The Ultimate Intimacy Podcast

In this episode Nick and Amy announce their new Sexual Intimacy Marriage Course (that will change your life). This course focuses specifically on sexual intimacy and covers so many aspects and topics about sex. The course was put together with the help of marriage experts, and also from our own personal experiences in each of these areas. So many couples have such a hard time talking about sexual...

Research shows around 50% of all marriages in the United States will end in divorce.  That is a staggering statistic! Why is this happening and what is causing this trend? While there are probably many answers to this question, but couples are obviously falling out of love. When couples are first dating, they do the things in the relationship that builds love and that continues to grow. They get m...

Many of us often wonder "what are the key things couples that have good marriages do differently?" In this episode, Nick and Amy discuss the key elements of a healthy marriage. If you have these things in your marriage, you most likely have a wonderful marriage. In this podcast will will learn what these key elements are and how to implement them into your marriage to help you find &quot...

Every parent want's their children to be happy in life, to do well and be successful. So what parent wouldn't do everything they can to make their kid's life better and easier? The problem is many parents take this to another level to the point they do everything for their child and destroy their marriage at the same time. This behavior is often referred to as "smothering paren...

We all go into marriage with expectations, and then we quickly find out it is much more difficult and different than expected with many disappointments along the way... and that's ok! Marriage isn't just about the final destination - it's about the journey together to get there. Of course there are going to be bumps, roadblocks, detours and many other unexpected obstacles... That is...

According to MANY Divorce Attorneys, lack of intimacy is rated the #2  reason for divorce. #1 is most often infidelity.. which can often be the result of #2 (lack of intimacy). Bottom line, lack of intimacy/sex is one of THE main causes of divorce. There are so many couples that have deep love for each other and get along great, have fun times together and have everything a good and healthy relati...

Sex is an AMAZING thing that can bring couples closer together, strengthen their marriage and be incredible for both of spouses if they are implementing good things into their relationship that brings them closer together. On the flip side, we all know there are also things (that if implemented in your sexual intimacy) can quickly tear couples apart and DESTROY their marriage. This may be one of t...

Want to know how to turn your spouse on (for both husband and wife) and drive them crazy in the bedroom? Nick and Amy share tips for how a husband can drive his wife crazy, and how a wife can drive her husband crazy in the bedroom. They share the things that have transformed their marriage and sexual intimacy. After 20 years of marriage, their sexual intimacy is better than it has ever been and th...

You look at some couples and see that the wife is madly in love with her husband, and you wonder.. "what is the secret"? Over the past several years we've talked to a lot of couples about things their husbands do to make them feel loved. There is also a great article from To Love Honor And Vacuum titled " 10 Things husbands who are great lovers do" which we reference in th...

We constantly talk about things couples can do to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in their relationship. However, we understand that things are not always perfect in a relationship and fighting is something that is normal and healthy to do, but it is important to fight "the right way" so that your arguments and disagreements move your relationship forward and don't cause any harm...

Many couples wonder why their sex life isn't like what they see on tv, or in the movies and compare their marriage to things that are not realistic. Couples have myths about sex that keep them from having the "Ultimate Intimacy" in their marriage that they deserve to have. Nick and Amy discuss some of these myths and offer solutions to help you find more sexual enjoyment (and freque...

In many of their previous podcasts, Nick and Amy have discussed things you can do in your marriage to create more emotional and physical intimacy, and also the things that can hurt intimacy in your marriage. Most of them are pretty common things that many couples deal with and recognize they impact their marriages...but there are also several hidden things that can "kill" the intimacy in...

Many couple's don't discuss or feel the need to have boundaries in their marriage. They feel that boundaries take away freedom, or that they would only be needed due to a lack of trust in the relationship. Nothing could be further from the truth. Couple's that haven't discussed or agreed to certain boundaries in their marriage are much more likely to do something (even unintent...

It's amazing all the distractions or little things that can get in the way, and keep a couple from connecting, which of course will negatively impact their marriage. So many of these distractions take place at the most critical time of the day (and place) where couples should be connecting the most... in the bedroom. Most couples dont realize the impact and consequences this has on their marr...

We just had our 20th anniversary and we were discussing all the things we have learned  over the past 20 years of our marriage (which are many). There were a lot of expectations of what we thought marriage would be like, and perceptions of things in life with our relationship and how we viewed other relationships as well. Of course we were wrong about many of our expectations and perceptions of wh...

In this episode, we share the results from the social media poll we did with our Ultimate Intimacy audience about husbands and wives favorite and least favorite sexual positions, the ideal times a week to be sexually intimate, tips for their spouse, and so much more! We also discuss the many benefits of sex and share the top voted sex positions. You might be as shocked as we were with the poll ans...

Last week we talked with Expedition Marriage about the 6 Things Your Husband Needs From You, so this week we want to talk to the husbands about the 6 Things Your Wife Needs From You. Often times in marriage we think for our marriage to change for the better, we have to do some major life changing things, but it is most often the small and simple things that make the difference in having a mediocre...

In this episode, Nick and Amy interview Chris and Jamie Bailey with Expedition Marriage about an article they wrote on their blog about what husbands need to hear from their wive's. If you are a wife, these simple things can transform your marriage and are very easy to do.  Your husband needs: To hear that you believe in him and support him Sexual intimacy and to connect with you To know you...

How to get your wife to want more sex?.... This is the million dollar question that most men would sell all they own to know the answer to ;) We polled over 1000 wives on social media to get REAL answers for you. Here are the questions we asked in the poll: What non-sexual things does your husband do that turns you on and gets you in the mood for sex? What things does your husband do to get you me...

The majority of people now days have an addiction to technology which has a significant impact on their sex life and relationship. The stats are incredible. In this episode Nick and Amy discuss an article from Emily Jamea called "The Modern Day Libido Killer" found HERE , and also share insights from an article from The 80/80 marriage, about how technology is killing our sex lives and re...

Nick and Amy interview Dr. Kim Kimberling with Awesome Marriage about his online course "Marriage 911" to help couples re connect and find "Ultimate Intimacy" in their marriages.  Some of the topics they discuss in the podcast are:  What is the wrong and right way to fight? What is healthy communication? Expectations in marriage Boundaries in and out of the marriage Turning to...

Nick and Amy interview Bryan Reeves who is the author of a new book called "Choose Her Everyday (or leave her)" about the importance of choosing your spouse everyday in your relationship.  Bryan compares a relationship to a precious fragrant flower that is brought into the home, but then fails to be watered. Relationships start out beautiful and amazing but if we dont continue to nourish...

About a year and a half ago, we had a lady write to us and say she would never be using the Ultimate Intimacy App again based upon an article we had on the app. We were shocked and wondered what we had on the app that would cause this as we personally review and post everything that goes on the app.  It was an article that was written by a Sex expert and Marriage Counselor. We read through the art...

Since 1990 the divorce rate among couples between the ages of 55-64 has more than doubled! Why is this happening? Aren't the years after the kids move out, and couples head into retirement suppose to be the best? Many couples focus so much time and energy on raising their kids, they often neglect their own relationship only to find out that it is VERY difficult to reconnect once they have gro...

We have all seen couples that look like they have an amazing relationship and have everything together and we wonder what their secrets are and yearn for that kind of relationship. On the flip side, we have all seen the couples that we have no idea how they are staying together as it looks like they are so unhappy together.  So what is the difference and what are the secrets of happy couples? Whil...