Things You Learn in Therapy

Send us Fan Mail Can you really balance a new business while caring for aging parents? Tanya Walden knows firsthand the emotional rollercoaster of trying to juggle a burgeoning childcare business with the increasing demands of her elderly parents. She opens up about the suffocating guilt and bone-deep exhaustion that come with being torn between her dream job and familial responsibilities. Tanya e...

Send us Fan Mail Caring for our aging parents isn't easy or fun or without its emotional ups and downs. Katie Williams, a former teacher and a stay-at-home mom, shares her raw and heartfelt journey in this episode of "Things You Learn in Therapy." Katie dives into the unexpected challenges and emotional tolls that come with being part of the "sandwich generation." From jug...

Send us Fan Mail Celebrate our 100th episode of "Things You Learn in Therapy" and discover the profound insights from experts like Maureen Clancy on the nervous system and Liz Polinsky's advice for enhancing relationships through monthly meetings. We reflect on impactful discussions with Michelle Benyo about navigating grief, Tara Egan's strategies for coping with divorce, and...

Send us Fan Mail Can setting smart limits and allowing children to solve their own problems really foster their growth? Join this episode where we explore parenting strategies inspired by the article " 50 Easy Ways to Be a Fantastic Parent ." Discover how establishing mutual respect in your parent-child relationships and differentiating between discipline and punishment can significantly...

Send us Fan Mail What if you could foster a positive relationship with your teenager instead of constantly expecting the worst? Tune in to our latest episode with Dr. Beth Trammell, where we dive into strategies for engaging with teens. We discuss the importance of offering them the independence they need while helping them navigate their inevitable mistakes. Discover how to provide balanced feedb...

Send us Fan Mail I'm your host, Dr. Beth Trammell, and I'm excited to share our summer lineup, which includes essential conversations about caring for aging parents, planning your ideal summer, and embracing the joy of playfulness with insights from our special guest, Colleen Martinez. Plus, get ready to master the art of teaching and practicing rest, navigating life with grown children,...

Send us Fan Mail Feel like you always aim for a "good summer" and then sometimes fall short?? Listen in as we explore intentional goal setting for the summer months. We will share practical advice on how to set realistic and specific goals. Whether you're looking to boost your health, plan unforgettable trips, or finally tackle those lingering projects, this episode is packed with a...

Send us Fan Mail Ever wondered why the line at the grocery store feels like a test of your soul's patience? You're not alone. This crossover episode with CEV includes my friend, Leslie Bolser, Creative Director for Core Essential Values, where we reveal personal battles with patience, especially in the throes of parenting. The struggle is real, but so are the strategies we share to help...

Send us Fan Mail Have you ever stumbled upon a therapy that speaks to both the intricacies of the brain and the whispers of the body? That's exactly what brain spotting does, and in our recent conversation with trauma specialist Jessica, we uncovered the depths of this transformative therapy. Jessica, with her brain spotting certification, takes us on a journey beyond the confines of traditio...

Send us Fan Mail Grief touches each of us in unexpected ways, and when it does, the journey can feel isolating and relentless. In addressing the tender path of mourning, we recognize that it can stem from various losses, not solely the death of a loved one. In our heartfelt conversation, I share insights on the deeply personal and unpredictable nature of grief, urging patience and understanding fo...

Send us Fan Mail No foolin' around here on April Fools' Day! I have a bonus episode for you today! Have you ever caught yourself glued to your phone while your child tries to share their day? The truth is, you might not realize the impact that undivided attention has on your little ones until you hear us break it down today. This episode isn't just about eye-opening statistics; it&a...

Send us Fan Mail Refreshed from a brief retreat and equipped with newfound wisdom, I've returned to our cherished space. Let's unwrap the essentials that are missing from our everyday learning—those crucial life hacks that warrant a spotlight. Discover with me how tweaking your caffeine routine can profoundly affect your sleep patterns and anxiety levels. Together, we'll confront th...

Send us Fan Mail Ever wondered how to foster resilience and independence in our children? Join us as we unwrap the layers of educational support with the insightful school counselor Katie Preston. Katie brings her rich background in social work and counseling into our heartwarming conversation, imparting her wisdom on the art of asking for help and the importance of building resilience through sel...

