Through a Therapist's Eyes Podcast

In this episode about Resentments, we dive deep into the complex and often overwhelming feelings of anger and bitterness that arise from past experiences or relationships. We explore the psychological and physical toll that holding onto resentments can have, from anxiety and depression to strained relationships and health issues. We discuss why letting go can be so challenging, touching on feeling...

In Episode 286 of Through a Therapist's Eyes - How to Overcome, we're diving deep into the power of resiliency with special guest Zay Grastley. From spending 14 years in prison to embracing his dreams and becoming an inspirational figure, Zay shares his incredible journey of overcoming adversity. We explore the impact of culture, the importance of vision, and how pivotal life events can reshape ou...

In episode 285, "Willpower: It is a Challenge in Life," we dive into the complexities of willpower and its impact on various aspects of our lives. We'll explore what willpower truly is—an ability to control our actions, emotions, and urges—and discuss why it's crucial for achieving long-term goals, forming healthy habits, and maintaining strong interpersonal relationships. From overcoming temptati...

In episode 284, Empathy: Have We Lost It? , we explore the complex and multifaceted nature of empathy and its significance in today's world. We dive into the definitions and types of empathy—cognitive, emotional, and compassionate—and discuss the factors that contribute to the current empathy deficit in society. From the overwhelming influence of social media to the rise of individualism and the c...

In this episode of "Through a Therapist's Eyes," we explore the multifaceted nature of ambition—what it is, where it comes from, and how to cultivate it effectively. We discuss the balance between intrinsic and extrinsic motivation, the role of personal values, upbringing, and even trauma in shaping our drive. While ambition can lead to success, we also examine its potential downsides, such as bur...

In Episode 282, we review July's highlights and welcome new YouTube subscribers, Trevor Brown and Toshiaq. We revisit a listener email from Episode 221 on emotional detachment in intimate relationships, discussing the balance between being interconnected and maintaining boundaries. We also recap Episodes 278, 279, and 280, which cover therapy modalities, sensory defensiveness, and the impact of me...

In episode 281, "What are True Needs vs. Wants," we explore the difference between essential needs and luxury wants. We answer key questions about identifying and meeting your true needs, drawing on Maslow's Hierarchy and Andrew Benjamin George's comprehensive list. We also discuss the impact of unmet needs on mental health, social media pressures, and cultural influences. Look for practical tips...

In Episode 280, we unravel the fascinating interplay between mental health, therapy, and emotional intelligence (EI). What exactly is EI, and can it be learned or is it hardwired into our nature? Can our EI be weakened or lost over time? We'll break down the key components of EI—self-awareness, self-regulation, motivation, empathy, and social skills—and reveal how therapy can significantly enhance...

In Episode 279, we delve into sensory defensiveness, a condition where individuals experience extreme sensitivity to stimuli like touch, sound, light, and movement, often linked to sensory processing disorder, autism, ADHD, and anxiety. We explore its causes, ranging from neurological and genetic factors to early childhood experiences, and its impact on social interactions, education, and daily ac...

In this episode, we explore the diverse world of therapy modalities, addressing key questions about therapy types and their significance. We cover eclectic versus specific therapies, the differences between substance abuse and mental health treatments, and the ideal contexts for various approaches. Learn about popular modalities like CBT, DBT, Psychodynamic Therapy, Humanistic Therapy, Family Ther...

Join us for Episode 277 of Through a Therapist's Eyes as we review the month of June. Dive into conflict resolution and the apology/forgiveness cycle from Episode 275, exploring key questions about resolving conflicts and understanding the nuances between conflicts and chronic problems. In Episode 276, we shed light on family life with Bipolar Disorder, distinguishing it from Borderline Personalit...

In this episode of Through a Therapist's Eyes, we dive deep into understanding Bipolar Disorder and its impact on family life. We'll break down the different types of Bipolar Disorder, the DSM criteria, and the nuances that set it apart from other mental health disorders. Through a compelling case story, we'll uncover the challenges in diagnosing Bipolar Disorder. We'll also discuss the emotional...

In Episode 275 of Through a Therapist's Eyes, we delve into the intricacies of conflict resolution and the cycles of apology and forgiveness. We explore three pivotal questions: What distinguishes conflicts from problems? Should an apology precede forgiveness, or vice versa? And, how can conflicts be effectively resolved? We define conflicts as natural, non-violent disagreements arising from incom...

