This Tantric Life with Layla Martin

Shownotes    How to go from sexual shame to cosmic, multi-orgasmic sex Why orgasm should be non-negotiable in your relationship How fear of sexuality impacts a developing nervous system The most common relationship problem women face What it looks like to leave religion and embrace spirituality How to become multi-orgasmic after years of shutdown, no matter your age   Bio Talaina is a sexual liber...

Shownotes    How spiritual growth can translate directly into better sex The #1 thing every man should do when he wakes up in the morning Why sports pressure was easier for Brenden than being in conflict with his partner A simple daily practice that can change everything for men How to bring out the best in a man as a woman Why you need to be whole in yourself to experience true masculinity and fe...

Shownotes    Why orgasm doesn't have to mean climax (and what it does mean) Mama Gena's story of failing her final test for a sexuality class The best approach for a woman who is struggling to orgasm Why women have the ability to turn on anytime, under any circumstance What an extended massive orgasm practice is How having your own pleasure practice makes dating better   Bio Regena Thomashauer, be...

Shownotes    How to transform difficult moments in a relationship into turning points What distinguishes an abusive relationship from a partner with trauma How reclaiming your sexuality can take your partnership to a new level The four pillars that have helped Aubrey and Brian move through challenges The one question to ask yourself when you feel triggered by your partner What makes conflict the s...

Shownotes    The real reason premature ejaculation happens How a Tantric orgasm feels different than a default orgasm Why pushing your body during sex actually blocks pleasure How to train your body for deeper pleasure and sexual experiences How to bring breast activation into your lovemaking experiences The power of yin versus yang in sexual experiences   Bio Diana Richardson is widely regarded a...

Shownotes    Layla's story of encountering aliens for the first time How psilocybin impacts people's sex lives compared to SSRIs What changed for Tomasso sexually after a guided psilocybin experience  What makes your romantic partner the best, or worst, thing for your nervous system Why a healthy, happy man can set a tone for an entire relationship Why choosing your partner is the most important d...

Shownotes  How to attract what Seren calls Earth Alpha men Why healing trauma is an act of cultural magic How quantum leaps and manifestation often come from total collapse The difference between womb healing and the High Priestess path Layla and Seren's personal definitions of magic Why healing your wounds with the masculine allows you to see men as sacred   Bio Seren Bertrand is a cultural mysti...

Shownotes  Take your business to the next level with my FREE VITA Coaching Checklist Why Tantra allows you to be both fully spiritual and fully human The reason your nervous system goes numb trying to process intense emotion How to use spiritual practices as enrichment to your life rather than bypassing Why women's sexual energy after 40 years old ignites instead of dwindles A simple beginners' pr...

Shownotes  Take your business to the next level with my FREE VITA Coaching Checklist Layla and Rebecca share the stories of their Kundalini awakenings How undigested energy becomes trauma in our nervous systems How a Goddess dress and a case of norovirus became a spiritual crossroads for Layla How to tell whether your soul or your ego is speaking Rebecca's favorite simple way to stay connected wit...

Shownotes  Take your business to the next level with my FREE VITA Coaching Checklist How pelvic floor health directly connects to pleasure How modern life and high heels create tightness in your pelvic floor What you can start doing now to improve your pelvic floor health Lauren's advice to women who feel numbness during sex Bonus pelvic floor practice with Layla   Bio Lauren Ohayon is the creator...

Shownotes  Take your business to the next level with my FREE VITA Coaching Checklist Layla explains what she calls the 3% in a relationship Why it's important to process challenges somatically using your bodies The #1 question Layla asks herself when conflict arises How to use conflict as a vehicle into a deeper level of connection How a couple in their 70s went from roommates to intimacy, safety,...

Shownotes  Take your business to the next level with my FREE VITA Coaching Checklist Exactly what the "witch wound" is and where it lives in your body The one thing Layla would change in the Catholic teachings Why spiritual lies live inside our bodies as self-hatred How spirituality impacts our ability to be a sexual being  What most people still don't understand about Mary Magdalene   Bio Meggan...

Shownotes  Take your business to the next level with my FREE VITA Coaching Checklist Ian's definition of great sex and how you can bring it into practice Why basic chemical attraction is part of what keeps couples together How dating apps impact relational and sexual experiences The number one key to Ian and his wife's sex life after 25 years together A daily practice for men and one for women to...

