The UNcivilized Podcast with Traver Boehm

I stumbled upon David’s work just a short time ago and was immediately hooked. After leaving a successful acting career in Hollywood, David did what very few actors do and became a therapist! And a brilliant one at that. In this episode we talk about following the path of your soul, about the ways men trip themselves up, and the common challenges found int relationship. This is a powerful episode...

This is a big topic and one that often gets overlooked or misunderstood by most men. And, here at UNcivilized we’re interested in supporting you in becoming unlike most men. Radically so. In this solo episode I give you four concrete ways you can shift your own ways to help everyone around you feel safer, especially any woman in your life. They’re powerful. They’re field tested. And they work. Enj...

Raj Jana is wears many hats. CEO of a tech company, teacher, speaker, podcast host, and seeker. Getting to sit down with him here in Boulder was an incredible experience as we dove into his journey from running a coffee startup to his now leading a team of entrepreneurs creating digital mapping of our emotional lives. This is a great episode if you're curious about how humans operate, the power of...

Bonner Rinn is an extraordinary man and he’s a man with Cerebral Palsy. But honestly that’s not what’s interesting about him.  What is interesting is what he’s done with his life going from a home where his condition wasn’t able to be spoken about to running a world wide organization brining awareness and resources to kids with disabilities in developing countries. Along the way he’s had to do his...

If you’re a Nice Guy, or someone who struggles with either finding or fully embodying your purpose — then this episode is for you. In this edition of the UNcivilized Podcast, I have a man from my Kill The Nice Guy community who shares his pattern of struggling with believing he’s worth doing what he really wants in the world. He’s a massage therapist who wants to shift to providing bigger and bett...

In this episode I sit down with 10 time author Sylvester McNutt. Sly is a good friend and brother who I’ve known for years now. His new book is all about crafting the life you want to live and letting go of all the things that stand in your way. You’ll get to hear us dive into how he now has to organize his life since becoming a father, what he sees as the biggest roadblocks people have to creatin...

I met Nicky at a dinner in London two months ago and knew immediately I wanted to interview her. She runs a world wide company working with people at the deepest levels of their healing. Her work is life changing. And — her story is equally fascinating. Going from a drug addicted twenty year old to a business powerhouse, then having to rebuild her entire life from the ground up after a freak accid...

If you’re a Nice Guy, or someone who works in a service profession like coaching, teaching, or parenting — then this episode is for you. In this edition of the UNcivilized Podcast, I have a man from my Kill The Nice Guy community who shares his pattern of struggling with discipline when it come to doing the things that will benefit HIM. If it’s to help one of his students or kids, he has no proble...

I was told NOT to do this interview. Why? Because “no one cares about women’s sexual health.” Well…that wasn’t true, as this is the 3rd most listened to episode in the Uncivilized Podcast. Carly pulls no punches as she teaches you all you need to know about your woman, her cycle, and more.  This is an episode every single man and every single woman should listen to. Enjoy. Please do share this wit...

Ginger Kern teaches primarily women how to be in relationship in a new paradigm. One based on mutual respect, devotion, and truth. She also adds that this will be a “relationship without leaks.” Sounds intriguing doesn’t it? We dive into Ginger’s marriage, why it wasn’t the right fit for her and what has happened in her life and her partner’s life once they stepped into their devotional frame.  Wh...

Chris Bale is one of the most unique men I know. He’s a fellow acupuncturist, a men’s guide, and an energy worker like no other. In this episode we bring back one of the Top 5 most listened to episodes of the Uncivilized Podcast just for you — this is the first day I ever spoke with Chris. We’ve since become good friends and I know Chris well. His teachings are beyond potent as you will hear. In t...

If you’re a Nice Guy, or someone who likes to put off hard tasks to the very last minute, then of course, beat yourself up for doing so — and not doing more in your life — then this episode is for you. In this edition of the UNcivilized Podcast, I have a man from my Kill The Nice Guy community who shares his pattern of not doing what he needs to in a timely manner. Then guilting and shaming himsel...

