Turn it Up! Marriage Tips and Tools

White lies in a marriage - good or bad? I've learned in my marriage coaching that giving yourself permission to lie to your spouse is a huge mistake and can be very damaging. To break this habit, this recording gives you several action steps that will transform your life and your marriage. If you're looking for more guidance and inspiration, make sure to check out my book, "Turn It Up...

Do you want something in your marriage? If so, ask for it. For some this is hard to do but you can learn how to do it. This is one of the common mistakes I see couples make that can easily be fixed. Instead of trying to be self sufficient, learn to ask for what you need. This recording will teach you how. If you're looking for more guidance and inspiration, make sure to check out my book, &quo...

Do you need anger management for your marriage? Everyone gets angry but some of us struggle with explosive anger. In this episode, we look at a crucial topic that can either make or break a relationship – explosive anger in marriage. Discover practical advice from God's word to help you navigate this challenging terrain. Learn how to handle intense anger without causing damage and strengthen y...

Do you listen to understand and not to reply? Do you ever feel like your spouse just doesn't understand you? Is communication a challenge in your marriage? This episode of the Turn it Up Marriage Tips and Tools Show, addresses a common issue in relationships: feeling unheard by your partner. Discover practical strategies to strengthen your marriage and improve communication without needing a d...

Prioritizing the wrong things in your marriage is one of the most common mistakes couples make. Instead of prioritizing their marriage, many people prioritize their career or their kids or their hobbies over their marriage. This leads to a gradual drifting apart and the weakening of their marriage. If this trend continues, the marriage will slowly die. But you can turn this around and recover from...

Do you know how to create a strong foundation for your marriage? Welcome to the Turn it Up Marriage Tips and Tools Show where we explore timeless wisdom from the teachings of Jesus to strengthen your marriage. In this recording we will look at Matthew 7: 24-27 where you will learn practical steps to apply this hidden marriage tip from Jesus in your own marriage. Building a strong foundation is cru...

Do you treat your spouse like Jesus would? Discover the secrets to building a strong and fulfilling marriage by treating your spouse the way you want to be treated. In this episode of the Turn It Up Marriage Tips and Tools show, we will explore the hidden marriage advice from Jesus and dive deeper into the significance of the golden rule in marriage. By embodying love, respect, and understanding,...

Check out this awesome podcast episode called "Give Good Gifts to Your Spouse - A Hidden Marriage Tip from Jesus." It's all about how showing love through thoughtful gifts can really make a difference in your marriage. Jesus had some wise words on this in Matthew 7:11 when he said, "If you who are evil know how to give good gifts to your children, how much more will your father...

Ask for what you want, that is the key to getting what you want in your marriage. Sounds simple and it is, but many couple struggle with this. Some are afraid to ask because they don't want to be rejected. Others don't want to be needy or to bother their spouse. They want to be self sufficient. But God created us with needs and wants us to ask others and him to meet those needs. This recor...

Did you know that before you correct your spouse, you need to examine yourself first? Welcome to "Turn it Up Marriage Tips and Tools Show," where we uncover hidden gems of wisdom from the teachings of Jesus to elevate your marriage. In this episode, we explore Matthew 7:3-5, where Jesus challenges us to address our own flaws before pointing out those of our spouse. Join us as we discuss...

Be a servant in your marriage. Do you know how to be a servant in your marriage? This recording will help you discover how to do that in very practical ways. Jesus gives us a great marriage tip in Mark 10:45 "For the Son of Man came not to be served, but to serve and to give his life as a ransom for many." As we reflect on what this verse means, we will learn more about how to put it int...

Do you know how to create a peaceful marriage? One that isn't filled with strife or conflict. A marriage that is enjoyable and filled with love and harmony. Your marriage can transform from one of anger to one of peace. Jesus gave us many marriage tips in his teachings. Some are direct and some are indirect. Many of them are found in Matthew Chapter 5, in the Beatitudes, the "blessed are....