Shownotes  Take your business to the next level with my FREE VITA Coaching Checklist Different ways we unknowingly leak our sexual energy in modern life Key ways to begin rebuilding your sexual energy How exchanging energy with your partner leads to increased pleasure What obstacles men face in becoming multi-orgasmic and how to fix them A simple practice to feel your Qi in less than 30 seconds Bi...

Shownotes  Take your business to the next level with my FREE VITA Coaching Checklist How the American approach to pleasure compares to other cultures Layla shares one of her favorite cemetery sex stories The #1 way to get back into a sexual headspace How to approach shame around your sexuality Dr. Kate shares a take home practice you can use to connect with your body sexually Bio Dr. Kate Balestri...

Show Notes  Take your business to the next level with my ⁠ VITA™ Coaching Checklist ⁠   The difference between objective truth vs. your truth (a.k.a. how to stop arguing with your own assumptions) A practical script for conflict that doesn't melt into blame soup The Five A's of Requests (Ask, Acknowledgement, Apology, Action, Agreements) How to repair trust and build integrity like it's a daily gy...

Shownotes Take your business to the next level with my ⁠ FREE VITA Coaching Checklist ⁠ How Shay's childhood taught her the impact trauma has on adult relationships Why we have a tendency to draw in partners who are a perfect match for our wound How to know if you're in a dead end dynamic in your relationship The one question Shay asks herself when her inner saboteur comes up The importance of lov...

Shownotes What Sarah's awakening and transition into feminine magic looked like What sacred feminine ceremony actually is How Sarah's marriage was impacted by her awakening Why women's true happiness lies in their connection to themselves The hardest parts about learning the Priestess path The process Sarah went through to overcome her witch wound   Bio Sarah thought she was destined to have an "i...

Shownotes Terry's "grid" that reveals how your trauma shows up in relationships The difference between individual empowerment and relational empowerment Which quadrant of the grid Layla is on and how she got there Why Terry calls our relationships our "biosphere" Terry's best advice for shifting out of anger and into connection A powerful guided boundary practice to follow along with   Bio   Terry...

Shownotes Why the cervix alters your state of consciousness How to move through a violation with your cervix What basic cervical dearmoring looks like inside your body The importance of understanding sovereignty in a relationship The phases of dearmoring safely Olivia's advice for reaching exquisite cosmic cervical orgasms   Bio Olivia Bryant is the founder of Self:Cervix and creator of the Cervic...

Shownotes What most people don't realize about the happiest couples The difference between narcissistic abuse vs toxicity from trauma How to never get ghosted again What exactly relationship repair is and why it's important Why repair is an ongoing practice Four of the most important skills required to repair successfully   Bio Baya Voce is a relationship repair expert helping couples fight better...

Shownotes How purity culture manifests in women's bodies and sexual experiences Why a woman's pleasure is a gift to everyone around her How ecstatic states purify and cleanse the soul  Why shame is actually the gateway to pleasure A powerful practice that saved Dr. Kim's life Why Jesus' ministry would not exist without the women who supported it   Bio Dr. Kimberly Rose Pendleton is a speaker, writ...

Shownotes   The importance of focusing on connection instead of healing How to describe your feelings from your body instead of your head The most effective way to teach attunement to men Why lack of attunement feels like apathy The difference between suppression and containment What it feels like to be present inside of yourself   Bio   Steven Jaggers is a somatic educator, practitioner and the f...

Shownotes Why women have a hard time accessing cervical orgasms What sex is like before cervical healing vs. what it's like after A guided cervical micropractice you can follow along with How to create a relationship with your cervix if it's been removed 3 Ways you can connect with your cervix every day Why your cervix is connected to having a healthy nervous system   Bio Jamie Elizabeth Thompson...

Shownotes   How to use pain to carve out space for more joy The key to re-establishing beautiful orgasmic experiences Layla's experience training terror into safety in her nervous system The tools that allowed Layla to love greater than her relational trauma Why some of our earliest imprints of whether pleasure is safe happen in infancy How to heal trauma from a resource perspective so it becomes...