  In Episode 274 of our "May Month in Review," we revisit Episode 272 on "Co-parenting in Divorce," discussing ideal co-parenting goals, managing children when the ex-partner isn't ideal, and knowing when to lean on legal processes, emphasizing self-recovery, self-care, and maintaining consistency with children. Finally, we review Episode 273 on the "Love and Logic" parenting approach, focusing on...

In Episode 273 of "Love and Logic Reviewed," we explore the "Love and Logic" parenting philosophy, highlighting its key tenets such as shared control, empathy before consequences, logical consequences, and avoiding power struggles. Additionally, we emphasize the importance of maintaining a high-structure environment with minimal conflicts, building positive parent-child relationships, and understa...

In this episode of "Through A Therapist's Eyes," we delve into the complexities of co-parenting after a divorce. We explore the ideal co-parenting goals, such as respect, effective communication, and keeping children as the main focus. We also discuss strategies for managing situations when your ex isn't cooperative, including dealing with emotional hurts, practicing the serenity prayer, and maint...

Welcome to the April Month in Review where we cover that last 3 episodes from a non-clinical point of view. In Episode 268, we uncover the struggles of male survivors of sexual abuse and domestic violence, highlighting their unique challenges and paths to recovery. Episode 269 revisits the concept of moral courage, discussing how to build it through resilience, supportive relationships, self-aware...

Embark on a journey into "The Language of Substance Abuse" (Ep270), where we decode the complex terminology and cultural shifts surrounding addiction. From exploring the perspectives of addicts to dissecting family dynamics, we delve into terms like recovery, relapse, and harm reduction. Join us as we navigate the evolving perception of addiction over the past two decades, addressing controversial...

Join us for an intriguing exploration of "Moral Courage Revisited", where we start by talking about the conviction of James and Jennifer Crumbley and redefine the notion of ethical bravery. From defining moral courage to unraveling its origins and challenges, we draw inspiration from historical icons and confront modern-day pressures like cancel culture. Discover how to cultivate moral courage in...

In "Survivor Mode: Male Sexual Abuse/Domestic Violence" (Ep268), we tackle the under-discussed topic of men's trauma experiences. Through probing questions, we delve into survivor mode's genesis in family dynamics and the status of the HE TOO movement. Uncovering the cultural and psychological barriers men face, we explore recovery strategies, emphasizing the necessity of support networks and boun...

In the latest episode of "March Month in Review", where we dissect the highlights from our recent shows. From exploring the depths of loneliness and connection in "Alone in Plain Sight" with Ben Higgins to unraveling the secrets of genuine connections in "Do You Know How to Connect? The Bachelor Follow-Up", we delve into the complexities of human interaction. Plus, we dive into the importance of f...

Join the panel as they unravel the secrets of connection and loneliness in "Do You Know How to Connect? The Bachelor Follow-Up". Delving into the depths of human interaction, they explore the fine line between isolation and community. Drawing from Ben Higgins' insights in "Alone in Plain Sight," they reveal strategies for reconnecting with oneself and others, challenging listeners to embrace share...

Join us in Episode 265 "Alone in Plain Sight," where Ben Higgins, known from Season 20 of "The Bachelor," shares his insights as a guest. From his experiences since the show, Ben explores the complexities of loneliness, social media's impact on connection, and the path to genuine human connection. Drawing from his book "Alone In Plain Sight," Ben offers actionable steps to reconnect with oneself,...

Dive into our last month of podcast episodes where we further discuss our latest thought-provoking episodes. In "The Adderall Epidemic," we uncover the truth behind Adderall usage, its societal impacts, and whether it's a valid response to ADHD. Then, in "Culture Wars and Professionalism: Jordan Peterson," we delve into the evolving landscape of professionalism amidst cultural shifts and technolog...

In this episode, we explore the fascinating dynamics of codependency and compassion, inspired by Claudia Black's groundbreaking work. From personal stories to parenting insights, we uncover how codependent behaviors develop and their pitfalls, while also delving into the intriguing concept of counter-dependency. Through a compassionate lens, we discuss setting boundaries and fostering healthy rela...