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This topic may be triggering for some. Still based off the convo by the Jubilee YouTube episode.

(15:00mins in marks the start of the main topic).

Gentrification? Financial warfare?

Recalling some early dating experiences.

Some slight holiday talk and leading into some community situations.

Cut that short! Well here is a blog link. I may just be writing for some few more days. I need to edit what I write but I don’t really do it. I just want to make it and post it. Likely more to come. “Gay Night In”: https://tomboyofficial.blogspot.com/2022/12/a-gay-night-in.html

Things may be a tad slow until 12/26/22 with posts. I’m trying to record when I can.

Quick queer dream

[Trigger warning- this episode contains topics surrounding body image, eating/ diet, and can potentially be triggering for people with dysphoria]. Gender expression can impact clothing styles. Our bodies based on genetics and sex at time of birth as well as hormones affect how your body naturally distributes for your figure can change.  How can you think more positively to more directly keep...

Talking about caffeine, sleep, vitamins, cannabis and (unrelated) the L Word cast. https://youtu.be/ikiVpMUKhZ8

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Check out Lexie Peterss. She/they, content creator: linear success, healing journey. Lexie Peters @lexiepeterss Podcast: Peters’s Perspective (trauma, triggers, reaction) https://open.spotify.com/episode/09CvweNb6iTqUtqxFprO3j?si=bP1Sd5xLQDmPsDF-9c95FQ Linktree: https://linktr.ee/Lexiepeterss?fbclid=PAAaa5iHV4mAH9KSMClaLvSgGjW457GoUOHw1_eXwxFzR8wLrPJgHFND5gQC0 YouTube vid: https://youtu.be/srgvi5V...

(I forgot to mention I’ve just added an order of Soylent to throw into my daily regimen. I ordered 18 bottles which should last me until Monday 12/26/22). I’m trying to spice up my routines! Boredom is killing my motivation and I’ve seen the light recently, that staying indoors all day doesn’t do too much for me other than saving $. And I’m not that hard pressed for $ that I need to be scrimping s...

Travel & dating as Trans, non-binary, and/or perceived non-Cis. Show notes short hand version: (Queer Trans male, Chinese-American) actor (trained in social work and raised by 2 adoptive mothers) Leo Sheng traveling documentation for a trans person (trans male). Check out their full episode or scrub to Leo’s part: https://youtu.be/mU-rgzhpby0 Expensive process. Government forms: privilege, being p...

A tired after work journey across LA on a week night! All to meet some gay locals and have a drink and some bomb tacos. Flux!! DJ was good and very chill nice people vibes. Nice wintery patio too.

Nuff said!

SPOILER ALERT! I’m about to talk about episode details. My opinions to date and the evolution of some characters.

I forgot to mention for this one. I also have a basketball, women’s size. And a soccer ball. I have this harness for it (not a Soccer Pal net)but a harness that wraps around the waist and can be used to practice kicks and the elastic attached around the ball returns the ball to avoid having to chase after ball. I also have a karate gi. My friends and I at times did some light sparring in my friend...

Nudes, Wiki feet & Security: people should be able to both have fun AND protect themselves. Keep it safe.

Complete spoilers! Check out some of the collabs the L Word cast did with multiple LGBTQ+ LA YouTubers! Check out collabs with the following: Ambers Closet- https://youtu.be/hfrn39bmDm0

So this is far too long BUT I had the time, found the time, made the time… so wth. My social life has changed so much from pre Rona frolicking to the more recent less frequency but larger hang out times with bigger events. I’m still figuring out my social goals in upcoming days and weeks. It will be exciting to see how all the changes will influence some upcoming social options.

Yes this is going to be absolutely all over the place. Sometimes I am still learning HOW to talk about certain experiences.

I forgot to mention! Today in addition to these topics (studying, cleaning, groceries, exercise) I will be having a half day of hourly short meditations, and Monday I will do that the full day. I tend to practice a tad of “structured chaos.” I like to do what I want, when I want. It’s the Leo in me. But I also like routines with some flexibility. I’ll be off Friday and instead of snowboarding I wi...

Looking at the last week: finances, sleep, nutrition, exercise, work, self-care…The usual!!! Planning the next week of where to improve. There may be some fun in the mountains the next 2 Fridays!! Motivation from plans, social media, sports, and queer athletes.

Absolute spoiler! Just talking about general thoughts.