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What I initially look for through the app experience.

First episode about my dating app experiences. I might speak only to dating app experiences since those are where my majority of experiences come from. But I’m open to speaking about almost any dating experiences but protecting privacy and trust of others, I’m not here to bash and out and create a bunch of drama. But my goal is to help people who have dating trouble in any of the areas that my exp...

Have a good one!

Old episode from early 2021. This was found still in a drafted status. Enjoy!

I know I’ve been a bit silent lately! Here is what I’ve been up to in the start of Fall 2022.

Another queer dream coming at ya. You’re welcome!

The way love goes

Thoraya

Singlehood is a stage that many cultures address in their own specific manners. In Western American culture people generally begin a process of dating near age 14-18. Usually there is a process where a teen is developing independence and being allowed added freedoms by guardians upon proving that they can adhere to expectations (see the blog HERE https://tomboyofficial.blogspot.com/2022/10/singleh...

Yet another San Diego queer themed dream. Share the blog and podcast links with anyone who you believe may have an interest! BLOG: https://tomboyofficial.blogspot.com/ PODCAST: https://anchor.fm/tomboyofficial

My attempt at unpacking a recent queer dream that left a strong impression.  Basically I am quite homesick, unable to be as easily connected as I would prefer from the lifestyle I have created for myself in San Diego. Check out more details in the blog post below. And share any links with anyone you know who may have an interest. To follow up on the original episode from the My Queer Dreams s...

This dream left a pretty hard impression.

Between stereotypes, roles and identity, somewhere along the line we learn the societal rules we are expected to uphold. But what happens if those rules don’t work for you? As a person who prefers to present in a more androgynous fashion, I talk here about how that can impact me and some recent experiences and thoughts of how gender rules come up in my life. Share the blog and podcast links with a...

Here we discuss professional branding. Not just for business owners and people in the spotlight, but even for somebody who may work in data entry, work as a teacher, in a trade or in customer service. Share the blog and podcast links with anyone who you believe may have an interest! BLOG: https://tomboyofficial.blogspot.com/ PODCAST: https://anchor.fm/tomboyofficial

Most people want to be in a relationship that is secure, loving, trusting and honest. We talk here about some deal breakers involving secrets and some experiences of dealing with gossip and it’s impacts. Share the blog and podcast links with anyone who you believe may have an interest! BLOG: https://tomboyofficial.blogspot.com/ PODCAST: https://anchor.fm/tomboyofficial

Share this episode with your friends if they like content about queer dreams. Subscribe and check out the older “My Queer Dreams” serious in previous posts. Share the blog and podcast links with anyone who you believe may have an interest! BLOG: https://tomboyofficial.blogspot.com/ PODCAST: https://anchor.fm/tomboyofficial

Other People Coming Out Share the blog and podcast links with anyone who you believe may have an interest! BLOG: https://tomboyofficial.blogspot.com/ PODCAST: https://anchor.fm/tomboyofficial

Sorry I thought I had posted this last night. Share the blog and podcast links with anyone who you believe may have an interest! BLOG: https://tomboyofficial.blogspot.com/ PODCAST: https://anchor.fm/tomboyofficial

Another episode to my queer dreams series. Share the blog and podcast links with anyone who you believe may have an interest! BLOG: https://tomboyofficial.blogspot.com/ PODCAST: https://anchor.fm/tomboyofficial

How can we tell if we are seeing the world as it really is? Share the blog and podcast links with anyone who you believe may have an interest! BLOG: https://tomboyofficial.blogspot.com/ PODCAST: https://anchor.fm/tomboyofficial

Another mildly queer dream. Share the blog and podcast links with anyone who you believe may have an interest! BLOG: https://tomboyofficial.blogspot.com/ PODCAST: https://anchor.fm/tomboyofficial

If you are into androgynous adult content, check out what caught my eye of @Camilag.24 They have a Linktr.ee account with their OF, ig, Tik Tok and Cocktails links. https://linktr.ee/Camilag.24 Share the blog and podcast links with anyone who you believe may have an interest! BLOG: https://tomboyofficial.blogspot.com/ PODCAST: https://anchor.fm/tomboyofficial

Jaime Messina is a LGBTQ+ coach creating some awesome content on optimism, positive thinking, and works as a coach to help others reach goals of improving their lives. She has ig lives near 9am ET, 6am PT. Check out her tap link page for all her sites, book, paid coaching and “Lillies” online forum for lesbians who came out later in life. https://taplink.cc/jaimemessina Share the blog and podcast...

The process of coming out doesn’t necessarily end. Not unless your social life, work life, family life and human interactions remain completely stagnant and in the same exact place.

Very brief considering how loaded this topic is. Talking about looking at the surface versus below the surface. The main question here is - What makes you swipe right?