Send us Fan Mail Ever found yourself at your wit's end, labeling your child's less-than-angelic moment with a word like 'brat'? Listen in as we dissect why this seemingly innocuous term should be dropped from our parental language. This episode promises a transformative journey as we unravel the complex tapestry of language and its impact on our little ones. Discover the deep-s...

Send us Fan Mail Have you ever found yourself at a loss, trying to navigate your child's emotional outbursts or unexpected behaviors? This episode is a heartfelt journey into the power of our emotional responses and their profound effects on shaping a child's character. Drawing from personal experiences and the wisdom gleaned from my website, Make Words Matter for Good.com, I share how a...

Send us Fan Mail Every parent remembers their own awkward teenage years, but witnessing your child grapple with social anxiety can leave you feeling helpless. Through the intimate lens of our own experiences, we unravel the complex web of teen social anxiety, distinguishing the fine line between common adolescent awkwardness and the red flags that signal a call to action. As guardians, we're...

Send us Fan Mail Imagine unlocking the secret to a fulfilling career that goes beyond the paycheck; we're here to guide you on that journey. This week, Kali Wolken, with a remarkable ten years of shaping young careers, unveils the art of aligning one's passions with a rewarding career path. Together, we unpack the essence of a job being more than just a financial necessity—it's a si...

Send us Fan Mail Hey Listener! I am glad you are here. I've recently had several conversations with parents of teens and so I went back and listened to some episodes on Kids These Days that I could share again here. This was one of my FAVORITE episodes and although we talk about the power of the pandemic, I am finding so much of what Jody shared from this episode to still be true today. I hop...

Send us Fan Mail Listen in as I team up with the remarkable Dr. Tim Hess to unravel the complexities of university counseling centers—a crucial sanctuary for students in the throes of personal growth and academic challenges. This episode promises a treasure trove of insights for anyone fascinated by the delicate art of guiding young adults through the often tumultuous journey of higher education....

Send us Fan Mail Discover the profound wisdom of trees and their influence on our psychological health as Dr. Kelly Savery, a seasoned counseling psychologist, shares her unique approach to integrating these gentle giants into therapeutic practices. Our exchange sheds light on the stabilizing presence trees offer us and how they act as living metaphors for personal growth and resilience. Together,...

Send us Fan Mail When Michelle Benyo faced the unimaginable loss of her son to cancer, she found a way to channel her pain into purpose, guiding other bereaved parents through the fog of grief. Her story, a testament to the power of transformation, is one we unravel in today's episode, where she shares her insights on Good Grief Parenting. With candor and compassion, we traverse the complex e...

Send us Fan Mail Have you ever wondered how the simple act of being there for someone could be a beacon of support through their suffering? Join us as Dr. Nick Lee and I unravel this profound question, sharing personal and professional reflections on the transformative power of presence in therapy and relationships. Dr. Lee, with his expertise in counseling psychology and integrated care from Open...

Send us Fan Mail Are you ready to transform your approach to New Year's resolutions and embrace a balanced path to self-improvement? In this replay, Dr. Michael Alcee joins us once again, bringing his profound insights into why resolutions simultaneously inspire and daunt us. Together, we unpack the annual ritual of setting goals, dissecting the psyche behind the burst of ambition that greets...

Send us Fan Mail Welcome to a deeply personal and transformative episode of our podcast where we unpack the complexities of pregnancy loss, infertility, and maternal mental health, through the inspiring lens of our special guest, Dr. Corie Hess. Drawing from her personal journey of pregnancy loss and near-death childbirth experience, Dr. Hess unravels the unique pain of grieving a future that was...

Send us Fan Mail Have you ever found yourself caught in the relentless pursuit of perfection, or bending over backwards to please others at the cost of your own happiness? If yes, this conversation with renowned therapist Laura Sgro, a specialist in anxiety, trauma, and self-worth, will resonate deeply with you. We take an unflinching look at the roots of perfectionism, from childhood expectations...