I’m taking the mic again for this short yet powerful episode on what I see as a major pain point for me — being disconnected from our instinct and intuition. What blocks access to this powerful source of guidance and information you ask? Any shame or guilt you have about being a man. In this episode I share conversations I’ve had with a number of men in the past week and invite you to challenge an...

Duey Freeman is an UNcivilized LEGEND. He’s shifted the UNcivilized Movement into a far more relational frame with his teachings, his facilitating at our workshops, and his incredible work with horses. In this episode we bring back one of the Top 5 most listened to episodes of the Uncivilized Podcast just for you — this is the first day I got to meet Duey! We dive into trauma, equine therapy, and...

I’ve been waiting YEARS to interview Kristal Desantis as she is a therapist for men. And she’s a woman so her view and understanding of men is unique. In this episode we explore a number of challenges men have, primarily in relationships, but then take a plunge on the question of whether vulnerability is actually healthy in men’s relationships. This is a great conversation I know you’ll enjoy. Enj...

If you’re a Nice Guy, or someone who has shame around their financial situation, this episode is for you! In this edition of the UNcivilized Podcast, I have a man from my Kill The Nice Guy community who shares his story of losing his job, right when he and his new girlfriend are just getting together. This had the potential to throw him down the stairs of shame and he shares with us how he prevent...

As the nature of relationship rapidly changes and people begin looking for alternate ways of constructing their relational and sexual lives, teachers like Sophie have been continually sought out. Sophie’s creation of the Cosmic Masculine puts both men and women into a relational frame that’s both devotional and sacred while allowing infinite space for the down to Earth parts of our being as well....

On Sunday July 7th at 9:30 in the morning, my father passed. I was there with my Mom, holding his hand as he took his final breaths. While this is a very private moment to share, there are elements to it that I know will touch you and hopefully inspire you in all of your relationships. In this solo episode I touch on three of the key parts of this experience, one from the wild lead up to the decis...

If you are under 30 you need to listen to this episode. If you know a man under 30, you also need to listen to this! Blake Chalfant is already a force to be reckoned with in the men’s space and he’s only 23 years old. His life changed drastically after a spiritual awakening he had as a college student and he know coaches and councils young men, guiding them to live more connected, authentic lives....

If you’re a Nice Guy, or someone with loose boundaries, this episode is for you. In this edition of the UNcivilized Podcast, I have a man from my Kill The Nice Guy community who in a tough spot.  He’s in a relationship that he values but his partner has an unreasonable demand — she wants him to check in with her every hour on the hour. We get real here with why he’s letting her request keep him st...

Let’s be honest — it’s challenging to be in relationship these days, and that’s because there’s so much conflicting information out there. Men are supposed to lead! But only at the magical right time… Men are supposed to be protectors! But that’s also toxic… Men are supposed to be emotionally connected to their women! But don’t show emotion because that’s weakness… In this episode we bring back on...

I believe there are three levels or stages of relationship you can engage in: — Extractive & Transactional — Character & Role Playing — Sacred, Divine, & Uncivilized Each stage also has sexual level associated with it… If you’re curious about what’s available to you relationally and sexually, this is the episode for you. It’s a punch solo where I break down each stage and what you can...

Today I sit down with renowned men’s mental health coach, Elise Michaels for the second time on the pod. Elise is a force in the men’s world with over a million followers across her many channels. In this episode we speak into a variety of topics from her work with men, how men can help shift out of rock bottom, and of course — the last two years of Elise’s life. She’s recently ended an abusive re...

In this edition of the UNcivilized Podcast, I have a man from my Kill The Nice Guy community who has stepped into a brand new role — he’s the step father of two teenage twin boys. He also wants to show up powerfully for himself, his fiancé, and the boys in the family.  We talk about how his Nice Guy patterns are holding him back and keeping him from fully engaging with both his woman, and her kids...

In this episode of our live show UNcivilized UNplugged, you get to sit in with our studio audience as I chat with Danya River on how you can keep all of your hard earned transformations. Danya is a master of the human nervous system as well as a high sought out executive coach. I know because I was someone who once sought her out and have worked with her for years now. In this episode not only wil...