  Get in touch! Website: harleyrabbit.com/podcast  Fetlife: HarleyRabbit Privacy is a big deal in the kink world, and it’s important to be sure you are comfort...

Being in charge might look easy, but the role of a Dom is anything but. In this episode I interview my Dom / partner Slade about his journey as a Dom in kink, uncovering some of the challenges and lessons learned in our 2 years together.  We cover lots of topics including how Slade has overcome feelings of shame around his dominant desires (something a lot of men struggle with). We also discuss th...

Some kinks are playful and fun, like being spoilt with attention, or bathed in chocolate sauce. But what about the less empowering ones… what if you’re turned on by r*pe fantasies and degradation…?  In this episode I am finally able to answer the question “Are my kinks healthy?” And the answer is most likely yes. Though the reasons behind that answer are suuuuuper interesting! If you are strugglin...

Sex is a fundamental human need, yet in modern society, it is a topic deemed “inappropriate” in most settings, especially if the sex you desire is anything outside the vanilla. This lack of conversation around sex, leads to poor information, poor communication with sexual partners, and ultimately… an unfulfilling sex life.  In this episode I explore how sex and kink is consistently shamed in our s...

I’ve got an exciting episode today! Last week I told you I was planning an upcoming impact play scene at a private party… well this week you get to hear all about how that went! I share all the details about what naughty shenanigans took place, so you can get an honest insight into what an experience like this is actually like.  For anyone wanting to play at home, I give you my top takeaways to ha...

In today’s episode I share with you why this podcast was immediately banned from Instagram and Facebook (spoiler alert… it’s kind of infuriating). I also share about how I’ve been doing a deep dive into my kinks and discovering new things about myself through making a kink vision board! Sounds super weird I know, but hear me out! You might like to try it too… Lastly, I talk openly about how I have...

In this episode of "Turns Out I'm Into It," host Harley Rabbit delves into self-acceptance in kink. Through sharing her personal experiences, Harley explores the ways in which shame and self-doubt can hold us back, and how learning to accept our kinky selves (no matter how weird and wonderful) can lead to more fulfilling relationships and experiences. Harley shares openly about how...

Trigger warning: This episode contains discussions of consensual non-consent play. In this episode of "Turns Out I'm Into It," your host Harley shares her personal experiences as an erotic audio artist and how her work is enabling people to explore their kinky fantasies through the privacy of their own headphones. Harley also opens up about her journey with consensual non-consent (C...

Show notes Welcome to the first episode of "Turns out I'm into it!” This podcast is about having open and honest conversations about sex, BDSM, and kink.  Your host, Harley Rabbit, shares her own personal story of discovering her kinks at a young age, and how exploring them has become an integral part of who she is today. Through her own experience, Harley explains how exploring kink bec...

Show notes Welcome back to "Turns out I'm into it!" In this episode, we're diving into the world of privacy and anonymity in kink. We'll explore why privacy is so important, and how you can protect yourself while still putting yourself out there.  Protecting your privacy doesn't have to feel super serious. From choosing secret code names, to being part of a secret und...

Show notes Welcome back to Turns Out I’m Into it! In today's episode, we're going to dive a little deeper into the fascinating world of kink and BDSM, discovering why these activities can help manage stress, anxiety and bring us closer together with our partners. Contrary to how it might look on the outside, kink is so much more than just whips and chains. It's an experience that ca...