Do you know how to keep your marriage pure? There are a lot of things that can come in and defile our marriages. This is another hidden marriage tip from Jesus found in the "blessed are..." statements in Matthew Chapter 5. Jesus said "Blessed are the pure in heart for they shall see God." Matthew 5:8. This recording will help you identify the possible things that can creep in g...

Do you show mercy to your spouse? Would you like your spouse to show mercy to you? All of us want the people we love to show us mercy, but sometimes we don't want to show them mercy. Right? This is part of a series of recordings called The Hidden Marriage Tips from Jesus. In this one we look at Matthew 5:7, "Blessed are the merciful for they will be shown mercy." You'll learn wha...

If your marriage is empty, be filled. Does your marriage feel empty at times, like something is missing? If that's you, the answer is God. He wants to fill your life and your marriage with love. He wants your marriage to be great and to last. This recording will give you several keys that will help you invite God into your marriage and it will help you be the spouse your husband/wife needs you...

Did you know that gentle is strong? Jesus gave a lot of marriage tips in his teachings. In Matthew 5:5, he says Blessed are the meek for they shall inherit the earth. We confuse meek with weak. But a better understanding of the term is that it is someone who is gentle. And being gentle means you are strong. When you know you are strong, you can choose to be gentle and care effectively for your fam...

What? Mourn and receive comfort. How is that a marriage tip? Are you overwhelmed with grief because you’ve lost someone close to you and you don’t know what to do with the pain? Are you making the mistake of doing things that help you feel better temporarily but are really helping? Or is there someone you love that is grieving because of a significant loss and you don’t know how to help? Are you m...

Be teachable. Jesus wants your marriage to be great and to last. He tells us how in the Beatitudes in Matthew chapter 5. In this recording we are going to look at one of his tips and apply it to our lives and marriages. Here's the tip - Blessed are the poor in spirit for theirs in the kingdom of heaven, Matthew 5:3. What does this mean and how can it help us have better marriages? This recordi...

There are at least ten warning signs your marriage needs help. This recording is going to help you face the reality of your situation and will give you some practical options to get the help you might need. If your marriage is good, the warning signs in this recording are going to confirm that you are on the right track. Please help me get the word out about this channel by sharing, following and...

Jesus is God's role model for loving others, especially your husband or wife. If you want to have a great marriage, love your spouse like Jesus loves us. This brief recording looks at some of the ways Jesus loves us. By following his example, God will bless your marriage and strengthen your relationship. Jesus really is God's role model for how to love others and have the kind of relations...

Does your wife feel special to you? Here are some of the things I do to make my wife feel special. If I can do this, you can too. Feeling special is all about making her feel loved, cherished, valued and that she is your top priority in life. This recording will give you some practical ideas you can start doing today to accomplish this. I hope you found this helpful. For the full version of this r...

I'll never forget how this conversation saved our marriage. We were married about 5 years and had two kids. I thought everything was great, but my wife wasn't happy. She wanted something more. In this recording I tell the story of this conversation and how I responded. I think you'll find it helpful and that it will inspire you to have these kinds of conversations yourself. Please subs...

Prioritizing your marriage means balancing hobbies and spouse time. This short recording offers five practical steps to achieve that balance. While hobbies can be enjoyable and fulfilling, they can also become all-consuming and take time away from what truly matters - a strong and healthy marriage. Join me, a pastor, police chaplain, and marriage coach, as I share my insights on how to maintain a...

Are you looking to improve your marriage and take it to the next level? Look no further! In this engaging episode, I'll share seven powerful tips inspired by Steven Covey's book, The Seven Habits of Highly Effective People, that will transform your relationship and strengthen your bond with your partner. From being proactive to sharpening the saw, these habits will help you create a solid foundati...

Do you know the do's and don'ts of helping someone grieve? It's natural to want to support those we love during difficult times, but how can we ensure we're doing it in the right way? Grief is a universal experience that touches us all at some point, and it can be especially challenging to assist our spouse in coping with the loss of a parent or sibling. Fortunately, this recording will equip you...