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Goth drag king show with Leather Culture & Representation. Here we are talking about bars and clubs for adults where people prove their age, and the ability to consent is practiced.

Cultures from India and Judaism are just a couple who use a type of Matchmaking at times. This tradition of a middle person vetting and involvement of family compared to independently choosing, it seems there could be something cool to the Matchmaking culture. But in American Western society there could be some issues as family dynamics at times might interfere.

Day 5: a quote from @justinlaboy & talking about an Eckhart Tolle quote about solely observing thoughts vs believing them.

Looking in some of the least likely places and finding motivation for self improvement. As I’m slowing down in life I’m noticing many areas where I’m improving and also reflecting on the impacts of extreme stress on my ability to focus on my own self care basics. But it’s not all bad! Even with mild-to-moderate effort I’m seeing great results!

Michael Sealey positive affirmations: https://youtu.be/p2dDC8KTOiY Also check out brown noise types of relaxation. Remember not to listen while driving or operating heavy machinery, trust me! You may fall to sleep or lose concentration as these focus exercises are very meditative, relaxing and powerful.

Got in a HIIT workout and some yoga, planning to sleep super early before 10pm.

Day 2 using the structure of Jaime Messina’s book to organize my days and improve my mood and motivation. I’m certainly noticing the difference from being way less strained and stressed. I’m a bit all over the place because I’m not being too rigid with sleep patterns and caffeine intake lately. I’m not as burnt out but still somewhat easily tired from all the new ways of thinking. I’m feeling prod...

Check out Jaime Messina’s book, workbook on “The Stories We Tell.” Great self-help.

Luckily us lgbt+ folx have some freedom and flexibility when it comes to rules and roles. This conversation is taken from a topic on Ashley Gavin's podcast (check out that episode HERE! https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KUI4ZR0hioc). Ashley Gavin's episode stars the returning cis straight Caucasian comedian co-host Hannah as well as returning trans Latinx female body builder Angel Flores. Their epis...

Dance floor Rules? Are LGBTQ+ bar and club spaces different? I talk about my experiences in bars, clubs and festivals. Experiences with dancing. Experiences with socializing and mingling in queer versus straight spaces. I speak to some of the comp het unofficial laws of the land. Overall, consent is key. But after that fact, there appear to be differences. Check out the IG: https://www.instagram.c...

(This is actually from the NYE ep end of 2022, the first portion to that topic).

This topic may be triggering for some. Still based off the convo by the Jubilee YouTube episode.

(15:00mins in marks the start of the main topic).

Gentrification? Financial warfare?

Recalling some early dating experiences.

Some slight holiday talk and leading into some community situations.

Cut that short! Well here is a blog link. I may just be writing for some few more days. I need to edit what I write but I don’t really do it. I just want to make it and post it. Likely more to come. “Gay Night In”: https://tomboyofficial.blogspot.com/2022/12/a-gay-night-in.html

Things may be a tad slow until 12/26/22 with posts. I’m trying to record when I can.

Quick queer dream

[Trigger warning- this episode contains topics surrounding body image, eating/ diet, and can potentially be triggering for people with dysphoria]. Gender expression can impact clothing styles. Our bodies based on genetics and sex at time of birth as well as hormones affect how your body naturally distributes for your figure can change.  How can you think more positively to more directly keep...

Talking about caffeine, sleep, vitamins, cannabis and (unrelated) the L Word cast. https://youtu.be/ikiVpMUKhZ8

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